Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
its never too late friendshould have hopped in this thread earlier
should have hopped in this thread earlier
What happened breh?? Gotta get ya head right before that Uncharted 4 co-op breh 
girl I've been seeing casually for about 4 months comes to my place last night to watch True Detective
I offer her a drink, a smoke, something to eat
she says she's not hungry, she got her own j, and no to the drink because if she starts drinking she'll have to spend the night
im like, "cool"
She asks me if Im hungry. I tell her "I'll probably cook something later."
She sideyes me like shyt.
She offers me the j. I tell her "Im good for now"
She sideyes me some more
I turn on a show she's been wanting to check out
She spends the first scene bytching about the show
By the second scene, she snaps and says im acting like I don't want her around
im like "I don't want you around? "I, the guy that had you come over 2 hours before true detective started so we could chill before..I, the guy that offered you wine, weed, and food?
turns out, she's mad cause when she turned down the drink, I didn't immediately give her the greenlight to stay over
thing is, she never stays over at my place
claims she doesn't sleep well at other peoples houses
she's literally never stayed nor wanted to stay
but all of sudden, she's "assuming" she was spending the night and mad at me for not making confirmation
this basically turned into her tryna punk me into inviting her to stay, to which I hit her with the
at that point, the vibe was merked. shyt was awkward as hell
she was there all of 15 minutes
10 minutes after leaving, she calls. I ignore.
Then she texts, saying "im coming back, please let me in"
I hit her with theagain
She then decides to sit in her car just in case in changed my mind. I didn't and she eventually got the point and bounced.
I sat up with thethe rest of the night. What was I supposed to do?
I lightweight know what I was "supposed" to do. But why?
Just say you wanna stay over
whatever
just had to get that off my chest
@ the whole situationbreh.
my ex and i broke up 5 months ago we were together for 6 years going into the 7th one.
the relationship ended because she felt like we werent on the same page. At first i wanted to get her back like mad cause i thought she was the love of my life (i still do.....sometimes
)BUT right after we broke up, we stopped talking and texting each other altogether. At first it was kinda weird and im not gonna lie a nicca was looking at his phone like "
how come she dont call me mayne 
"But it will stop eventually. We didnt talk for 4 months...not a single text...nothing.... I focused on myself, took care of me and my fam and shyt.
Then i went to surprise her on her birthday. Brought her flowers and shyt she was like
told her hey look im not gonna waste time here im gonna wait for you at this bar, ill be there for 30minutes if you dont show up then you'll never hear from me again.i waited for 10 minutes
We had a quick convo, told her what i wanted to tell her for so long and i made it clear that we belong together and she talked too and then i told her i had to bounce. She told me : "piff...you seem to be a lot different...
i told her : am i ? 
Since then we talked a couple of time, we even had lunch together and i dunno man...i know we'll be back together someday. but for now i'm focusing on myself and doing things for ME.
I had a couple of dates too and they went well. Its summertime breh....enjoy. dont beat yourself over her. you'll get over it, take care of you, do something new get out of your confort zone, this is the most important thing.
I tried the going to a lounge/bar/club/movies solo dolo and it was a success
No lie bumping this joint helped me a lot
the hook and the beat man....(it might be the most underrated NEPTUNES beat ever)
Time heals wounds. Right now, it's tough to bear because something that you've been accustomed to has been removed from you. It's like if you drink coffee every day for 10 years, and then all of a sudden there's no coffee machine and no way for you to get coffee, you're going to get very jittery for a couple of reasons. For one, you've grown so accustomed to that coffee that it has essentially been ingrained in you, and two, coffee has addictive ingredients in it.
Now that applies to women because if we've been with a woman for a long time and all of a sudden she is removed, we get a very intense longing for her. It will take time for our body and mind to readjust to a state of her not being there, but eventually our body and mind will find a state of sanity if we allow time to pass. We may still have desires for her, but it won't be that super intense craving like when you first broke up.
Ultimately though, if a woman really desires you and wants you, she'll find her way back around. It just comes down to dealing with that feeling when you first break up... and time will soothe those wounds eventually.
Now that applies to women because if we've been with a woman for a long time and all of a sudden she is removed, we get a very intense longing for her. It will take time for our body and mind to readjust to a state of her not being there, but eventually our body and mind will find a state of sanity if we allow time to pass. We may still have desires for her, but it won't be that super intense craving like when you first broke up.
Ultimately though, if a woman really desires you and wants you, she'll find her way back around. It just comes down to dealing with that feeling when you first break up... and time will soothe those wounds eventually.
Hell many times than not these women weren't even good for us, but we became so comfortable that we just stick around. It's why usually when its over when you can think clearly you can run of a list of things you couldn't stand about her, yes it may be in a state of anger, frustration, bitterness or emotions getting the better of you. But many times than not its all true.
As well many times we can do better, it's like having a harvard mba but working at starbucks as a barista. You've been doing it for years your happy with your job but you can do so much better,
And you come into work one day and get the axed due to corporate cutbacks, yeah you lost your job but your finally out of your comfort zone where you can find yourself and finally head into your destiny.
I would not be where I am in life right now if I was with any of the women I previously dated or associated with. I'd still be working a dead end job that paid ok but was taking me nowhere, I'd still be stuck in a stagnant lifestyle not travelling not writing not achieving my goals. You may not see it now but one day brehs one day.
