Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Spoke to my ex today. She was in NYC to see her home girl.

I call just to small talk and she throws in "yea I love NYC I may move out here soon" lmao a obvious move to try to throw a shot at me.

see man your already trying to decipher the words or phrases she says, you don't know if its a joke or if its real but your wasting more time thinking of it.

she sees you as a friend but deep down you want more , if yur ex told you tomorrow shes moving in with bodybuilder, or getting married, or is pregnant how would you feel? would you congratulate her wishing her all the best like a real friend would? doubtful

Friends with exes rarely is a nice road to travel unless your both over each other and by then you'll have no desire to really be friends.

 

[Mike Ock]

Spoke to my ex today. She was in NYC to see her home girl.

I call just to small talk and she throws in "yea I love NYC I may move out here soon" lmao a obvious move to try to throw a shot at me.

lol..the good ol "I'ma be in your neck of the woods for a few days next week, let's have lunch "

Happened to me after dealing with the Canuck. Maybe it was almost a year after we broke up, I moved on and really hadn't felt the need to contact her since. Well, she hit me up saying she was gonna visit and we should meet up to "catch up". I responded "I'm cool, don't really have anything to 'catch up on' we both are living our lives and there's no animosity on my end towards you" Then she hits me with the "I'll always love you" line.."we had great times together". I asked her did her b/f know you still feel this way, cause I don;t hate you but I can't say I love you the same and there's no benefit for any of us meeting". The she hit me with the "I hope the best for ya" I didn't bother responding

Whatdoyaknow this past Memorial day weekend, her friend who was part of the 3-some with me and my ex, lets me know she's gonna be in NY, lets meets up for a drink. I assumed her and my ex are still friends and I actually considered it. Then I thought, though we were cool and coulda hooked up again...I woulda felt like shyt after. I have a chik who goes all out for me, I wouldn't even feel good if the ex found out because I had no bad blood towards her. So I just never responded to the friend the day we were supposed to meet up. The less done, the less I have to hide and cover up.

Bad decision lead to more bad decisions.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Lol

...yeah if i see pic with"ANGELES" or just a face pic and no full body pic of insecurities automatically . It also shows that the said women in question has insecurities. And usually how it works is when you in a relationship with that women her insecurities usually become your insecurities.

 

[kevm3]

lol..the good ol "I'ma be in your neck of the woods for a few days next week, let's have lunch "

Happened to me after dealing with the Canuck. Maybe it was almost a year after we broke up, I moved on and really hadn't felt the need to contact her since. Well, she hit me up saying she was gonna visit and we should meet up to "catch up". I responded "I'm cool, don't really have anything to 'catch up on' we both are living our lives and there's no animosity on my end towards you" Then she hits me with the "I'll always love you" line.."we had great times together". I asked her did her b/f know you still feel this way, cause I don;t hate you but I can't say I love you the same and there's no benefit for any of us meeting". The she hit me with the "I hope the best for ya" I didn't bother responding

Whatdoyaknow this past Memorial day weekend, her friend who was part of the 3-some with me and my ex, lets me know she's gonna be in NY, lets meets up for a drink. I assumed her and my ex are still friends and I actually considered it. Then I thought, though we were cool and coulda hooked up again...I woulda felt like shyt after. I have a chik who goes all out for me, I wouldn't even feel good if the ex found out because I had no bad blood towards her. So I just never responded to the friend the day we were supposed to meet up. The less done, the less I have to hide and cover up.

Bad decision lead to more bad decisions.

Yep, if you have a quality woman, don't lose that playing around. Quality women are extremely rare.

 

[McPiff]

she had one in her whatsapp just of her face , i wasn't doing anything today and she lives at weston n teston



ah well i got a free lunch out of it, she took me to subway where her fat ass ate a sandwich in like 2 minutes, I didn't even say anything it was quiet as hell then she asked do you want to leave? and im like yeah

already deleted and blocked from whatsapp

Spoke to my ex today. She was in NYC to see her home girl.

I call just to small talk and she throws in "yea I love NYC I may move out here soon" lmao a obvious move to try to throw a shot at me.

