That's one of the aspects of why I disagree with a lot of that PUA movement. They are completely catering their behavior to whatever woman they are dealing with. It's headache-inducing trying to 'read her mind' and figure out the perfect ratio of texts to say, the perfect 'alpha' lines to hit her with, etc. What does she even have that is worth completely discarding your personality and your peace of mind in order to play the tap-dancing monkey for her?
When you like yourself and you are comfortable with yourself and you actually get out and about and you put yourself in different environments and you live life without the intent of 'catching this or that woman', you end up enjoying yourself a lot more and you get much higher quality of a woman. Why? Because you're not putting on this fake persona. You don't end up being confused about what to say next, nor do you feel awkward and uncomfortable because you're trying to force some interaction.
The ultimate key is to not change up and cater to a woman and be comfortable being who you are. Then you sit back and you focus on the women that are interested in you and don't bother with the ones that aren't. If you're in a particular area and the women aren't too into you, don't be afraid to go to another location. Location is HUGE. Some women may not be feeling you in such and such place, but they are feeling you in another... but really, the key is to not change up your personality and get into all this role-playing and faking because it will give you a headache and it's not really fun at the end of the day. When you focus on dealing with women that naturally like you for you, you won't have the 10,000 questions that pop up like, "What do I say next" or "how do I spark her interest." You only ask those questions when you are dealing with a woman who has low interest in you, and the best thing to do in that situation is not to turn into a chameleon and try to play into what she likes... it's to move on to a woman that naturally likes your style. I'm telling you, it will save you a ton of time and be 10,000 times more enjoyable since you are actually relaxing and being yourself and you're dealing with someone you constantly won't have to monitor your actions and wonder if you're being 'alpha' enough with.
When you like yourself and you are comfortable with yourself and you actually get out and about and you put yourself in different environments and you live life without the intent of 'catching this or that woman', you end up enjoying yourself a lot more and you get much higher quality of a woman. Why? Because you're not putting on this fake persona. You don't end up being confused about what to say next, nor do you feel awkward and uncomfortable because you're trying to force some interaction.
The ultimate key is to not change up and cater to a woman and be comfortable being who you are. Then you sit back and you focus on the women that are interested in you and don't bother with the ones that aren't. If you're in a particular area and the women aren't too into you, don't be afraid to go to another location. Location is HUGE. Some women may not be feeling you in such and such place, but they are feeling you in another... but really, the key is to not change up your personality and get into all this role-playing and faking because it will give you a headache and it's not really fun at the end of the day. When you focus on dealing with women that naturally like you for you, you won't have the 10,000 questions that pop up like, "What do I say next" or "how do I spark her interest." You only ask those questions when you are dealing with a woman who has low interest in you, and the best thing to do in that situation is not to turn into a chameleon and try to play into what she likes... it's to move on to a woman that naturally likes your style. I'm telling you, it will save you a ton of time and be 10,000 times more enjoyable since you are actually relaxing and being yourself and you're dealing with someone you constantly won't have to monitor your actions and wonder if you're being 'alpha' enough with.
same thing for me i guess 
than back at school) that were way into me whether that was momentary or over a long period of time but it just goes to show like kev says that if you're working on improving yourself things just fall into place. I've worked on getting in better shape, I dress better, I've worked hard for three years and now I'm going to medical school. All things I did for ME and those are the things I'm most proud of, but it is always nice to get that attention.
