Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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After a 3 hr pointless "argument" with my ex that caused me to go to bed at 3 am and be tired as fukk today, I realized that these women are a distraction to my goals.

Like I literally sat in class and reflected on the things I wanted to accomplish and the man I wanted to be. Then I was mad at myself because I'm fukking up this opportunity I have right now. I'm not using my resources appropriately and I'm not putting enough time in my "craft". It's nobody's fault but mine for allowing this situation to happen but I had a moment of clarity brehs.

The only thing stopping me and the future I want is my lack of focus. Time to cut out the distractions.

This is why they say, "you can't live with em, can't live without em"
 

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I have a low tolerance for the bullshyt.. If it comes a scenario where the chick isn't doing nothing but texting or FBing and we're not building on no mutual way of meeting for the future, She's gone. If it comes a scenario where she has to constantly be on some "I can't get rid of my ex" shyt. She's gone. I'm not gonna sit there and play chatty patty all day with no complete payoff. I love spitting from the cuff, I'm no big texter at all unless I'm at my job with nothing else best to do but I usually get my best results when speaking. That Texting shyt is usually for suckaz that are playing the wing and not willing to go into full gear.
 

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Gems On Gems On Gems In This Thread :wow:
I Think I've Said This In This Thread Before But It's Almost No Hope Of Finding A Wife In This fukkery Of A Generation :mjcry:
I'm Used To Being Alone But It Does Get Old After Awhile & I'd Be Lying If I Said I Didn't Think About How Nice It Would Be To Meet A Cool Chick Who's Crazy Over Me Like I'm Crazy Over Her & Go Out On Cool Dates & Shyt Like The Zoo Then Dinner Then I Get Some Of The Best Damn Head On The Way Home While I'm Driving Bumping Jodeci:mjcry:
 

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Gems On Gems On Gems In This Thread :wow:
I Think I've Said This In This Thread Before But It's Almost No Hope Of Finding A Wife In This fukkery Of A Generation :mjcry:
I'm Used To Being Alone But It Does Get Old After Awhile & I'd Be Lying If I Said I Didn't Think About How Nice It Would Be To Meet A Cool Chick Who's Crazy Over Me Like I'm Crazy Over Her & Go Out On Cool Dates & Shyt Like The Zoo Then Dinner Then I Get Some Of The Best Damn Head On The Way Home While I'm Driving Bumping Jodeci:mjcry:

There there :hug: . You literally echoed myself in this post . It's not too late unless you keep thinking that way .
 

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There's a huge uprooting of morals and an earlier and earlier sexualization of our culture and we wonder why things are so backwards. You take God out and this is what you get sadly. A lot of fellas don't see it until they get older because they're having so much fun with these wild chicks... Then when they get 25 or so and want to settle down, they see that the stock for 'wifey for life' isn't all that great.
Honestly man, if you don't luck up on one here, don't close your options of exploring other, more traditional countries. If you can't find a wifey in new Babylon, she might be in another part of the world.
 

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There's a huge uprooting of morals and an earlier and earlier sexualization of our culture and we wonder why things are so backwards. You take God out and this is what you get sadly. A lot of fellas don't see it until they get older because they're having so much fun with these wild chicks... Then when they get 25 or so and want to settle down, they see that the stock for 'wifey for life' isn't all that great.
Honestly man, if you don't luck up on one here, don't close your options of exploring other, more traditional countries. If you can't find a wifey in new Babylon, she might be in another part of the world.

you shall not take a wife nor have sons or daughters in this place
 

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There there :hug: . You literally echoed myself in this post . It's not too late unless you keep thinking that way .

if you just want to sleep around, talk to a gazillon chicks, get your "dikk wet" left and right this is the day

if you want something of substance, something substantial good luck, all you can do is hope and pray there is still one classy chick out there amongst the trash
 

