Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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A girl (R) was actually telling me a story about this kind of thing yesterday. Essentially (R) likes this guy (G). Her friend (J) likes another guy (T). The guy her friend likes fukks with her but doesnt want to actually date her. J saw T kissing some other girl in a club...got mad and then made out with G to make T jealous. This is the game

thats how it is with women, chick may think your a lmae a loser or whatever, but she sees an old photo of you and your ex and your ex is stunning suddenly its hey.
 

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So I had a date with this chick yesterday planned out...sent her a morning text and apparently it never sent. Was in my drafts. She texted that night asking why did I bail on her. :francis: Fortunately, we ended up meeting around 9:30 for drinks before she picked up her home girl from the airport. We run in the same group of people...and a lot of guys have tried and been friend zoned by her. :patrice:Gotta be explicit and upfront before I become that dude as well...doesn't help those other guys are really smooth either. :leostare:
 

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Signed up on POF on tuesday. Got few phone numbers and BBM pins. 7 of em got the :camby:one literally went 0-100 real quick cuz i told her i was coming to her place when i was at home. Bytch was like "i see you like playing games..have a goodnight" followed by "please don't message me again" :mjlol:

Think its time i temporarily unplug myself from the game. I feel like i am doing more work than i need for something that is not guaranteed and i'm letting it get to me. :francis:

Need to fix my mindset up and devote all this energy to myself. :ufdup: Breh's, love and take care of yourselves first before anyone or anything else.

Stop choosing these women and let them choose up. :ufdup:Once they do, you take over and its smooth sailing from then on out. Never put yourself in a position where you gotta chase or impress anyone, cuz that shyt be straight up disgusting. :scusthov:

I can guarantee alot of nikkaz on this site are not in the best physical shape that they can be in. So, right there is one thing alot of dudes can devote their time, energy and effort into fixing.

I can also guarantee alot of nikkaz on here ain't where they want to be financially....heck, some might have even settled. Weak shyt. :camby:But also another opportunity to tackle on something and fix.

Women will always be around. There are more women than there are men on earth and it will continue to be that way throughout our lifetime. Women have a limited time-period where they can utilize their potential to reap maximum return. So let them. :manny: For men, its the opposite. Sort yourselves out now while you're still young and have the time and energy to do so and reap the benefits later on. :win:
 

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Signed up on POF on tuesday. Got few phone numbers and BBM pins. 7 of em got the :camby:one literally went 0-100 real quick cuz i told her i was coming to her place when i was at home. Bytch was like "i see you like playing games..have a goodnight" followed by "please don't message me again" :mjlol:

Think its time i temporarily unplug myself from the game. I feel like i am doing more work than i need for something that is not guaranteed and i'm letting it get to me. :francis:

Need to fix my mindset up and devote all this energy to myself. :ufdup: Breh's, love and take care of yourselves first before anyone or anything else.

Stop choosing these women and let them choose up. :ufdup:Once they do, you take over and its smooth sailing from then on out. Never put yourself in a position where you gotta chase or impress anyone, cuz that shyt be straight up disgusting. :scusthov:

I can guarantee alot of nikkaz on this site are not in the best physical shape that they can be in. So, right there is one thing alot of dudes can devote their time, energy and effort into fixing.

I can also guarantee alot of nikkaz on here ain't where they want to be financially....heck, some might have even settled. Weak shyt. :camby:But also another opportunity to tackle on something and fix.

Women will always be around. There are more women than there are men on earth and it will continue to be that way throughout our lifetime. Women have a limited time-period where they can utilize their potential to reap maximum return. So let them. :manny: For men, its the opposite. Sort yourselves out now while you're still young and have the time and energy to do so and reap the benefits later on. :win:

speaking of being in physical shape...started lifting weights for the first in my life(as ive stated im skinny as hell) and now i have a gym membership...man I can't say enough...working out feels good :wow: yeah during the workout im sure everyone feels annoyed at points but then after you leave the gym and start eating...get rest and sleep...each time you feel your getting stronger....

bro my back feels straight...since I started this i don't feel like i'm slouching anymore and I'm standing with confidence. I still have a long way to go and its a process that happens over years but still I'm gaining alot more confidence. focusing more on working out 3 times a week and eating rather than wasting a life long existance on hoes...

i mean that is cool once in a while but the path i was on i was gonna waste my entire life being unhealthy
 

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I have a few chicks I'm talking to but :manny: I plan on moving to Victoria in two years, working towards that.

And I agree there will always be women, no need to rush anything


Signed up on POF on tuesday. Got few phone numbers and BBM pins. 7 of em got the :camby:one literally went 0-100 real quick cuz i told her i was coming to her place when i was at home. Bytch was like "i see you like playing games..have a goodnight" followed by "please don't message me again" :mjlol:

Think its time i temporarily unplug myself from the game. I feel like i am doing more work than i need for something that is not guaranteed and i'm letting it get to me. :francis:

Need to fix my mindset up and devote all this energy to myself. :ufdup: Breh's, love and take care of yourselves first before anyone or anything else.

Stop choosing these women and let them choose up. :ufdup:Once they do, you take over and its smooth sailing from then on out. Never put yourself in a position where you gotta chase or impress anyone, cuz that shyt be straight up disgusting. :scusthov:

I can guarantee alot of nikkaz on this site are not in the best physical shape that they can be in. So, right there is one thing alot of dudes can devote their time, energy and effort into fixing.

I can also guarantee alot of nikkaz on here ain't where they want to be financially....heck, some might have even settled. Weak shyt. :camby:But also another opportunity to tackle on something and fix.

Women will always be around. There are more women than there are men on earth and it will continue to be that way throughout our lifetime. Women have a limited time-period where they can utilize their potential to reap maximum return. So let them. :manny: For men, its the opposite. Sort yourselves out now while you're still young and have the time and energy to do so and reap the benefits later on. :win:
 

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the approach is more awkward than actual eye contact. thats the only gripe still is small talk. im working on it, to no avail. but i know i can do it. i just need to work on that along with getting my money up, and my degree, and lose weight.
 

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speaking of being in physical shape...started lifting weights for the first in my life(as ive stated im skinny as hell) and now i have a gym membership...man I can't say enough...working out feels good :wow: yeah during the workout im sure everyone feels annoyed at points but then after you leave the gym and start eating...get rest and sleep...each time you feel your getting stronger....

bro my back feels straight...since I started this i don't feel like i'm slouching anymore and I'm standing with confidence. I still have a long way to go and its a process that happens over years but still I'm gaining alot more confidence. focusing more on working out 3 times a week and eating rather than wasting a life long existance on hoes...

i mean that is cool once in a while but the path i was on i was gonna waste my entire life being unhealthy

that's it breh.

watch when those results start coming in.....you gonne be like :wow:

the stares....:wow:

the daps...:wow:

the :whoa: faces from nikkaz
 

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Glad to see ya'll taking the effort to improve your lives.
 
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