Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Man I can't even remember the last time I "dated" a girl. I don't look at it like it's "dating" i just talk, hang out somewhere if I can and then call it a done deal. All this setting up, going somewhere to eat meh. When I went to Japan, I chose where to go even though I was new in country lol. I refuse to get caught up in this shenanigans. If I like a girl, she like me then we talk and If I'm going somewhere invite her on some "Hey I'm going to the store to get something wanna ride?" If the chick feeling you she'll go. Last chick I was dealing with before this japanese chick used to go with me to freaking Shoprite of all places. We mainly hung out at home and watched movies. Only chick I never smashed yet spent time with .

Commitment is the male Vagina

 

[Fatboi1]

you will breh with time, every day you don't talk to her, check up on what shes doing it'll shrink

It's like a tumour and every day you stay away is like chemo and radiation itll shrink and shrink and shrink

The worst are the times where you're used to hitting up or seeing the girl. I remember a couple of weeks ago I'd always be ready to get a text from ole girl at usually 6:50PM to 7:00PM and I always did get them.

Once I stopped getting them I'd feel funny but after about a week and talking to new girls I didn't even care anymore. Now I'm just trying to feel out these chicks. I wish they were over here man I feel like I can't fukk with chicks around here. I'm not interested in these fukking hoodrats.

 

[MikelArteta]

Just the familiarity, its like even on weekends I wake up like 6am even though I don't have work. I'm just so accustomed to always being up at that time it becomes routine. To break that routine feels weird, and would take a long while to detoxify and change my sleep patterns.

Just like women, not to be rude or whatever but most women ain't special there all replaceable minus a few exceptions.

There have been so many times in my life I thought I'd never get another girl, or another girl as hot or bla bla bla there's always another one whenever your ready.

It's all in our minds and just emotions, before we met them we never even knew they existed and we were fine or fixated on another girl

The worst are the times where you're used to hitting up or seeing the girl. I remember a couple of weeks ago I'd always be ready to get a text from ole girl at usually 6:50PM to 7:00PM and I always did get them. Once I stopped getting them I'd feel funny but after about a week and talking to new girls I didn't even care anymore. Now I'm just trying to feel out these chicks.

 

[NerdNash]

The worst are the times where you're used to hitting up or seeing the girl. I remember a couple of weeks ago I'd always be ready to get a text from ole girl at usually 6:50PM to 7:00PM and I always did get them.

Once I stopped getting them I'd feel funny but after about a week and talking to new girls I didn't even care anymore. Now I'm just trying to feel out these chicks. I wish they were over here man I feel like I can't fukk with chicks around here. I'm not interested in these fukking hoodrats.

@Emperor_ReinScarf

Honestly lol hoes aren't the issue I got tons of chicks literally all over the country.

Funny thing is they all tell me what yall say ...

Stop caring and watch how she folds. They say I won't even believe it when it happens but it will.

 

[MikelArteta]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

Honestly lol hoes aren't the issue I got tons of chicks literally all over the country.

Funny thing is they all tell me what yall say ...

Stop caring and watch how she folds. They say I won't even believe it when it happens but it will.

I know man but when your mind is on one chick no other chick matters.

And it's true man, you were with her for 7 years, this will also be her first dose of not having you in her life or at her beck and call, maybe she contacts you and folds maybe she doesn't. But at least taking the steps now in terms of cutting her off at least if you ever want to contact her again it will be when your emotions are much more diminished than they are now, where you can talk without letting your emotions get the best of you or whatever.

 

[Fatboi1]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

Honestly lol hoes aren't the issue I got tons of chicks literally all over the country.

Funny thing is they all tell me what yall say ...

Stop caring and watch how she folds. They say I won't even believe it when it happens but it will.

First step to stop caring is to.... go do something else. Go watch a movie, play a new video game, talk to another chick. Cook something, learn something or read a book. Basically keep yourself occupied.

Don't idol around and just sit there, stomach boiling over a chick. I'd say also block her information in some sort of online blocker like K9 web block or something so you don't go snooping on her facebook or instagram. I now that shyt is tempting but it'll be worth it.. You could be a month deep in the game and decide to take a peek at her shyt and suddenly you feel your heart fall into your stomach.

 

[MikelArteta]

feel like I can't fukk with chicks around here. I'm not interested in these fukking hoodrats.

i feel the same way breh the same way. Funny thing is anywhere else I go its like a different world, but when I come back here its just straight poison. Its like might as well I just text my ex if i gotta deal with poison at least it ll be the poison I know.