 

[MikelArteta]

in other news brushing up my resume to apply for even a bigger paying job, almost 6 figures if i can get it

 

[MikelArteta]

...yeah if i see pic with"ANGELES" or just a face pic and no full body pic of insecurities automatically . It also shows that the said women in question has insecurities. And usually how it works is when you in a relationship with that women her insecurities usually become your insecurities.

lol i know about the angles, i didnt even know this chicks name, mst have been months and months ago when I was messing with tinder

 

[MikelArteta]

lol..the good ol "I'ma be in your neck of the woods for a few days next week, let's have lunch "

Happened to me after dealing with the Canuck. Maybe it was almost a year after we broke up, I moved on and really hadn't felt the need to contact her since. Well, she hit me up saying she was gonna visit and we should meet up to "catch up". I responded "I'm cool, don't really have anything to 'catch up on' we both are living our lives and there's no animosity on my end towards you" Then she hits me with the "I'll always love you" line.."we had great times together". I asked her did her b/f know you still feel this way, cause I don;t hate you but I can't say I love you the same and there's no benefit for any of us meeting". The she hit me with the "I hope the best for ya" I didn't bother responding

Whatdoyaknow this past Memorial day weekend, her friend who was part of the 3-some with me and my ex, lets me know she's gonna be in NY, lets meets up for a drink. I assumed her and my ex are still friends and I actually considered it. Then I thought, though we were cool and coulda hooked up again...I woulda felt like shyt after. I have a chik who goes all out for me, I wouldn't even feel good if the ex found out because I had no bad blood towards her. So I just never responded to the friend the day we were supposed to meet up. The less done, the less I have to hide and cover up.

Bad decision lead to more bad decisions.

a lesser man would have

 

[PinotNoir]

she was fat


already back home

How fat was she, precious fat? Was she bad built like no hips etc? You've got guts because I would've been iffy about meeting after having not talked to the person that long.

 

[MikelArteta]

Just below precious fat

I don't even remember talking to her like I didn't even have her contact or remember my name just popped up on my whatsapp and I was hungry

I'll hold this L

How fat was she, precious fat? Was she bad built like no hips etc? You've got guts because I would've been iffy about meeting after having not talked to the person that long.

 

[PinotNoir]

Just below precious fat

I don't even remember talking to her like I didn't even have her contact or remember my name just popped up on my whatsapp and I was hungry

I'll hold this L

Lol at least you're owning it

 

[Fatboi1]

Lmao you right.

Idk man I just can't muster up the strength to contact an ex after I decided that I'm over them. Today as I'm going home I'm just thinking to myself I should send her a text or something and immediately I'd get angry and pissed off thinking about all the stuff that made me mad. I was just all throughout the ride. I just don't even have nothing to say to her. Smh

 

[360dagod]

Its crazy how women "create"drama when you dont flirt with them..

Chick swore i hung up on her when i told her i would call her back and sent her a text responding to her..

She later said sorry after she realized how bugged she was

 

[jadillac]

Women in 2015 are a joke.

Last weekend this chick came over to my place, I smashed. I have always suspected she had a bf, she has been very flakey from day 1, disappearing, returning texts a day late, excuses, making calls outside, excuses for this and that etc. Last weekend when she left my place, she left her stuff setting me up just in case I got a gf, hair pin under the dining table, toothbrush in the bathroom, phone charger, thong shoved in between my clothes.

This weekend she has pulled the disappearing act again, nowhere to be found. Im now convinced she got a bf. Goodluck to the dude, I sensed early even though I dont have legit evidence.

Nowadays you have to stay with options and keep your heart in check. The dating game is now a warzone, dont get caught slipping.

This is some evil/crazy sh*t.

regardless of if she has a b/f or not, leave this one alone breh

 

[Atlrocafella]

A lot of women live up to the standard that the men uphold. A lot of men complain about a lack fo quality women, and yet when they praise women, the only kind of woman that shows up is some stripper in a thong or some such similar breed of woman. When women see this is the kind of woman that men praise and pay attention to in deeds, then that's the kind of woman they start morphing into. If you want quality woman, you got to give them their props and pay attention to them over that loose, scandalous woman.

This is so real. I never give props to IG models, strippers, porn stars, vixens and etc, I don't follow them on social media or anything.

If we want more quality women, we need to give props to the quality women we already have out here. I always shout them out and let them know they are appreciated.