Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

kevm3

follower of Jesus
Supporter
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
16,317
Reputation
5,595
Daps
83,659
Saw this on fb, didnt wanna make a whole thread. Dropping it here.
11896138_10206371572122152_3436454327467379798_n.jpg

thoughts? :ld:

She should either get with a man that appreciates thicker women or she should hit the gym and trim down to catch the caliber of men she really wants. At the end of the day, that's all she can really do if she wants to improve her situation.
 
Joined
Mar 23, 2013
Messages
12,988
Reputation
2,398
Daps
31,355
@CinnaSlim question- let's say you bumped into a guy that you were fully intrested in . I'm mean spiritually, emotionally...and physically you found this man intresting and handsome. But what if HE dont find you intresting?...what would you do about that situation?
 

OSUBaneBrowns

Ohio to California
Supporter
Joined
May 10, 2012
Messages
6,273
Reputation
902
Daps
17,112
Reppin
Long Beach, CA
Brehs,

For some reason, I've been thinking about this chic that I used to deal with a couple of years ago. We had a falling out due to my simping/ her flaky ass behavior. I don't miss her or want to see if I can rekindle the chemistry per se but I feel that we stop speaking on bad terms and a part me just want to see how is she doing and just bury the hatchet. One side of me is telling me just to forget it and move on while another side is saying just hit her up on Facebook and see what happens. She did pop up on my friends list last year when I haven't looked her up for a long time but I was dealing with losing my job so the last thing I want to deal with is past p*ssy mistakes. I think that she made me more condescending towards dating today. Can someone give me some advice on what to do?
 

The ADD

Old Master
Joined
May 11, 2012
Messages
49,394
Reputation
6,639
Daps
102,624
Brehs,

For some reason, I've been thinking about this chic that I used to deal with a couple of years ago. We had a falling out due to my simping/ her flaky ass behavior. I don't miss her or want to see if I can rekindle the chemistry per se but I feel that we stop speaking on bad terms and a part me just want to see how is she doing and just bury the hatchet. One side of me is telling me just to forget it and move on while another side is saying just hit her up on Facebook and see what happens. She did pop up on my friends list last year when I haven't looked her up for a long time but I was dealing with losing my job so the last thing I want to deal with is past p*ssy mistakes. I think that she made me more condescending towards dating today. Can someone give me some advice on what to do?
I don't see the point in contacting her if you didn't do anything wrong to her. Sometimes you just gotta turn the page.
 

DarkHorse23

Banned
Joined
Mar 2, 2015
Messages
5,682
Reputation
-861
Daps
8,743
Saw this on fb, didnt wanna make a whole thread. Dropping it here.
11896138_10206371572122152_3436454327467379798_n.jpg

thoughts? :ld:

Sounds like a BS Shaming tactic. Women can be such hypocrites. You say you're not obligated to date short men, great. Well we aren't obligated to date fat women. Put down the goddamn Big Mac and Fries and put some work in on that fukking treadmill.
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
259,036
Reputation
33,795
Daps
791,576
Reppin
Champions league
on one side sometimes when you have nothing or no options you dig in the past , your vulnerable and like a car brokem down on the highway you'll accept any help.

However if you want to do it then do it, have one life. I just usually let old dogs die, she's probably not even thinking of that guy from years ago if she was I'm sure she would have messaged you


Brehs,

For some reason, I've been thinking about this chic that I used to deal with a couple of years ago. We had a falling out due to my simping/ her flaky ass behavior. I don't miss her or want to see if I can rekindle the chemistry per se but I feel that we stop speaking on bad terms and a part me just want to see how is she doing and just bury the hatchet. One side of me is telling me just to forget it and move on while another side is saying just hit her up on Facebook and see what happens. She did pop up on my friends list last year when I haven't looked her up for a long time but I was dealing with losing my job so the last thing I want to deal with is past p*ssy mistakes. I think that she made me more condescending towards dating today. Can someone give me some advice on what to do?
 

OSUBaneBrowns

Ohio to California
Supporter
Joined
May 10, 2012
Messages
6,273
Reputation
902
Daps
17,112
Reppin
Long Beach, CA
on one side sometimes when you have nothing or no options you dig in the past , your vulnerable and like a car brokem down on the highway you'll accept any help.

However if you want to do it then do it, have one life. I just usually let old dogs die, she's probably not even thinking of that guy from years ago if she was I'm sure she would have messaged you
For some reason I been thinking about her a lot. Maybe because she was the last girl that I really like. But I also know that we can never be the same as we was before and we have two different lives and it would never work in the long run. I haven't found someone who like me for me and it has made me cold towards dating today. I'm getting older and the dating prospects for my age are :francis::scust::flabbynsick:.
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
259,036
Reputation
33,795
Daps
791,576
Reppin
Champions league
So do it, what's the worst that can happen?

She doesn't reply, you lose a little ego

Better than being in this same spot next year


For some reason I been thinking about her a lot. Maybe because she was the last girl that I really like. But I also know that we can never be the same as we was before and we have two different lives and it would never work in the long run. I haven't found someone who like me for me and it has made me cold towards dating today. I'm getting older and the dating prospects for my age are :francis::scust::flabbynsick:.
 

kevm3

follower of Jesus
Supporter
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
16,317
Reputation
5,595
Daps
83,659
Brehs,

For some reason, I've been thinking about this chic that I used to deal with a couple of years ago. We had a falling out due to my simping/ her flaky ass behavior. I don't miss her or want to see if I can rekindle the chemistry per se but I feel that we stop speaking on bad terms and a part me just want to see how is she doing and just bury the hatchet. One side of me is telling me just to forget it and move on while another side is saying just hit her up on Facebook and see what happens. She did pop up on my friends list last year when I haven't looked her up for a long time but I was dealing with losing my job so the last thing I want to deal with is past p*ssy mistakes. I think that she made me more condescending towards dating today. Can someone give me some advice on what to do?

Leave her alone and move on. You said you cut it off because of your simping and her flaking, so really, what is there to reconcile? She wasn't really feeling you, so the only thing you getting in touch with her is going to do is justify you trying to rekindle the flame that doesn't exist. Keep it pushing... too many women to worry about one that has minor interest.
 

CinnaSlim

Queen of Swords
Joined
Jan 28, 2014
Messages
17,078
Reputation
14,250
Daps
60,745
Reppin
East of Anywhere
@CinnaSlim question- let's say you bumped into a guy that you were fully intrested in . I'm mean spiritually, emotionally...and physically you found this man intresting and handsome. But what if HE dont find you intresting?...what would you do about that situation?
Enjoy his friendship or walk away. I had to walk away before, for my sake. Either enjoy his company or just admire from a far. At the end of the day you can't force feelings, and you can't own our control people.
 
Joined
Mar 23, 2013
Messages
12,988
Reputation
2,398
Daps
31,355
Enjoy his friendship or walk away. I had to walk away before, for my sake. Either enjoy his company or just admire from a far. At the end of the day you can't force feelings, and you can't own our control people.

See this what I'm talking about. Now you didn't answer badly. But what gets me about women is ...you guys don't think to BECOME intresting. Women usually have a list of things they want a man to have but what's intresting is women don't have to a 1/3 of what I HAVE to be to GET a women. The problem is men allow women just to SHOW up with beauty and a vagina and that's it. So a lot of that falls back on men. You ask most these women what a renaissance man is and they can't tell you. I can't meet a women with a personality that's better than mine.
 
Top