I mentioned before the beauty is no wife no kids, all we need is a job in a new location and we can pack and go.

 

[MikelArteta]

First step to stop caring is to.... go do something else. Go watch a movie, play a new video game, talk to another chick. Cook something, learn something or read a book. Basically keep yourself occupied.

Don't idol around and just sit there, stomach boiling over a chick. I'd say also block her information in some sort of online blocker like K9 web block or something so you don't go snooping on her facebook or instagram. I now that shyt is tempting but it'll be worth it.. You could be a month deep in the game and decide to take a peek at her shyt and suddenly you feel your heart fall into your stomach.

Pretty much its when your mind is idle that you start wondering what is she doing and then it messes you up, when your busy you don't get caught up in that.

And I agree with blocking, I always take those steps. I don't do social media so that is easy, but now with whatsapp yu can see their photo and status and ish. I'd advise to delete, delete e-mails, put photos on a usb stick or delete and put it far up in a closet. And yeah block her facebook, instagram, etc.

one of the worst things is when things are goign great your actually movign on than that urge and turst me it comes on and then suddenly your on her fb and you see shes in a relationship, or on her instagram and some dude is hugging her up and you feel like crap all that progress gone.

The risk isn't worth it.

 

[DAlbert]

not going to lie brehs, i haven't had an "girlfriend" with an official titled since like forever lol. I was exclusive to this one chick in HS but she ended up graduating (im still pretty damn young btw) ... even then the idea of commitment to women was dumb to me cause I always saw relationships getting stale and couples just splitting.

Is it even worth to test the waters and get a girlfriend? like I dont even know how that shyt feels

I've read so much that suggest no, both theories and personal experiences but I still have an itch to see whats the fuss about.

 

[DAlbert]

I feel like I can't fukk with chicks around here. I'm not interested in these fukking hoodrats.

I know what you mean, the times I do meet a nonhoodrat im like cause its rare where I live , but even then I feel like their standards are sooo high at times that its not even worth it

 

[Fatboi1]

I know what you mean, the times I do meet a nonhoodrat im like , but even then I feel like their standards are sooo high at times that its not even worth it

yeah I feel you. Sometimes you just gotta try. You never know.

 

[MikelArteta]

not going to lie brehs, i haven't had an "girlfriend" with an official titled since like forever lol. I was exclusive to this one chick in HS but she ended up graduating (im still pretty damn young btw) ... even then the idea of commitment to women was dumb to me cause I always saw relationships getting stale and couples just splitting.

Is it even worth to test the waters and get a girlfriend? like I dont even know how that shyt feels

I've read so much that suggest no, both theories and personal experiences but I still have an itch to see whats the fuss about.

I always say you shouldn't go looking for say a girlfriend, because then you will end up settling for any old chick just to get that title. Chicks should EARN IT, Just my opinion.

I've always seemed to have more fun with women when we were just going out enjoying each other instead of procuring a title.

Usually when the so what are we happens is when everything seems to teeter off the hillside

 

[Action Mike]

i gotta fast track the move out this hoodish area, not only for the ladies but it doesnt help when you drop were you live its like

 

[NerdNash]

Pretty much its when your mind is idle that you start wondering what is she doing and then it messes you up, when your busy you don't get caught up in that.

And I agree with blocking, I always take those steps. I don't do social media so that is easy, but now with whatsapp yu can see their photo and status and ish. I'd advise to delete, delete e-mails, put photos on a usb stick or delete and put it far up in a closet. And yeah block her facebook, instagram, etc.

one of the worst things is when things are goign great your actually movign on than that urge and turst me it comes on and then suddenly your on her fb and you see shes in a relationship, or on her instagram and some dude is hugging her up and you feel like crap all that progress gone.

The risk isn't worth it.

My nikka I can't even get on Instagram period lol I don't even wanna look at people smiling. People remind me of my ex

 

[Fatboi1]

My nikka I can't even get on Instagram period lol I don't even wanna look at people smiling. People remind me of my ex

I got off Instagram a while ago. I just stopped fukking with it after I just realized I was comparing myself with other people I didn't know. It was all good whenever i would just post an odd pic or there of something but that usually ended up with me creeping on my girl. I'd look at her page and see she has a new picture up and get a few likes and then I'd see some random dude commenting on her picture or w/e. shyt would have me in my head thinking of all kinds of shyt. She ended up blocking me because that shyt was cause so much arguments that I'd get tired. Now I don't even fukking care about that broad no moe.