As well many times we can do better, it's like having a harvard mba but working at starbucks as a barista. You've been doing it for years your happy with your job but you can do so much better,
And you come into work one day and get the axed due to corporate cutbacks, yeah you lost your job but your finally out of your comfort zone where you can find yourself and finally head into your destiny.
I would not be where I am in life right now if I was with any of the women I previously dated or associated with. I'd still be working a dead end job that paid ok but was taking me nowhere, I'd still be stuck in a stagnant lifestyle not travelling not writing not achieving my goals. You may not see it now but one day brehs one day.
You helping a lot bro.
You know what eats at me tho. That she feels free and I was the elephant in the room nobody mentioned. I feel like everyone is proud of her for ditching me.
That's why I gotta tap into a part of me I didn't know existed and be great
Well you don't know how really she fesls not like she will show you. She's already talking to a new guy if I'm not mistaken so instead of dealing with all the emotions having a rebound helps soothe that over.
And it's typical in breakups the girl is the victim the guy is the loser a$$hole prick.
And it's typical in breakups the girl is the victim the guy is the loser a$$hole prick.
First days and weeks are horrible then it gets easier.
I always found out whenever I felt the urge to contact or look to just go for a walk or go out and leave my phone at home .
Every time you look or even contact you'll feel good then feel worse after.
It's like doing no fap, first days and weeks its a struggle then it gets easier but your like lemme just look at a video a quick flick and you falter it feels good then after you feel like crap for ruining your progress and being back at day 1
I always found out whenever I felt the urge to contact or look to just go for a walk or go out and leave my phone at home .
Every time you look or even contact you'll feel good then feel worse after.
It's like doing no fap, first days and weeks its a struggle then it gets easier but your like lemme just look at a video a quick flick and you falter it feels good then after you feel like crap for ruining your progress and being back at day 1
"please stop texting me"
Smh. Damn.
She'll come back bro. If that's what's already written.
"please stop texting me"
She broke up with you??
man long story short me and this girl was talking back in the fall we went on a couple dates
(2nd date she took me out on bday real quick didnt make a move she text me that night and basically ask me why i didnt) usually i do im a savage
i still dont know why 
we just never clicked she would be so dry to me dry texter
but would hit me up all the time but when i would try to set something it she would be like nah
like what is the point of her texting me
im not hitting her up but she would text me basically to be nah 
so one night she hits me up like hey or whatever we texting being cool and shyt
why we texting she said we should be cool just friends no more dates or whatever out the blue when it seem like we finally clicking
so for like 3 months we dont talk
friday i go with out my friend hit the club aftewards drunk dialing i think i left vmail on phone
so the next morning she hit me up and we talking for a lil bit yada yada she oot for a wedding
so i hit her up next night trying to kick it
here how it goes word for word
me: lets link up tonight
her:im still out of town
me: hurry up and bring your butt home
her: why you gonna give me dikk???
me: yea and some mouth too so hurry up
her:you couldnt handle my p*ssy
me yea aight member you said that
her i know what i say
me: so when you coming home
her: i know how to swallow dikk lamont
me can you take this dikk tho
no response i send her a vid of me fuking this chick in vegas
me quit playng let me come over
no resposne
i call no response
so last night out the blue
her: no thank you
me: wow lol i was at working thinking about be in that p*ssy all day with your rain boots on (she wore some sexy rain boots on my bday)
her: lord
her :they are just boots lamont
me :sound good tho dont it
her: no lamont
me did you get the vid i sent you
her yes
me both of them
her yes
me i text her rihanna skin lyrics (she use to always tell me she listen to this song why we texting i just member stuff like that)
got a text this morning a hour ago
her: please stop texting me
@NerdNash
man long story short me and this girl was talking back in the fall we went on a couple dates
(2nd date she took me out on bday real quick didnt make a move she text me that night and basically ask me why i didnt) usually i do im a savage
we just never clicked she would be so dry to me dry texter
but would hit me up all the time but when i would try to set something it she would be like nah
like what is the point of her texting me
so one night she hits me up like hey or whatever we texting being cool and shyt
why we texting she said we should be cool just friends no more dates or whatever out the blue when it seem like we finally clicking
so for like 3 months we dont talk
friday i go with out my friend hit the club aftewards drunk dialing i think i left vmail on phone
so the next morning she hit me up and we talking for a lil bit yada yada she oot for a wedding
so i hit her up next night trying to kick it
here how it goes word for word
me: lets link up tonight
her:im still out of town
me: hurry up and bring your butt home
her: why you gonna give me dikk???
me: yea and some mouth too so hurry up
her:you couldnt handle my p*ssy
me yea aight member you said that
her i know what i say
me: so when you coming home
her: i know how to swallow dikk lamont
me can you take this dikk tho
no response i send her a vid of me fuking this chick in vegas
me quit playng let me come over
no resposne
i call no response
so last night out the blue
her: no thank you
me: wow lol i was at working thinking about be in that p*ssy all day with your rain boots on (she wore some sexy rain boots on my bday)
her: lord
her :they are just boots lamont
me :sound good tho dont it
her: no lamont
me did you get the vid i sent you
her yes
me both of them
her yes
me i text her rihanna skin lyrics (she use to always tell me she listen to this song why we texting i just member stuff like that)
got a text this morning a hour ago
her: please stop texting me
@NerdNash
nikka gtfoh
Thought you were going thru heartbreak or some shyt.
She just a hoe and she probably got wifed up so she can't hoe anymore.