Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Social media has its good parts but that's one reason I just can't mess with it.

Just screams attention and validation.
If someone doesn't like this photo gotta delete it, simps congregating like ants to chicks photos. And yep if you got a girl whose on it, it will drive you insane.

I remember messing with this chick who had like 3,000 followers, it was like trying to tame a cobra.

Chick would get a papercut at work post it and have like 300 dudes writing simp tales.

Ish will drive you to the mad house, and not to mention how fake it is. You look at Instagram you'd think everyone is rich and life is going well


I got off Instagram a while ago. I just stopped fukking with it after I just realized I was comparing myself with other people I didn't know. It was all good whenever i would just post an odd pic or there of something but that usually ended up with me creeping on my girl. I'd look at her page and see she has a new picture up and get a few likes and then I'd see some random dude commenting on her picture or w/e. shyt would have me in my head thinking of all kinds of shyt. She ended up blocking me because that shyt was cause so much arguments that I'd get tired. Now I don't even fukking care about that broad no moe.
 

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Social media has its good parts but that's one reason I just can't mess with it.

Just screams attention and validation.
If someone doesn't like this photo gotta delete it, simps congregating like ants to chicks photos. And yep if you got a girl whose on it, it will drive you insane.

I remember messing with this chick who had like 3,000 followers, it was like trying to tame a cobra.

Chick would get a papercut at work post it and have like 300 dudes writing simp tales.

Ish will drive you to the mad house, and not to mention how fake it is. You look at Instagram you'd think everyone is rich and life is going well
That's the thing too lol. I'd be looking at ole girl instagram and from the photos think she's all that and a bag of chips yet in real life talking to her she's just a normal girl who watches TV, eats food and chills around the house all day and occasionally go out to drink with friends.
 

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That's the thing too lol. I'd be looking at ole girl instagram and from the photos think she's all that and a bag of chips yet in real life talking to her she's just a normal girl who watches TV, eats food and chills around the house all day and occasionally go out to drink with friends.

its all the best poses and the best scenery, in reality chick working at starbucks making 11 a hour, living in a dingy basement apartment riding the bus
 

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if there is one thing I can say is unless she is your wife or she has done it for you do not sacrifice for a woman.

Won't even dwelve into all the :snoop: things I've done in my life, but all the things I've scarified I have nothing to show for it. I planted the seeds, watered them, watched over them, sacrificed time, money, my dreams and in the end some other breh reaped the harvest.
 

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saw my for the first time in over a year since I stopped replying to her text I had the :jawalrus: the whole night while she was :upsetfavre: at me plus I met this chick tall skinny with a fatty :ohlawd: your boy is back like futchaw

is there a better feeling in the world?

Possibly only running into a old ex years later while you have your wife by your side and a baby in the stroller and your like hey hunny this is karen and your wife is ten times better than karen in every way.
 

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if there is one thing I can say is unless she is your wife or she has done it for you do not sacrifice for a woman.

Won't even dwelve into all the :snoop: things I've done in my life, but all the things I've scarified I have nothing to show for it. I planted the seeds, watered them, watched over them, sacrificed time, money, my dreams and in the end some other breh reaped the harvest.

This is gospel, do not do not do not, sacrifice your morals, honor, money, and time or energy for a woman or a girlfriend. This doesn't mean be a jerk or lame, just dont say take off day's for work or consistently spend money that you could be using to save for more important things or just yourself. Don't always answer the phone when there are times that you shouldn't like at work or driving or whatever.

All that is cute and nice to them at 1st, but it quickly either becomes a standard that you can never slack on or it gets old or boring (too easy) to them and they want to move on


If its your wife, or someone that has been through hell and highwater with you, that's different. And even then, you need to make sure it's never one sided either way.




If its one thing you should take away from this thread its that, you'll save yourself potential months or years of headache, confusion and heartbreak.

You can do nice things for someone you like, or care for...but when you start noticing that you are starting to sacrifice time, friends, hobbies, family and money... its time to give things serious thought.

I can't stress enough what was said, giving up small things to spend time with someone you like is one things. But you better make sure they are doing the same for you. If not, your wasting your time or your in for a long lame unhealthy "relationship"
 

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This is gospel, do not do not do not, sacrifice your morals, honor, money, and time or energy for a woman or a girlfriend. This doesn't mean be a jerk or lame, just dont say take off day's for work or consistently spend money that you could be using to save for more important things or just yourself. Don't always answer the phone when there are tiem that you shouldn't like at work or driving or whatever.

All that is cute and nice to them at 1st, but it quickly either becomes a standard that you can never slack on or it gets old or boring (too easy) to them and they want to move on


If its your wife, or someone that has been through hell and highwater with you, that's different. And even then, you need to make sure it's never one sided either way.




