Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

Kinda out the blue. Like Im chilling, just trying to get to know you making jokes and stuff over the phone but then they say "I cant wait to....". Im just like we havent even gone on a first date yet. Im the same way with dudes who try to make me their girlfriend right away. It takes time for me to even know if I like you but guys make decisions and even fall in love faster than women do.

Are your jokes in any way sexual??

Because the way your saying this, it seems like your a "playful"tease...

if you give a nikka the slightest impression, he gonna go for the kill...

There are some nikkas who gives no fukks...But if you havent given them an opening and your offended, they shouldnt even get a 1st date with you

 

[CinnaSlim]

Are your jokes in any way sexual??

Because the way your saying this, it seems like your a "playful"tease...

if you give a nikka the slightest impression, he gonna go for the kill...

There are some nikkas who gives no fukks...But if you havent given them an opening and your offended, they shouldnt even get a 1st date with you

I dont think so. Maybe its cause when they say I have a sexy voice or look good, I just say thanks?

I think I know. I am lenient. Im just polite, like dont wanna be mean, because it doesnt offend me. It's just a little much. I dont expect it when it happens. What should I say when it happens? Because Im dont wanna come out like, "Look here guy, I am not having sex with you, ok? "

Instead I just stop replying and block them lol. Should I just nip it in the bud?

 

[360dagod]

I dont think so. Maybe its cause when they say I have a sexy voice or look good, I just say thanks?

I think I know. I am lenient. Im just polite, like dont wanna be mean, because it doesnt offend me. It's just a little much. I dont expect it when it happens. What should I say when it happens? Because Im dont wanna come out like, "Look here guy, I am not having sex with you, ok? "

Instead I just stop replying and block them lol. Should I just nip it in the bud?

If a nikka say something like that and you giggle, in his mind he's like..

I guess you can do the stop replying method..but im sure you know that game can go both ways..

Me personally, i wouldnt even bring up sex..I just wait for the adjectives that women use to describe themselves...

If they on that Y.O.L.O talk, chances are they thots and we can just go from there

 

[DarkHorse23]

When guys get too sexual way too early, I kinda stop taking them seriously.* It's kinda like when a girl gives it up on the first day, some guys wouldnt take her seriously. Im like that with guys.

Idk if that helps anyone. You can still be sexy without saying how you wanna eat my p*ssy or want me to sit on your face. That just makes me think all you wanna do is smash. I havent even gotten to know you yet.

*I was just being nice. I actually lose all interest in them.

I think a lot of guys get sexual early because if you don't in most cases a woman will start looking at you like a "friend". It's the easiest and most straightforward way of making sure a woman doesnt get the impression that you just wanted to be buddy, and also it keeps women from manipulating you, because what woman who is attracted to you would be turned off about you taking about sex with her? In most cases if a woman is turned off by you talking about sex with her then she wasn't attracted in the first place.

 

[edzyy]

Man, met this chick on twitter

Vibe was right...texted for bout 2 weeks

Offered to link up and grab drinks..got hit with the "lol I don't meet strangers"
Ain't text her since

Jump ship or keep working?

 

[DatMexican]

how do i build up the balls to hit up on this hot white girl from my gym who i feel is outta my league. i kno im overthinking this but idk mang im being a little p*ssy

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

I dont think so. Maybe its cause when they say I have a sexy voice or look good, I just say thanks?

I think I know. I am lenient. Im just polite, like dont wanna be mean, because it doesnt offend me. It's just a little much. I dont expect it when it happens. What should I say when it happens? Because Im dont wanna come out like, "Look here guy, I am not having sex with you, ok? "

Instead I just stop replying and block them lol. Should I just nip it in the bud?

yeah im not making those kind of jokes and comments when I first meet someone, kinda why i've always not been down for going back with the girl you meet at the bar, out, etc. right away. like if i meet you more than once especially if its a non serious thing, I will definitely have more fun if I can joke around with you and kill awkwardness with humor or my personality

guys that go straight for that tone of conversation while I respect it as it can work out now and then, it's just not my thing. i'd rather someone feel comfortable with me and start that conversation and then I can say a little something something to show i'm interested. real simple and you actually seem laid back as hell assuming you are confident about the situation


like we always preach in here, being yourself and comfortable with it will get you so much farther than not. I'm totally confident in myself nowadays and it makes me feel approachable to other people without ever having to draw that line in the sand

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

Man, met this chick on twitter

Vibe was right...texted for bout 2 weeks

Offered to link up and grab drinks..got hit with the "lol I don't meet strangers"
Ain't text her since

Jump ship or keep working?

jump ship and swim to shore


let me throw an edit on here: people oft feel comfortable interacting on social media with people they will likely not meet because it doesnt seem to be a reality in your mind. think about how you post on the coli, it'd be different if you had to meet other posters. people wouldnt be quite the same as they are through the medium

 

[DaHNIC82]

Breh this game is cold as fukk, your doing what your supposed to be doing.

