Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Location is HUGE. Some women may not be feeling you in such and such place, but they are feeling you in another

yup
cant wait till im out of babylon

 

[MAGNETO.]

women man

so i match up on this dating app equivalent to tinder with this east african broad from Cali. Said she in medical school and all and liked what she saw. So i was like same thing for me i guess

I downloaded this app 2 fridays ago, so we talked quite abit all throughout. So she just happened to be flyin into Toronto and came in on wednesday night. Thursday night she hit me up on some "hey i'm in your city lol"....so i said welcome

then she asked what am i doing on saturday cuz she wanted to meet up (a girl taking initiative ), to which i said can't really tell but it shouldn't be a problem. Temporary plans were made (ie. place we'd might be going to and whereabouts in the city she might be at so i can scoop her up) and she said she would contact me saturday morning to lemme kno wassup. So i told her sounds good.

well, saturday i got nothing...sunday too.

I go onto my thing now, and she unmatched me.

surely it wasn't my fault brehs. Right?

Brehs did this when I was in Hungary lmaooo.
Felt so bad afterwards.

 

[Bless't]

Its messed up man, If she didn't have you, shed still be cooking food and under her great chameleon act.

When she has you has to incite drama etc to keep her entertained, once you say eff it and pull away, she reverts back to trying to have you again

I fell for the okey doke. lol

Nah, she's still cool to me and there really is no bad blood but I'm at an age where I can realize when things just arent meant to be.

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

The ultimate key is to not change up and cater to a woman and be comfortable being who you are. Then you sit back and you focus on the women that are interested in you and don't bother with the ones that aren't. If you're in a particular area and the women aren't too into you, don't be afraid to go to another location. Location is HUGE. Some women may not be feeling you in such and such place, but they are feeling you in another... but really, the key is to not change up your personality and get into all this role-playing and faking because it will give you a headache and it's not really fun at the end of the day. When you focus on dealing with women that naturally like you for you, you won't have the 10,000 questions that pop up like, "What do I say next" or "how do I spark her interest." You only ask those questions when you are dealing with a woman who has low interest in you, and the best thing to do in that situation is not to turn into a chameleon and try to play into what she likes... it's to move on to a woman that naturally likes your style. I'm telling you, it will save you a ton of time and be 10,000 times more enjoyable since you are actually relaxing and being yourself and you're dealing with someone you constantly won't have to monitor your actions and wonder if you're being 'alpha' enough with.

Yep, I remember in college I was getting little love from females couple here and there but no one I was feeling like that. As soon as I graduate and spend a couple years out in the real world, I've met a lot of higher quality females (girls that are way more than back at school) that were way into me whether that was momentary or over a long period of time but it just goes to show like kev says that if you're working on improving yourself things just fall into place. I've worked on getting in better shape, I dress better, I've worked hard for three years and now I'm going to medical school. All things I did for ME and those are the things I'm most proud of, but it is always nice to get that attention.

 

[MikelArteta]

Congrats Dr

And its true, whenever I travel its totally different and its not like I'm going to third world countries .

Sometimes you can't win in Cleveland and gotta go to Miami.

Yep, I remember in college I was getting little love from females couple here and there but no one I was feeling like that. As soon as I graduate and spend a couple years out in the real world, I've met a lot of higher quality females (girls that are way more than back at school) that were way into me whether that was momentary or over a long period of time but it just goes to show like kev says that if you're working on improving yourself things just fall into place. I've worked on getting in better shape, I dress better, I've worked hard for three years and now I'm going to medical school. All things I did for ME and those are the things I'm most proud of, but it is always nice to get that attention.

 

[Hrcules]

thanks for the responses guys, really appreciated

BUT i dont even follow this girl im seeing on instagram cuz i dont use it, today i stalked her for a bit amd noticed 2 days ago she uploaded a picture of some sunflowers someone gave her, in the description she had "thaaaaaaaaaaaaaanks " and that emoji with the hearts for eyes thing

Should i be worried? Like i went out with her on friday and then suday apperantly someone gave her flowers and she posted them on instagram

Should i call her out on it? Ask her who gave her those? Its driving me insane

 

[kevm3]

You need to consider moving on is what you need to be doing. I highly doubt another woman gave her flowers. When women start doing the distant thing, more times than not, another guy is starting to get involved.

