Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Here's a gem concerning women.. Be kind and remember they are people with hearts that beat, and lungs that pump and not some object or label that the media relentlessly portrays them as. Literally they are mens other half.. Much respect for the ladies.

if only the world was like this, i remember being young and oblivious, the simp the type to send flowers, buy cards, go out of my way and sacrifice for chicks and well that gets you nowhere except for used and bused.

 

[twan83]

Here's a gem concerning women.. Be kind and remember they are people with hearts that beat, and lungs that pump and not some object or label that the media relentlessly portrays them as. Literally they are mens other half.. Much respect for the ladies.

I feel what ur trying to say but this aint the movies fam.

reality is this you can treat a person to the highest quality and still get shytted on u have to be smart out here in the REAL WORLD.

U need a damn backbone and some common sense or ur gonna be in for a rude awakening and some serious heartbreak.

there are good women out there not gonna say there aint but it goes both ways when a woman says where are the good men at

men can say where are the good women at

 

[MikeyK]

if only the world was like this, i remember being young and oblivious, the simp the type to send flowers, buy cards, go out of my way and sacrifice for chicks and well that gets you nowhere except for used and bused.

I don't think he's saying you need to simp to be kind. Know who you are, what you're worth and have some compassion.

 

[Fatboi1]

This dude Juno sound like as soon as he hit submit he went to the store.

 

[Juno]

...lol didn't know a simple post about respecting women as people (that's all I was saying) was going to start all this extra dialogue and what not lol. Owell it did spice things up. Yall made some interesting points.

 

[Tony_Siegel]

Live life for you, your loved ones, and ideally for the betterment of the world. Don't live life in an attempt to supplicate your "selfish" desires. Perfect example of this is when you continually try to tame "your wild stallion".

 

[jalamanta]

Great Expectations ...special in me - is you - YouTube

Live life for you, your loved ones, and ideally for the betterment of the world. Don't live life in an attempt to supplicate your "selfish" desires. Perfect example of this is when you continually try to tame "your wild stallion".

what this video is suppose to represent? image of an ultimate simp?

corny as fukk

 

[winb83]

...lol didn't know a simple post about respecting women as people (that's all I was saying) was going to start all this extra dialogue and what not lol. Owell it did spice things up. Yall made some interesting points.

Respect is earned. Outside that a stranger women get no more respect than a stranger male. The lowest level possible without being disrespectful but that's about it and even then that's probably more respect than they're gonna give you.

 

[Seth Brundle]

Another marriage narrative:

"I’m living this reality right now as well. Ten years of marriage, 15 together in total and I’ve finally woken up to these red pill truths thanks to sites like this. We met when we were 18 and she convinced me that our love was this perfect romantic love without conditions. I responded like most men, especially those who are still really kids, and bought into her vision of us being soul-mates hook line and sinker. I ignored the times over the years when I had stumbled and her unconditional love suddenly became very conditional.

Two years ago I lost my job and suddenly I was as disposable as a used kleenex to her. Contemptuous talk about me, disrespect and other men coming out of the woodwork. She had the audacity to tell me she was finally going to live the life of freedom I’d denied her by insisting on a relationship so young, a total rewrite of the truth. It’s not as if I had been 18 and dying to get married and the fact that I held out against marrying her until I was in my 20s did nothing but piss her off.

A young guy who came by one day to fix our fridge was an object of absolute lust for her and she made it clear how useless I was in comparison to him. He was one of several she told me I couldn’t measure up to, guys who lived how they wanted, worked out and socialized all day when not on shift and drank and slept around at night (so basically everything I the perfect beta husband had given up on in order to be with her years ago).

I recovered financially last year and she never cheated physically (carefully verified), but now I’m awake to reality. She is loyal to me only as long as I fulfill all her fantasies, whatever they are in a given moment, and pay all her bills no matter how wasteful some of her expenditures are (at one point when I was jobless we had $100 in the bank to last two weeks and she went out and spent $80 of it on a scarf). This wasn’t a temporary thing, but a pattern I’d ignored throughout our marriage. Even when I was at my lowest, unemployed and living on savings, she was laughing at me and telling me my whole reason for existing was to pay her bills, true for any real man she said. She even convinced me to finally convert to her religion and promptly fell into a flirtation with the minister advising us, my lowest point.

She’s well past her prime now at the age of 34 and I’m only beginning to come into my own, which is why I assume she never left or slept around. I’m now getting fit, making great money and can more than live without her (always could but now I know it). She said we might be over before long if my attitude doesn’t change and I just laughed and said so what? That shocked her and she was the one jumping through my hoops for a while there. But I can tell she’s biding her time and she fully expects me to fall back under her whole Disney princess spell and go back to working my butt off for her and loving her no matter what, but I’ve seen the truth now. You can’t unring a bell and she can’t unsay the venomous things she said to me when she thought I was useless, flirting with men in front of me while I blamed myself for not having work. I’ll do what’s good for me now and she’s welcome to come along for the ride, but on my terms. If not, she can take a walk. I regret marrying and if it doesn’t last I won’t marry again, but I’m just fine with that."

My life, sort of. But my wife cheated. To be fair, we had grown apart. But so much of that growing apart stems from them luring you into a female institution (marriage) by fronting on who they are, then turning out nothing like they had led you to believe.

I wasn't perfect, but I kept it reality. And I'm more than better off now without her.