Would you feel the same if you know those girls are talking to two other guys? No you wont, and they probably are.

You want to be there if they need you? nikka, as soon as they cop a new @realdarkphoenix its done so fast your head will spin.

Men have been the true romantics since the beginning, i aint saying kill that side of you but got to prize your time/efforts like how they prize that box.

To be honest, I use to actually think like that cat man. I didn't want to do "good people" dirty, I was afraid of karma, or afraid of breaking hearts. But when you see how cold, vile and vicious this game really is, Where one minute a chick would act like you're the greatest thing to happen in her life to all of a sudden rarely hearing from her 2 weeks later to all of a sudden becoming a 3rd and 4th option, man breh, These chicks DONT GIVE A FUKK about any of that once their emotions is involved. You could save her from getting hit with a freight train, she'll still forget about it weeks later. I've literally had women whom I haven't heard from in years all of a sudden randomly hit me out the blue as if nothing happened before.

Don't feel guilty in playing the field, The majority of chicks would replace ya ass faster than your head could spin the moment a nikka with more stature, more enhanced looks, or bankroll step.

 

[MikelArteta]

Sad to say but its true.

To be honest, I use to actually think like that cat man. I didn't want to do "good people" dirty, I was afraid of karma, or afraid of breaking hearts. But when you see how cold, vile and vicious this game really is, Where one minute a chick would act like you're the greatest thing to happen in her life to all of a sudden rarely hearing from her 2 weeks later to all of a sudden becoming a 3rd and 4th option, man breh, These chicks DONT GIVE A FUKK about any of that once their emotions is involved. You could save her from getting hit with a freight train, she'll still forget about it weeks later. I've literally had women whom I haven't heard from in years all of a sudden randomly hit me out the blue as if nothing happened before.

Don't feel guilty in playing the field, The majority of chicks would replace ya ass faster than your head could spin the moment a nikka with more stature, more enhanced looks, or bankroll step.

 

[Action Mike]

To be honest, I use to actually think like that cat man. I didn't want to do "good people" dirty, I was afraid of karma, or afraid of breaking hearts. But when you see how cold, vile and vicious this game really is, Where one minute a chick would act like you're the greatest thing to happen in her life to all of a sudden rarely hearing from her 2 weeks later to all of a sudden becoming a 3rd and 4th option, man breh, These chicks DONT GIVE A FUKK about any of that once their emotions is involved. You could save her from getting hit with a freight train, she'll still forget about it weeks later. I've literally had women whom I haven't heard from in years all of a sudden randomly hit me out the blue as if nothing happened before.

Don't feel guilty in playing the field, The majority of chicks would replace ya ass faster than your head could spin the moment a nikka with more stature, more enhanced looks, or bankroll step.

All guys have thought like that at some point, but tingles/emotions trump everything. Not a single fukk is given.

From empathy to appreciation. Trumps everything. But if your simp game is fire you get a let's be friends..brehs need to understand anything other than cooperation is bushes.

Can't be afraid to use that nuke button 'delete'. Play with me on some pearl harbour and Hiroshima is coming..

 

[McPiff]

Man, met this chick on twitter

Vibe was right...texted for bout 2 weeks

Offered to link up and grab drinks..got hit with the "lol I don't meet strangers"
Ain't text her since

Jump ship or keep working?

bushes breh

 

[Action Mike]

but guys make decisions and even fall in love faster than women do.

Totally wrong, unless it's a dude with zero options it's impossible even.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Totally wrong, unless it's a dude with zero options it's impossible even.

Biological anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutger University says men are not only more likely to fall in love at first sight than women are, but they’re also likely to fall in love faster than females.

"Men fall in love faster than women do. Women take longer because they have to create a “memory trail” of their mate’s behaviors. She has to remember what he promised, what he’s done for the partnership, and what he failed to do." - Dr. Fisher

 

[Action Mike]

Biological anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutger University says men are not only more likely to fall in love at first sight than women are, but they’re also likely to fall in love faster than females.

"Men fall in love faster than women do. Women take longer because they have to create a “memory trail” of their mate’s behaviors. She has to remember what he promised, what he’s done for the partnership, and what he failed to do." - Dr. Fisher

From a womans pov, no study to back it, your first result on Google, she's a Dr in
anthropology not even psychology...



Even on a basic level men initiate, decision make, charm, are humerous, knowledgeable, etc etc all of the bat..and all these 'memory trails' I leave mean that I fall in love with you the recipient of all this first? That makes no sense.

She's confusing us liking you with love. Love at first sight is she's hot.

Again it's brehs aka simps with no options that give you no breathing space, that's not love it's scarcity.