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Gems On Gems On Gems In This Thread :wow:
I Think I've Said This In This Thread Before But It's Almost No Hope Of Finding A Wife In This fukkery Of A Generation :mjcry:
I'm Used To Being Alone But It Does Get Old After Awhile & I'd Be Lying If I Said I Didn't Think About How Nice It Would Be To Meet A Cool Chick Who's Crazy Over Me Like I'm Crazy Over Her & Go Out On Cool Dates & Shyt Like The Zoo Then Dinner Then I Get Some Of The Best Damn Head On The Way Home While I'm Driving Bumping Jodeci:mjcry:

all i can say is trust me its better to be alone than messing with a large quantity of women out there, emotionally bonding with the wrong person can screw you over in so many ways.

its easy to get a cool chcik whose crazy over you and ddoing all that ish but most of the times it will only last a 3 months why your still mysterious in the novelty stage.

I love women but I love myself and my sanity more
 
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Thing is we still text and she was over here had me feeling on her ass and shyt...then tells me she could never trust me and I can't change

Plus told me she has other dudes texting her.

:francis:...how she catch you breh?

And if you wanted a better chance to get back in her good graces, you should have fell back and let her decide what she wanted to do..

Now she gonna puppet you along doggie..:francis:

When dealing with women, what sounds weird and illogical is usually the right move...:leostare:
 

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Teach these gems to your sons brehs.
:wow:

When a woman wants u that pride is gone, i met up with shorty looking foul and in no mood to date.

Usually us dudes carry the date and its dynamic but by the end this girl turned a crappy day into a good one. Thats all a man wants, that peace of mind and its why dimes win.

..aint even showed her my final form :ufdup:
 

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Gems On Gems On Gems In This Thread :wow:
I Think I've Said This In This Thread Before But It's Almost No Hope Of Finding A Wife In This fukkery Of A Generation :mjcry:
I'm Used To Being Alone But It Does Get Old After Awhile & I'd Be Lying If I Said I Didn't Think About How Nice It Would Be To Meet A Cool Chick Who's Crazy Over Me Like I'm Crazy Over Her & Go Out On Cool Dates & Shyt Like The Zoo Then Dinner Then I Get Some Of The Best Damn Head On The Way Home While I'm Driving Bumping Jodeci:mjcry:

Had to go there huh breh?

:lolbron:

But seriously, that scenario described above is exactly what most of us all want. Stay true to yourself and always be on the look out.
 

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There there :hug: . You literally echoed myself in this post . It's not too late unless you keep thinking that way .
Yea I'm A Pessimist But We'll See :francis:
all i can say is trust me its better to be alone than messing with a large quantity of women out there, emotionally bonding with the wrong person can screw you over in so many ways.

its easy to get a cool chcik whose crazy over you and ddoing all that ish but most of the times it will only last a 3 months why your still mysterious in the novelty stage.

I love women but I love myself and my sanity more
I Already Know That..Trust..I'm Verrry Selective Of Who I Give My Time To Which Is The Reason I Haven't Been In A Relationship In 4 Years..I Have A Low Tolerance For The BS
Had to go there huh breh?

:lolbron:

But seriously, that scenario described above is exactly what most of us all want. Stay true to yourself and always be on the look out.
Just Thought I'd A Little Humor In There Breh :russ:
 

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Gems On Gems On Gems In This Thread :wow:
I Think I've Said This In This Thread Before But It's Almost No Hope Of Finding A Wife In This fukkery Of A Generation :mjcry:
I'm Used To Being Alone But It Does Get Old After Awhile & I'd Be Lying If I Said I Didn't Think About How Nice It Would Be To Meet A Cool Chick Who's Crazy Over Me Like I'm Crazy Over Her & Go Out On Cool Dates & Shyt Like The Zoo Then Dinner Then I Get Some Of The Best Damn Head On The Way Home While I'm Driving Bumping Jodeci:mjcry:
:mjcry::mjcry::mjcry::mjcry:
 
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