Don't get married.

 

[Seth Brundle]

Here's a gem concerning women.. Be kind and remember they are people with hearts that beat, and lungs that pump and not some object or label that the media relentlessly portrays them as. Literally they are mens other half.. Much respect for the ladies.

mmmmmmmm sorta. There may be some good ones out there. But how much can you ever really know about them (until it's too late)? Be armed with knowledge.

I think this thread is mostly about the type of women who want the power of men, the priveleges of women, and the responsibilities of neither.

 

[Nintendough]

Here's a gem concerning women.. Be kind and remember they are people with hearts that beat, and lungs that pump and not some object or label that the media relentlessly portrays them as. Literally they are mens other half.. Much respect for the ladies.

 

[jadillac]

mmmmmmmm sorta. There may be some good ones out there. But how much can you ever really know about them (until it's too late)? Be armed with knowledge.

I think this thread is mostly about the type of women who want the power of men, the priveleges of women, and the responsibilities of neither.

My mind is full of blown.

I'm gonna use this breh.

Sounds like true wisdom spoken from experience.

 

[DanielAlfredsson]

Just recently cut off this chick I been dealing with for a minute.

There's a lot of history here, lots of back and forth. We reconnected recently after not talking for a few months, and were both single. We both admitted feelings were there (is having feelings for a female simpin? lol), but knew the time wasn't right.

She told me I was the kinda guy she wants to end up eventually and all those duck tales, and while I was skeptical, I was willing to see where it went. We weren't together so I was still doing my thing, and she told me she didn't wanna know about it.

Anyway, she met some dope boy at a BBQ, dude's got two kids from two different baby mamas. She went on a playdate with him, told me it was innocent, and then we didn't talk for a few days. She admitted she hung out til 5am with him and then confessed he smashed. She told me she wants to still hang out with me while ol' dude beats it up. I said I wasn't cool with it, to which she brought up my activities.

We had a big ass text fight (which are the fukkin worst) and I deleted her # from my phone. Just saw she deleted me on FB.

Too bad, when she ever gets her shyt together, she'll be a great catch, but I'll let this fake ass Nino Brown deal with it instead.

She's also the first single mom I was ever involved with. Learned my lesson with this one, brehs.

 

[winb83]

Just recently cut off this chick I been dealing with for a minute.

There's a lot of history here, lots of back and forth. We reconnected recently after not talking for a few months, and were both single. We both admitted feelings were there (is having feelings for a female simpin? lol), but knew the time wasn't right.

She told me I was the kinda guy she wants to end up eventually and all those duck tales, and while I was skeptical, I was willing to see where it went. We weren't together so I was still doing my thing, and she told me she didn't wanna know about it.

Anyway, she met some dope boy at a BBQ, dude's got two kids from two different baby mamas. She went on a playdate with him, told me it was innocent, and then we didn't talk for a few days. She admitted she hung out til 5am with him and then confessed he smashed. She told me she wants to still hang out with me while ol' dude beats it up. I said I wasn't cool with it, to which she brought up my activities.

We had a big ass text fight (which are the fukkin worst) and I deleted her # from my phone. Just saw she deleted me on FB.

Too bad, when she ever gets her shyt together, she'll be a great catch, but I'll let this fake ass Nino Brown deal with it instead.

She's also the first single mom I was ever involved with. Learned my lesson with this one, brehs.

She committed no foul. You as you put it still did your thing and she wasn't your girlfriend anyway so she basically had a license to fukk whoever. I wouldn't have dropped her for that but I also probably wouldn't have taken her serious about a relationship either.

 

[jadillac]

Just recently cut off this chick I been dealing with for a minute.

There's a lot of history here, lots of back and forth. We reconnected recently after not talking for a few months, and were both single. We both admitted feelings were there (is having feelings for a female simpin? lol), but knew the time wasn't right.

She told me I was the kinda guy she wants to end up eventually and all those duck tales, and while I was skeptical, I was willing to see where it went. We weren't together so I was still doing my thing, and she told me she didn't wanna know about it.

Anyway, she met some dope boy at a BBQ, dude's got two kids from two different baby mamas. She went on a playdate with him, told me it was innocent, and then we didn't talk for a few days. She admitted she hung out til 5am with him and then confessed he smashed. She told me she wants to still hang out with me while ol' dude beats it up. I said I wasn't cool with it, to which she brought up my activities.

We had a big ass text fight (which are the fukkin worst) and I deleted her # from my phone. Just saw she deleted me on FB.

Too bad, when she ever gets her shyt together, she'll be a great catch, but I'll let this fake ass Nino Brown deal with it instead.

She's also the first single mom I was ever involved with. Learned my lesson with this one, brehs.

lol @ text fighting....yep I know about them. Awful.

I dont know or where you're from, bu any chick messin with a d-boy, I'd have questions about her judgement. But it just depends on where you're from tho.

I wouldnt be able to take her seriously for a relationship, especially if she's lettin him smash. That's all that would be on my mind while we're together....but again, that's just me.

This chick I mentioned on the last page, I don't even have any proof of her creepin, but I semi-suspect it and my gut can't be completely wrong. Plus I cant go thru everyday wondering what she's up to, or where shes REALLY at. I cut off conversations with 3-4 other chicks b/c I liked her the most, so I'm not putting up with any bs b/c, not to sound arrogant, but I can find someone else.