Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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can never move too fast breh. attraction has an expiration date. better to be the man who knows what he wants and knows how to lead than waiting for her to decide if she likes you or some shyt.Had great 2 dates over the weekend with a chick I met on Thursday. Homeboy was telling me im moving to fast with the dates? You all thoughts...
Rich Spirit
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2 dates in a span of 3 days? That's a bit much in the beginning. Sure it's cool to see each other everyday/every other day, but eventually the attraction will wear off.Had great 2 dates over the weekend with a chick I met on Thursday. Homeboy was telling me im moving to fast with the dates? You all thoughts...
Stick to going on dates once a week
although things that start fast usually end fast, meh life is short. I don't follow rules or regulations if its Friday and I like the date and she wants to hang out again Sunday and I want to IMA do it.
ManMade
Another Black Hero
Ran into my ex from 2008 about a week ago, did some quick small talk and exchanged numbers. She hits me up last Monday and ask if I was doing anything this past weekend and if I wanted to go out and see a movie. I say yea sure im down. I text her again last Wednesday simple "hey wassup" no response. I shoulda stopped there but gave her the benefit of the doubt. Text her again on Friday to see if she was still down. No response again
...the hell going on here, wasted my time
Edit: she initiated everything
...the hell going on here, wasted my timeEdit: she initiated everything
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I still got him girl!!!
Ran into my ex from 2008 about a week ago, did some quick small talk and exchanged numbers. She hits me up last Monday and ask if I was doing anything this past weekend and if I wanted to go out and see a movie. I say yea sure im down. I text her again last Wednesday simple "hey wassup" no response. I shoulda stopped there but gave her the benefit of the doubt. Text her again on Friday to see if she was still down. No response again
ManMade
Another Black Hero
I just wanted to hit again
Action Mike
All praise..
I dont know how yall dudes do it.
date, talk, or entertain multiple women.
I like 2 now and still have love for a ex and ish feels dirty.
I generally like one a whole lot off a strong 1st impressions in a very short time...alot mang. The other kinda snowballed but she's really good people. And then the ex who's well being is still a concern even though I've been told "dont worry about it"
Just feel's dirty or wrong man...idk
It's probably nothing to them honestly, nor do they know or think twice about it. But for me personally it feels kinda lame. I'm not dating any of them so I have no reason to feel bad but I do. And I'd like to be there and friends for any of them if they needed anything. Maybe that's the problem...
advice?
Breh this game is cold as fukk, your doing what your supposed to be doing.
Would you feel the same if you know those girls are talking to two other guys? No you wont, and they probably are.
You want to be there if they need you? nikka, as soon as they cop a new @realdarkphoenix its done so fast your head will spin.
Men have been the true romantics since the beginning, i aint saying kill that side of you but got to prize your time/efforts like how they prize that box.
I'm still just a one woman person I just can't do it and I know it leaves me at a disadvantage in this day and age but meh.
Ran into my ex from 2008 about a week ago, did some quick small talk and exchanged numbers. She hits me up last Monday and ask if I was doing anything this past weekend and if I wanted to go out and see a movie. I say yea sure im down. I text her again last Wednesday simple "hey wassup" no response. I shoulda stopped there but gave her the benefit of the doubt. Text her again on Friday to see if she was still down. No response again
Edit: she initiated everything
One thing I've learned from this thread (besides men and women primarily want each other for sex/status)
@Emperor_ReinScarf got the answers, man!
Action Mike
All praise..
Of course this is possible, but as long as you have that instilled mindset that there are literally billions of women out there.
Got to start by talking to a few at a time..because 90% of the time they definitely are until your number 1.
my sister told me today my ex is getting married I don't give a damn, but she told me my ex asked to use my brother in law as the pastor for the wedding. She's going to pay him 500 for the day. On one hand I find this ish disrespectful as hell on the other hand its 500 and my sister has 3 kids and a mortgage so I feel like I should just keep my mouth shut
I was going to say something but luckily I don't let emotions get the better of me so I just stayed calm and said ok
I was going to say something but luckily I don't let emotions get the better of me so I just stayed calm and said ok
fukk man. if u on OKC go and look at the women within 50 miles of SF
then do the same search but within 50 miles of LA
bay area is straight
la prob has the best looking women in norfh america
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
Did the right thingmy sister told me today my ex is getting married I don't give a damn, but she told me my ex asked to use my brother in law as the pastor for the wedding. She's going to pay him 500 for the day. On one hand I find this ish disrespectful as hell on the other hand its 500 and my sister has 3 kids and a mortgage so I feel like I should just keep my mouth shut
I was going to say something but luckily I don't let emotions get the better of me so I just stayed calm and said ok