 

[Hrcules]

You need to consider moving on is what you need to be doing. I highly doubt another woman gave her flowers. When women start doing the distant thing, more times than not, another guy is starting to get involved.

I mean shes not really distant since i saw her on friday and was supposed to see her sunday but i didnt go to church, and on suday she uploaded the picture... It coulve been one of the guys who take flowers and just leave them at her house no?

but what im asking is if i should ask who gave em to her or just let it go

 

[The ADD]

I mean shes not really distant since i saw her on friday and was supposed to see her sunday but i didnt go to church, and on suday she uploaded the picture... It coulve been one of the guys who take flowers and just leave them at her house no?

but what im asking is if i should ask who gave em to her or just let it go

You gotta ask

 

[TRUEST]

I mean shes not really distant since i saw her on friday and was supposed to see her sunday but i didnt go to church, and on suday she uploaded the picture... It coulve been one of the guys who take flowers and just leave them at her house no?

but what im asking is if i should ask who gave em to her or just let it go

tell her u recently got instagram. ask her for her name right there with her next to you. search for her name. act like ur browsing through the pics for the first time. then go to the flower picture. ask her who sent her those flowers. listen to her responses.

dont EVER let her know u went out of ur way to check her instagram. stalkerism 101.

 

[Action Mike]

When women start doing the distant thing, more times than not, another guy is starting to get involved.

Still stings the ego you gotta admit, less so now than when i was younger but...

 

[MikelArteta]

thanks for the responses guys, really appreciated

BUT i dont even follow this girl im seeing on instagram cuz i dont use it, today i stalked her for a bit amd noticed 2 days ago she uploaded a picture of some sunflowers someone gave her, in the description she had "thaaaaaaaaaaaaaanks " and that emoji with the hearts for eyes thing

Should i be worried? Like i went out with her on friday and then suday apperantly someone gave her flowers and she posted them on instagram

Should i call her out on it? Ask her who gave her those? Its driving me insane

Breh as a man who has been played, cheated on sometimes God gives us Manna from teh heavens and its up to you to use it.

Breh another man gave her flowers, you know it I know it everyone knows it, but admitting it is the hard part, maybe it was her dad, maybe it was just a good friend, No another guy that is giving her tingles gave her flowers.

Should you be worried? breh the signs are there. Doesn't matter what you did friday,my ex smiled up in my face and said she loved me more than anything and wanted to grow old with me and 2 min later when shes in the shower im reading long drawn out emails professing her love for another guy.

Why call her out? you know the answer already you call her out this is what will happen
she will deflect it on you, why are you so jealous stalking me, your crazy and insecure, it was just a "friend" who gave me the flowers because I was going through something in life or it was just my cousin.

I remember this chick I was dealing with who cancelled on a friday with me cuz she was tired instead she went to a cmale coworker party at a club, and she slipped up weeks telling me, i kicked her to the curb and never told her why, she begged and begged for months, months went by and she begged and begged again.

if that was me I'd just call her up and say its not working, you will drive yourself crazy looking at her instagram every day from now on

 

[MikelArteta]

I mean shes not really distant since i saw her on friday and was supposed to see her sunday but i didnt go to church, and on suday she uploaded the picture... It coulve been one of the guys who take flowers and just leave them at her house no?

but what im asking is if i should ask who gave em to her or just let it go

you won't get the truth

 

[International Playa]

When women are hot and cold with their interest, best believe there is another dude, whether it is an ex, new guy, fukk buddy etc.

Two years ago I had a thing with this chick for a few weeks, she used to be weird, being emotional all over the place, being on and off with me, putting me down. I actually thought something was wrong with me, that I didnt have enough charisma, swagger, personality etc to keep a womans interest. After some research found out she been messing with a married man, married man was stringing her along lying he is gonna leave his wife. Till this day heard she still fukks married dude when his wife is out of town. Lucky thing I had no feelings for her, she was a rebound, I learnt my lesson and KIM with no hard feelings for home gal.

 

[CityGuy]

if that was me I'd just call her up and say its not working, you will drive yourself crazy looking at her instagram every day from now on

It stings at first and maybe for a while, after it subsides you get the clarity of looking back and being happier you invested in youtself