If its one thing you should take away from this thread its that, you'll save yourself potential months or years of headache, confusion and heartbreak.

You can do nice things for someone you like, or care for...but when you start noticing that you are starting to sacrifice time, friends, hobbies, family and money... its time to give things serious thought.

I can't stress enough what was said, giving up small things to spend time with someone you like is one things. But you better make sure they are doing the same for you. If not, your wasting your time or your in for a long lame unhealthy "relationship"

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Today at work while in the break room this chic was talking what men needed to tty o to get women or just to have a better shot overall ...so i intervene

Her: Men have to go back to the basic of just being respectful and chivalrous
Me: So how did your EX boyfriend land you ?
Her: Well he was a little "rought" but respectful charming , witty and funny
Me: Anit it amazing how you dont have to be 1/3 of what he had to be to get you :sas2:
Her: so what are you saying ?
Me: Im saying women arent as skillful as men are when it comesto GETTING women. Women just have to be cute and sit there and men will approach.
Her: Thats sounds a bit bitter ...I think if more men would be themsleves they could and will get the best out of women.
Me: You said my last comment was bitter but when you put that make-up on this morning was that you just being yourself?:sas1:
Her::dwillhuh: ...you must not get a lot of women by the way you talk ...if you talk like this
Me: I do just fine :jawalrus:


Women i swear man ....
 

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Today at work while in the break room this chic was talking what men needed to tty o to get women or just to have a better shot overall ...so i intervene

Her: Men have to go back to the basic of just being respectful and chivalrous
Me: So how did your EX boyfriend land you ?
Her: Well he was a little "rought" but respectful charming , witty and funny
Me: Anit it amazing how you dont have to be 1/3 of what he had to be to get you :sas2:
Her: so what are you saying ?
Me: Im saying women arent as skillful as men are when it comesto GETTING women. Women just have to be cute and sit there and men will approach.
Her: Thats sounds a bit bitter ...I think if more men would be themsleves they could and will get the best out of women.
Me: You said my last comment was bitter but when you put that make-up on this morning was that you just being yourself?:sas1:
Her::dwillhuh: ...you must not get a lot of women by the way you talk ...if you talk like this
Me: I do just fine :jawalrus:


Women i swear man ....

women don't have to do anything,they can be shy, tall, small, chubby, pretty, ugly, poor, rich

how many guys out there care whether a woman is 5'2 or 5'7?
whether she works at h&m as a cashier or is an accountant
if she has long hair or short
if she's unfunny
 

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when i was in my early 20s i was in a relationship with a bytch who had me fukked up like dude been mentioning in the last couple of pages..
like u know u gota cut the bytch off but ur shytty illogical feelings get in the way. i tried to reason my way out of it but couldnt

one morning, out of the blue shyt just clicked in my head, and whenever I would think about her i would become repulsed, like a disgusted nauseating feeling would come over me.
that same morning i deleted her everywhere, and didnt give her any warnings. just one minute to the next i was done. and the bytch was all confused n kept calling me and texting me for months completely confused as to why i was no longer talking to her :banderas:
i know what its like to know u have to end things but still end up trying to "work shyt out" even though all the logic in the world tells u to gtfo.


in other more positive news, this girl I met about a month back still hasn't said or done a single stupid thing.. all she does is work then go to school :wow:
i'll text n ask what shes doing, n she sends me a pic of herself at the gym, or cooking with her sister, or in the library studying
and im starting to restrict minutes to the other players on my team :merchant: :whoa:
i gota play this shyt cool tho, gota scout her some more :lupe::hamster:
 

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when i was in my early 20s i was in a relationship with a bytch who had me fukked up like dude been mentioning in the last couple of pages..
like u know u gota cut the bytch off but ur shytty illogical feelings get in the way. i tried to reason my way out of it but couldnt

one morning, out of the blue shyt just clicked in my head, and whenever I would think about her i would become repulsed, like a disgusted nauseating feeling would come over me.
that same morning i deleted her everywhere, and didnt give her any warnings. just one minute to the next i was done. and the bytch was all confused n kept calling me and texting me for months completely confused as to why i was no longer talking to her :banderas:
i know what its like to know u have to end things but still end up trying to "work shyt out" even though all the logic in the world tells u to gtfo.


in other more positive news, this girl I met about a month back still hasn't said or done a single stupid thing.. all she does is work then go to school :wow:
i'll text n ask what shes doing, n she sends me a pic of herself at the gym, or cooking with her sister, or in the library studying
and im starting to restrict minutes to the other players on my team :merchant: :whoa:
i gota play this shyt cool tho, gota scout her some more :lupe::hamster:

:wow: I'm glad you stopped the suffering and deleted your ex..now look at you prospering with a new chick..
 
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