Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NerdNash]

She's telling her sister.
Cut her off man. You shouldn't even be talking about her anymore at this point.

Nah she ain't because she told me mad shyt that she shouldn't have

 

[Rich Spirit]

I'm just going to keep it real. I know we're all about helping each other in here but this is pointless. He's going to do whatever he wants to do. The past few pages is just people talking in circles. Let him figure it out.

You have to participate in your own rescue

If he's not taking action to what we're preaching to him then we're just wasting each other's time

 

[MikelArteta]

Family first she's telling her sister

 

[MikelArteta]

I've been where nerdnash has been where the truth is in front of you but its so hard to let go. When you stay in touch with the family when you think she still loves you, when people tell you she just needs time and all that jargon.

Trust me if she wanted to be with you she would right now.

Cut her off cut her sister off, done.

My mom considered my ex as her second daughter,

In the end none if that means anything family first breh

 

[MikelArteta]

I remember when my sister got dumped by her bf because he went off to university.

He told her to wait for her and all that, my sister met someone else got married and has 3 kids.

Dude just finished school a few years ago
My sister would prob still be waiting in vain cue bob Marley

I ain't waiting for nobody.

 

[NerdNash]

I've been where nerdnash has been where the truth is in front of you but its so hard to let go. When you stay in touch with the family when you think she still loves you, when people tell you she just needs time and all that jargon.

Trust me if she wanted to be with you she would right now.

Cut her off cut her sister off, done.

My mom considered my ex as her second daughter,

In the end none if that means anything family first breh

I remember when my sister got dumped by her bf because he went off to university.

He told her to wait for her and all that, my sister met someone else got married and has 3 kids.

Dude just finished school a few years ago
My sister would prob still be waiting in vain cue bob Marley

I ain't waiting for nobody.

I know breh. Like i said it's Day 2. I'm just taking it day to day.

 

[NerdNash]

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 34 (By KevM3)

@kevm3

 

[NerdNash]

You have to participate in your own rescue

If he's not taking action to what we're preaching to him then we're just wasting each other's time

no contact with her is my action towards getting thru this my breh

DAY 2

 

[MikelArteta]

Whenever you feel like contacting her post in this thread

I know breh. Like i said it's Day 2. I'm just taking it day to day.

 

[NerdNash]

Whenever you feel like contacting her post in this thread

No doubt. I know she's going to crumble bro. Real shyt, im not the most put together dude but I know im all she knows. Chick still uses my lingo and all. Could be not a goddamn thing. But sometimes you just gotta believe shyt is meant to be.

But I promise my brehs I aint folding. I'm staying strong for the culture

 

[b_priest9mm]

Looks like my attention whore got the message. Hasn't said a word to me since I cut off her supply. When we walk by each other, there's not even so much as a greeting. Good, now she can get her fix elsewhere.

She's got a fatty, but I won't let it tempt me because I know the price that comes with it. No more boosting her ego and me going through a cycle of depression.

This is great because it's a load off my mind and allows me to mentally reset. One less thing for me to worry about. I had been stressin', I won't lie and now I feel refreshed.

I can focus 100% of my energy on myself and my goals again.

 

[RealAssanova]

@NerdNash you really letting a girl have that much power of you breh?

fukk what her sister said, fukk what or who homegirl doing...and just do you.

nikkaz need to stop letting women affect them. These women are temporary. They ain't gonna help you get to where you want...only you can. If you think about it, it makes no sense giving yourself (ie. your time/energy/resources) to something that is temporary because you know it'll come to an end. Women are exactly this.

This better be the last time you bring up shorty again. If she hits you up, wants you back, etc. ignore that trick.

 

[NerdNash]

@NerdNash you really letting a girl have that much power of you breh?

fukk what her sister said, fukk what or who homegirl doing...and just do you.

nikkaz need to stop letting women affect them. These women are temporary. They ain't gonna help you get to where you want...only you can. If you think about it, it makes no sense giving yourself (ie. your time/energy/resources) to something that is temporary because you know it'll come to an end. Women are exactly this.

This better be the last time you bring up shorty again. If she hits you up, wants you back, etc. ignore that trick.

fukk it I wont bring it up again my breh

 

[PrnzHakeem]

fukk it I wont bring it up again my breh

Sorry for drawing you back in, but I remember telling you the relationship was over and to not go back.

You love this chick, and want her back...but you willing to be faithful to her NOW? You did her super dirty from what I remember, and it wasn't the first time. So why should she think the next time will be different?

More importantly, why do YOU think the next time will be different? Your insecurities pushed you to that demonic life, and all of a sudden they gone? You want ya lady back and to heal your relationship, but you aint even heal ya self.

 

[DAlbert]

It's a waste of time for real. Women want a dude to give them problems. They'll tell you they want some nice, sweet faithful guy when their last 4 or 5 boyfriends were the SAME drama types. She always posts on facebook she wants a man of God, but everytime you see her kicking it, it's with the block bully.

I'll tell you a secret. You'll get more loyalty when your girl is arguing and fighting with you on occasion than you will if everything is smooth and there are no problems. Women like to be emotionally wrapped up in some form of drama. Peace and perfection are way too boring for them. LOOK WHAT HAPPENED IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN. We had peace and perfection there, but she got bored and had to go off listening to that snake.. You feel me mane? That's why it's better to be a woman's problem than her problem solver. It's also why you don't worry about what a woman thinks, because you try to give into her supposed 'wants' and you'll be even more confused than her. You end up satisfying all of her needs and doing whatever it takes to put a smile on her face everyday and she'll leave you for being too boring and too appeasing. You spend a lot of time with her and you are 'too clingy and need to give her space.' You don't spend a whole lot of time with her and you are too distant and aren't showing her enough affection. In other words, no matter what you do, she was a way to find you in the wrong to justify her complaining or her talking to some other guy, etc. This is why you never focus on pleasing a woman, but instead operate on principle whether she likes it or not.

One art a woman has perfected is the art of victimhood. Once you figure this out, you will have a way deeper understanding of female psychology. Women have been taught at an early age to manipulate men by manipulating her dad through crying and looking sad. She won't try that with momma, because momma knows what's up and will tell her to dry those tears up and get out of there. Daddy, on the other hand, will say hey princess, what's wrong? How can I make those tears go away? She learns at an early age that by playing the victim to a man she can get her way.

Think of a situation in which a woman with a man decides to cheat. To the other man, her boyfriend is the dirtiest scumbag ever, but somehow she never got around to leaving. One day you end up meeting the fella, and you might say man this dude ain't nothing like what she described... He looks like one of those nice guys that is just heads over heels in love with his woman. If she gets caught cheating with you, all of a sudden you were the slick seducer that made her do it against her will. We can go on and on with countless more examples. If you want a recent example, just look at the whole SOHH fiasco. It wasn't SOHH and felicia's fault for ignoring the requests of users. It was Buzznet's who she decided to make a deal with. It wasn't her problem to fix, but it was the users that needed to email buzznet.

You will save yourself a LOT of time and effort if you understand the victim mentality of a female and learn to cut it short. Just tell them to stop feeling sorry for themselves and to handle that... Otherwise YOU'LL be the one feeling down when she wraps you in a blanket of negativity as she offloads constant complaints in your ear in the form of non-stop vent sessions. You will save yourself undue manipulation.

had to quote this shyt again