Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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A lot of women live up to the standard that the men uphold. A lot of men complain about a lack fo quality women, and yet when they praise women, the only kind of woman that shows up is some stripper in a thong or some such similar breed of woman. When women see this is the kind of woman that men praise and pay attention to in deeds, then that's the kind of woman they start morphing into. If you want quality woman, you got to give them their props and pay attention to them over that loose, scandalous woman.
This is so real. I never give props to IG models, strippers, porn stars, vixens and etc, I don't follow them on social media or anything.

If we want more quality women, we need to give props to the quality women we already have out here. I always shout them out and let them know they are appreciated.
 

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Women in 2015 are a joke.

Last weekend this chick came over to my place, I smashed. I have always suspected she had a bf, she has been very flakey from day 1, disappearing, returning texts a day late, excuses, making calls outside, excuses for this and that etc. Last weekend when she left my place, she left her stuff setting me up just in case I got a gf, hair pin under the dining table, toothbrush in the bathroom, phone charger, thong shoved in between my clothes.

This weekend she has pulled the disappearing act again, nowhere to be found. Im now convinced she got a bf. Goodluck to the dude, I sensed early even though I dont have legit evidence.

Nowadays you have to stay with options and keep your heart in check. The dating game is now a warzone, dont get caught slipping.

Yea man these women have just as fukked up mentality as they complain we do.. I delt with a chick who was hiding a BF from me there are so many things wrong with that, first off, that is super disrespectful to him like you don't respect him enough to claim him, and the funny part is she brought him around me and tried say they were just friends and that they would never do nothing.. Im not going to get into too many details but I found out they were dating when she told me they broke up, I was like Gee I wonder why :snoop: That type of shyt is the reason why threads like this are needed..

This is so real. I never give props to IG models, strippers, porn stars, vixens and etc, I don't follow them on social media or anything.

If we want more quality women, we need to give props to the quality women we already have out here. I always shout them out and let them know they are appreciated.
:patrice: You I have started to realize that I need to be more picky with not only my penis but with who I give attention to in general. Like I even feel like reading through some of these threads on here about bad relationship's or just some of the ridiculous advise that is given out on here is just exposing your self to negative energy for no reason.. Some of the problems these dudes have with women comes from being on here too much, when you surround yourself with pessimistic people or just negative mindsets you start to become that and you give that off to these women you trying to talk to.. I think this speaks to the laws of attraction..
 

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Alright, new girl, new questions.
She was texting me a lot and talking about funny / sexual sh!t but also she really wanted to go slowwww. Two dates later but I'm kind of like :patrice:. I mean we have plans for Saturday but still something seems off or maybe I'm overthinking and paranoid from my ex. Maybe I just don't understand the "go slow" concept.

I mean this new one, she is sexy as hell but I'm not trying to waste my time. What's your standard operating procedure when you detect maybe she's not that interested, yet there are still dates being scheduled?

I know there's no guide book but I'm trying to be proactive and in the past I probably wouldn't even pick up the signs or would be in denial. At this point, I'm kind of like :beli:, well let's see where it goes.
 
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Alright, new girl, new questions.
She was texting me a lot and talking about funny / sexual shyt but also she really wanted to go slowwww. Two dates later but I'm kind of like :patrice:. I mean we have plans for Saturday but still something seems off or maybe I'm overthinking and paranoid from my ex. Maybe I just don't understand the "go slow" concept.

I mean this new one, she is sexy as hell but I'm not trying to waste my time. What's your standard operating procedure when you detect maybe she's not that interested, yet there are still dates being scheduled?

I know there's no guide book but I'm trying to be proactive and in the past I probably wouldn't even pick up the signs or would be in denial. At this point, I'm kind of like :beli:, well let's see where it goes.

How much you spending??

If she talking that sex stuff, go for the jugular...

See if she crazy or not tho...

let her reveal herself and adjust
 

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She's been a REALLY cheap date so far. It seems like she acted crazier in the beginning and now its almost boring convos.

I preferred the crazy/sex stuff she was talking at first. I'm just going to see where it goes a little bit longer but honestly I don't know wtf I'm doing "going slow". Not even sure what that entails or how slow I can even go.
 

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As far as this break up. Im about to just play the game like a savage. I'm lining up some new p*ssy as I type this. Just going to use these chicks for lust purposes, stay busy, work on myself and shoot the shyt at my ex every now and then :yeshrug:
 

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Life seems so much easier when you just srop worrying about women or relationships and just live it.

Whatever happens happens, get that passport plan for a trip and :blessed:

real shyt. I realized that and I realized the thing that was hurting me was that my EX is just living and letting time decide what happens. Whatever is meant to happen is going to happen no matter if she gets married and moves to Dubai. Whats meant to be will be.
 

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Just have to live your life. Can't imagine being 45 regretting how I wasted a year of two chasing a chick (Even though we both love each other) when I could've been living a bunch of life. Life without a person asking "Where you at?" .. "when are you coming home?"
 

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real shyt. I realized that and I realized the thing that was hurting me was that my EX is just living and letting time decide what happens. Whatever is meant to happen is going to happen no matter if she gets married and moves to Dubai. Whats meant to be will be.
I feel like if I text my ex I'll end up shaming her and sounding mad as fukk.
 
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