Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

Yep it's crazy when you think of it, I've been on so many dates in my life with different women, i've had so many women tell me they love me they care about me. And I sit here and it's like where are they now? The only women who actually stayed in my life are the ones I had NO FEELINGS FOR, a few ex co workers who I consider some of my closet friends and still keep in touch daily, a girl who I grew up with who got married a few weeks ago who is like my sister and well that's really about it.

All the women who I spent portions of my life with GONE
all the women who said they love me GONE
All the women I've slept with GONE
ALl the women I said I loved gone


I'm just thankful I gained that knowledge while I was semi young so now that I'm older I no longer stress.

Exactly. Enjoy a woman while she is with you, but really, you never know what she's doing when she's not in your presence and you don't know if she will decide that she's found some better offer and is off to the races. Therefore, it makes little sense worrying about such things and defining yourself in terms of what women are doing.

Society has also set things up to where if your woman decides she has quick feet, she can also ruin your life in the process. Honestly, more than anything, On a slight tangent, I think it'd be best to focus on stacking up money and finding a destination to escape 'the West' so to say. The way things are going, I don't know if I want to be here too much longer.

 

[DAlbert]

I see it everywhere, but older brehs does the dating scene really get better as yall got older and build y'alls wealth?

not sure if I already ask that. I feel like some OG's exaggerate how better it gets when they get older

 

[MikelArteta]

Exactly. Enjoy a woman while she is with you, but really, you never know what she's doing when she's not in your presence and you don't know if she will decide that she's found some better offer and is off to the races. Therefore, it makes little sense worrying about such things and defining yourself in terms of what women are doing.

Society has also set things up to where if your woman decides she has quick feet, she can also ruin your life in the process. Honestly, more than anything, On a slight tangent, I think it'd be best to focus on stacking up money and finding a destination to escape 'the West' so to say. The way things are going, I don't know if I want to be here too much longer.

you look at that thread malta made about black women in brazil, or you even get a passport and just travel the world and the conditions are so different. I know people will try and discourage you and say this and that oh its because your a foreigner etc. but its .

 

[MikelArteta]

I see it everywhere, but older brehs does the dating scene really get better as yall got older and build y'alls wealth?

not sure if I already ask that. I feel like some OG's exaggerate how better it gets when they get older

I mentioned a few page back I'd say for me its like a old veteran who still has game and hes a free agent, hes not going to sign with the new york knicks, la lakers, nah only a contender which are a select few teams. Look at david west had options all over the league but at the end it was only between the cavs and teh spurs both contenders. You still have the full market but you limit your interactions.

It's like say your a millionaire when your buying a house you can buy a house anywhere but your only interested in certain areas to build.

What I mean is when I was 20 even 25 and a free agent (single) I'd date a girl as long as she was hot and ft in other areas, if she was unemployed who cared, if she was just working a dead end job shrugs hell even if she had a kid I might have. Now that I'm older and still a free agent, I'm very picky in all aspects, I just don't throw my pearls before swine.

And just like a millionaire you can buy a house anywhere in america, but why would you buy in boise idaho when you can buy in the calabasas? see you still have options but now you have more options but your options are more limited, like I wouldn't even look into buying in boise idaho but the calabasas, beverly hills etc.

So i wouldn't say the dating scene gets better per say, it actually shrunk for me and it's actually harder because there are so few contenders and so few houses being sold in prime areas if you know what I mean

 

[kevm3]

you look at that thread malta made about black women in brazil, or you even get a passport and just travel the world and the conditions are so different. I know people will try and discourage you and say this and that oh its because your a foreigner etc. but its .

A lot of the problems we have are cultural, and many are directly inherited from that virulent philosophy known as feminism. Where you don't have such twisted mentalities, the relations among men and women are much better because they don't look at each other as adversaries who are competing against one another.

Honestly, I don't even care to argue. Those who enjoy this current status are free to stay here. There are no perfect women anywhere, but to deny culture has an impact on how enjoyable being around a woman is is pure fantasy. We live in a society where women aren't taught to cooperate with men, but rather to compete with them and they've been given the keys to the legal system so that they can get you locked up through a variety of means. This was intentional, of course, in order to break up the family structure, and we're seeing that today.

