Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Benjamin Sisko]

Been talking textn this chick on tinder since May 23rd and I asked for her number and shes still not comfortable??

Other chicks give me their number off their just like that

 

[TRUEST]

Been talking textn this chick on tinder since May 23rd and I asked for her number and shes still not comfortable??

Other chicks give me their number off their just like that

nah. thats way too long. i ask for their number within like 5-10 minutes of chatting. if she says no or gives a less than enthusiastic response, i usually dont bother responding.

 

[MikelArteta]

The funny thing is the more experienced you become in the game and dealing with women the more they view you as "cynical". I remember having no experience and being some simp negro and buying into that heavenly creature I must appease , impress etc.

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

She's not asking for the title yet, but she's mentioning me to her friends and family, trying to set up double dates and shyt like that, some of the conversations we've had, I can tell she's already positioning herself as the GF by certain things she says.

Let it ride man until you're put in a position where you have to make a decision and then go with your gut. Going through something similar right now, she's a cool girl and I'm attracted and care, but not as much as her and not as much as I should (and honestly this is probably the way it should be with any girl going forward). I'm going to play out the scenario until it makes sense not to or doesn't work.

 

[RiffRaff]

Brehs, the main is a good chick, but I'm just not as into her as she is into me. It's cool when we kick it, but there isn't some huge chemistry, like I'm not thinking of her through out the day like I normally do with females I'm dealing with.

Should I give it time and let it grow some more? its only been two months and some change

To make it clear, I don't not like her, I do, but it's not a strong enough like to make me want to give her a title or introduce her to close friends and fam.

Me personally I'm at the point where I've seen enough, experienced enough, (and been on the Coli enough) to not really put anything past someone. Not just females, but anyone. So I'm kinda numb to the whole butterfly feeling when I meet someone, but I do know what I find attractive in a person so even if it's clear that they're more into me (my current girl) than I am into them, I'm ok with it because I'm obviously satisfied enough to be with this person and I know the grass isn't always greener. I don't know if I will ever get the butterfly excitement feeling again or if it's truly necessary, what I do know is that this girl I'm with is truly infatuated with me and I like her so I'm ok rocking with it. In the worse case scenario things go south, I know at least there won't be as much heartache on my end.

 

[MikelArteta]

When your into a girl more than she is into you, it never really ends well.

You become scared to lose her, you do things that are unnecessary to try and keep it going.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Brehs, the main is a good chick, but I'm just not as into her as she is into me. It's cool when we kick it, but there isn't some huge chemistry, like I'm not thinking of her through out the day like I normally do with females I'm dealing with.

Should I give it time and let it grow some more? its only been two months and some change

To make it clear, I don't not like her, I do, but it's not a strong enough like to make me want to give her a title or introduce her to close friends and fam.

What are you trying to rush to? You enjoy her company, she seems like a stable person (which goes a looong way IMO), no need to rush into it. She may grow on you, or you may find something about her character that you don't like, either way its nothing wrong with taking it one day at a time.

 

[TRUEST]

What are you trying to rush to? You enjoy her company, she seems like a stable person (which goes a looong way IMO), no need to rush into it. She may grow on you, or you may find something about her character that you don't like, either way its nothing wrong with taking it one day at a time.

exactly.

 

[MikelArteta]

What are you trying to rush to? You enjoy her company, she seems like a stable person (which goes a looong way IMO), no need to rush into it. She may grow on you, or you may find something about her character that you don't like, either way its nothing wrong with taking it one day at a time.

commitment is the male vagina

and every man of value should have a low count

 

[LaLuna]

commitment is the male vagina

and every man of value should have a low count

The hypocrisy

 

[MikelArteta]

The hypocrisy

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if a man commits to every woman his commitment is cheapen, his love is cheapen. Just imagine if your dating a guy (i think your a female) and he told you he has had 15 gfs in the past 6 months, how would you view him?

The same way most men don't want a woman who has a bunch of sexual partners its the same how women don't want a men who has committed and loved a bunch of women.

Commitment, a mans love are his male vagina so to speak, you give it away cheaply and to everyone

 

[LaLuna]

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if a man commits to every woman his commitment is cheapen, his love is cheapen. Just imagine if your dating a guy (i think your a female) and he told you he has had 15 gfs in the past 6 months, how would you view him?

The same way most men don't want a woman who has a bunch of sexual partners its the same how women don't want a men who has committed and loved a bunch of women.

Commitment, a mans love are his male vagina so to speak, you give it away cheaply and to everyone

Off subject
How did your date go?

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

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if a man commits to every woman his commitment is cheapen, his love is cheapen. Just imagine if your dating a guy (i think your a female) and he told you he has had 15 gfs in the past 6 months, how would you view him?

The same way most men don't want a woman who has a bunch of sexual partners its the same how women don't want a men who has committed and loved a bunch of women.

Commitment, a mans love are his male vagina so to speak, you give it away cheaply and to everyone

great point, i used to think something was wrong with me because I was nervous to commit to a lot of less than ideal situations. But it really is the one thing that shouldn't be shared so easily and you as a male have full control over. I think it's healthy to have a certain level of thinking or cautiousness before committing to something. It used to be on some 'will the grass be greener elsewhere sometime in the future' to more 'i don't want to waste any time in situations that i'm not feeling especially if i think it'll leave the other person hurt in the future'



I honestly think its kinda sad when a woman constantly replenishes boyfriends or your homie who dates someone and after a breakup is already in with another girl deep in love or infatuation all over again everybody know the people in their lives who have a revolving door of 'serious' partners. I'm glad that was never me



Right now this person is putting no pressure on me and I just kinda wanna play it out day by day and see what happens versus trying to put any label on it

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

deal with yourself, don't worry about dealing with them. nature will run it's course.

 

[Brandsdale]

I mean, am I wrong for just tryna go grab a coffee or something with a chic, test her out to see what shes bout and what not, when it comes to dating? I dont see the point in going to dinner and all that shyt if I'm tryna get to know you and what not and nikkas acting like cheap dating is completely wrong and "black women" dont go to coffee shops or do minimal shyt like that