Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This is the sad state of society we're living in today and what happens with the degradation of morals:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifes...5f07ec-03e8-11e5-8bda-c7b4e9a8f7ac_story.html

Just reading this article reminded me I had a date yesterday and it was nice just talked and talked for like 3 hours, only spent 7 bucks. thing is I already knew as soon as she was out of my presence she prob had like 10 dudes messaging her and prob was setting something up for tonight and prob was right back on okcupid. This is how "modern" dating is cultivating options left and right.


I even woke up this morning and checked my email and i have 4 new msgs in my inbox, you never have to be "satisfied", you can always get that hit of novelty so easily
 

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Just reading this article reminded me I had a date yesterday and it was nice just talked and talked for like 3 hours, only spent 7 bucks. thing is I already knew as soon as she was out of my presence she prob had like 10 dudes messaging her and prob was setting something up for tonight and prob was right back on okcupid. This is how "modern" dating is cultivating options left and right.


I even woke up this morning and checked my email and i have 4 new msgs in my inbox, you never have to be "satisfied", you can always get that hit of novelty so easily

Yeah man, the vast majority of women you meet are always cultivating options. As soon as they get done talking to you, they've already got an inbox full of messages on whatever thirst trap networks they are on. Men are incredibly thirsty, so they are always filling women up with attention. Right when a woman hits 30+ and the attention starts drying up, that's when her personality shifts. Where can you even put women now to have any resemblance of peace of mind? Even at schools, some of them are messing with the students or at prisons, they are messing with prisoners. In this society, a woman has to have incredible morals, because society continually brainwashes her and she also has countless options to explore.

It's really why I shifted my attitude to one of not really worrying about women and what they are doing. No need to feel like garbage wondering what some woman is doing. Most of them are simply cultivating options. You can learn all kinds of game, but as soon as she gets bored of you, she has 10 other dudes hounding her, and as interesting as you are, there is always the novelty of something new out there. It's akin to how Eve had all the trees to eat from, but she had to get the one she was told she couldn't have. If you built your life around that woman, well, it'll be time to rebuild.

It's like you will sit and wonder why everything is so cool with a woman, but she just stops contacting you a month in for no reason and you wonder how she could be so cool with just not being in contact with you. Reason? She has several dudes she's talking to and decided to tilt in another direction. If he doesn't work out, she swings back over to you a couple of months later.

In the eyes of the average woman these days, you as a man are simply something she can dispense with when she pleases and in many cases, she is like a kid in a big toy store in which she has been given a greenlight to be able to play with any toy she pleases. So there's really no telling when she'll take off.

In this day and age, there are a few gems that are loyal, but when it's said and done, if you don't have one, there's little you can do. No need to waste your life worrying about those women who aren't loyal. Too many other things in life to enjoy than stressing out over potentially scandalous women. A woman's position in your life is best assumed to be temporary until SHE makes extreme effort to show you otherwise. Just always be careful about getting attached or allowing her in your life in any fashion to where she can adversely affect it if she decides to leave.
 

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Yeah man, the vast majority of women you meet are always cultivating options. As soon as they get done talking to you, they've already got an inbox full of messages on whatever thirst trap networks they are on. Men are incredibly thirsty, so they are always filling women up with attention. Right when a woman hits 30+ and the attention starts drying up, that's when her personality shifts. Where can you even put women now to have any resemblance of peace of mind? Even at schools, some of them are messing with the students or at prisons, they are messing with prisoners. In this society, a woman has to have incredible morals, because society continually brainwashes her and she also has countless options to explore.

It's really why I shifted my attitude to one of not really worrying about women and what they are doing. No need to feel like garbage wondering what some woman is doing. Most of them are simply cultivating options. You can learn all kinds of game, but as soon as she gets bored of you, she has 10 other dudes hounding her, and as interesting as you are, there is always the novelty of something new out there. It's akin to how Eve had all the trees to eat from, but she had to get the one she was told she couldn't have. If you built your life around that woman, well, it'll be time to rebuild.

It's like you will sit and wonder why everything is so cool with a woman, but she just stops contacting you a month in for no reason and you wonder how she could be so cool with just not being in contact with you. Reason? She has several dudes she's talking to and decided to tilt in another direction. If he doesn't work out, she swings back over to you a couple of months later.

In the eyes of the average woman these days, you as a man are simply something she can dispense with when she pleases and in many cases, she is like a kid in a big toy store in which she has been given a greenlight to be able to play with any toy she pleases. So there's really no telling when she'll take off.