 

[kevm3]

I see it everywhere, but older brehs does the dating scene really get better as yall got older and build y'alls wealth?

not sure if I already ask that. I feel like some OG's exaggerate how better it gets when they get older

You will get a ton of attenion as you get older IF you kept yourself up. If you hit your 30s and you are flabby with nothing to show and allow your style to go into the toilet, then no, it won't. Those who say that 30s is a great time to date are usually those who planted their seeds of success in their earlier years and now they are finally reaping the rewards of it all.

If you find a high quality woman though, do NOT put her off thinking that you can get another her in your 30s. The reason most say focus on things other than women is because women nowadays are VERY transient and unstable. They might be here today, but disappear tomorrow just because they felt they found a better option. If you were blessed enough to find a woman that wants to stick with you, don't put her off thinking you can find another her easily. You will have a lot of options if you kept yourself up, but they aren't necessarily those options you can build with... so when you find that build-withable woman, don't lose her.

 

[sfgiants]

You will get a ton of attenion as you get older IF you kept yourself up. If you hit your 30s and you are flabby with nothing to show and allow your style to go into the toilet, then no, it won't. Those who say that 30s is a great time to date are usually those who planted their seeds of success in their earlier years and now they are finally reaping the rewards of it all.

If you find a high quality woman though, do NOT put her off thinking that you can get another her in your 30s. The reason most say focus on things other than women is because women nowadays are VERY transient and unstable. They might be here today, but disappear tomorrow just because they felt they found a better option. If you were blessed enough to find a woman that wants to stick with you, don't put her off thinking you can find another her easily. You will have a lot of options if you kept yourself up, but they aren't necessarily those options you can build with... so when you find that build-withable woman, don't lose her.

one of the chicks i been seeing starting to take precedence over the rest of these bytches. been flaking on a couple just to make time for her
trying not to get ahead of myself but man .

 

[PrnzHakeem]

hopefully she give me a chance

Any chick that has to ask a dude that is pursuing her "Why are you even interested in me?" is bad news, bruh. She gon fukk up ya life.

Yall been talking for months, already flirted and you ask her out on a date and she says: "I have to think about it"

Same chick that would've given you a direct yes or no (more likely a yes) answer if u called her up weeks ago at 2am for a booty call?


You don't see the troll, yet?

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Social media has its good parts but that's one reason I just can't mess with it.

Just screams attention and validation.
If someone doesn't like this photo gotta delete it, simps congregating like ants to chicks photos. And yep if you got a girl whose on it, it will drive you insane.

I remember messing with this chick who had like 3,000 followers, it was like trying to tame a cobra.

Chick would get a papercut at work post it and have like 300 dudes writing simp tales.

Ish will drive you to the mad house, and not to mention how fake it is. You look at Instagram you'd think everyone is rich and life is going well

This entire post is gospel

 

[MikelArteta]

@PrnzHakeem

For being married and still remembering the little guys

 

[Bless't]

I mentioned a few page back I'd say for me its like a old veteran who still has game and hes a free agent, hes not going to sign with the new york knicks, la lakers, nah only a contender which are a select few teams. Look at david west had options all over the league but at the end it was only between the cavs and teh spurs both contenders. You still have the full market but you limit your interactions.

It's like say your a millionaire when your buying a house you can buy a house anywhere but your only interested in certain areas to build.

What I mean is when I was 20 even 25 and a free agent (single) I'd date a girl as long as she was hot and ft in other areas, if she was unemployed who cared, if she was just working a dead end job shrugs hell even if she had a kid I might have. Now that I'm older and still a free agent, I'm very picky in all aspects, I just don't throw my pearls before swine.

And just like a millionaire you can buy a house anywhere in america, but why would you buy in boise idaho when you can buy in the calabasas? see you still have options but now you have more options but your options are more limited, like I wouldn't even look into buying in boise idaho but the calabasas, beverly hills etc.

So i wouldn't say the dating scene gets better per say, it actually shrunk for me and it's actually harder because there are so few contenders and so few houses being sold in prime areas if you know what I mean

I agree with this.

By the time you know exactly what you want... it's harder to find her. Doesnt mean you cant enjoy the residuals of said search though.

 

[NerdNash]

Day 3 no hitting her up brehs

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I see it everywhere, but older brehs does the dating scene really get better as yall got older and build y'alls wealth?

not sure if I already ask that. I feel like some OG's exaggerate how better it gets when they get older

Not really,dating gets worse as you get older.

 

[NerdNash]

shyt is hard brehs but I'm staying busy as much as possible.

 

[kaiOogway]

why do women want to be called everyday miss a nikka a lil