In this day and age, there are a few gems that are loyal, but when it's said and done, if you don't have one, there's little you can do. No need to waste your life worrying about those women who aren't loyal. Too many other things in life to enjoy than stressing out over potentially scandalous women. A woman's position in your life is best assumed to be temporary until SHE makes extreme effort to show you otherwise. Just always be careful about getting attached or allowing her in your life in any fashion to where she can adversely affect it if she decides to leave.

its true its true :wow:,
 

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Brehs had a question.
Have any of you been with a girl whose religion has been a problem.
Been talking to a girl for a couple of months and everything seems cool but I can just tell that if we or our families ever spoke about religion, things would get awkward.
She's a good girl so I don't want to lead her on or drag things out knowing that it could never work out.
 

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Brehs had a question.
Have any of you been with a girl whose religion has been a problem.
Been talking to a girl for a couple of months and everything seems cool but I can just tell that if we or our families ever spoke about religion, things would get awkward.
She's a good girl so I don't want to lead her on or drag things out knowing that it could never work out.

if religion is a vital part of her life and isnt of yours, or yours is totally different, you'll be wasting your time

Just to many things, different path.

@Asantehene
 

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if religion is a vital part of her life and isnt of yours, or yours is totally different, you'll be wasting your time

Just to many things, different path.

@Asantehene

It's such a shame though lmao
She was a real one :to:
We both value it but especially our parents hold it in high regard too.
 

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some of these girls have entirely too much going on.

I texted this girl yesterday morning about going out last night(because last week she'd was really into me and said she wanted to hang out). Didnt hear back from her for several hours, so I texted her again & said, "you could've said you were busy, or just not interested", 30 mins later or so, she responded with "I'm so sorry, I thought I had replied..."

and I'm thinking to myself, she must have way TOO MUCH going(in the way of ppl hitting her up) on to be forgetting if you replied to someone asking you if you wanted to go out. Either that or she was lying.

I found out she does promo-model work on the side for a beer company. The more I think about that, the more I realize I shouldnt fool w/ her b/c she's probably being hit on by other guys all the time. Why do I always end up w/ these situations :heh::francis:
 

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some of these girls have entirely too much going on.

I texted this girl yesterday morning about going out last night(because last week she'd was really into me and said she wanted to hang out). Didnt hear back from her for several hours, so I texted her again & said, "you could've said you were busy, or just not interested", 30 mins later or so, she responded with "I'm so sorry, I thought I had replied..."

and I'm thinking to myself, she must have way TOO MUCH going(in the way of ppl hitting her up) on to be forgetting if you replied to someone asking you if you wanted to go out. Either that or she was lying.

I found out she does promo-model work on the side for a beer company. The more I think about that, the more I realize I shouldnt fool w/ her b/c she's probably being hit on by other guys all the time. Why do I always end up w/ these situations :heh::francis:
uughhh c'mon man, why you gotta do this? :scust:

A man doesn't say shyt like this
 

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some of these girls have entirely too much going on.

I texted this girl yesterday morning about going out last night(because last week she'd was really into me and said she wanted to hang out). Didnt hear back from her for several hours, so I texted her again & said, "you could've said you were busy, or just not interested", 30 mins later or so, she responded with "I'm so sorry, I thought I had replied..."

and I'm thinking to myself, she must have way TOO MUCH going(in the way of ppl hitting her up) on to be forgetting if you replied to someone asking you if you wanted to go out. Either that or she was lying.

I found out she does promo-model work on the side for a beer company. The more I think about that, the more I realize I shouldnt fool w/ her b/c she's probably being hit on by other guys all the time. Why do I always end up w/ these situations :heh::francis:
I Just Dont Understand Why Chicks Give You They Number Just To Take Hours To Txt Back..It's Just Stupid :mindblown:
I Don't Double Text Either
 

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People have their phone on them all the time man, you just aren't a priority.

When a girl is into you she texts back right away when she's not she hopes you get the point.

If you call them out they will lie, its better to just forget about it .

To many women out there to waste any time on those not interested.

If you applied for a job and heard nothing back, more than likely you didn't get it. You don't need to call and get confirmation, instead keep applying



some of these girls have entirely too much going on.

I texted this girl yesterday morning about going out last night(because last week she'd was really into me and said she wanted to hang out). Didnt hear back from her for several hours, so I texted her again & said, "you could've said you were busy, or just not interested", 30 mins later or so, she responded with "I'm so sorry, I thought I had replied..."

and I'm thinking to myself, she must have way TOO MUCH going(in the way of ppl hitting her up) on to be forgetting if you replied to someone asking you if you wanted to go out. Either that or she was lying.

I found out she does promo-model work on the side for a beer company. The more I think about that, the more I realize I shouldnt fool w/ her b/c she's probably being hit on by other guys all the time. Why do I always end up w/ these situations :heh::francis:
 
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