Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Even in a relationship I never get to comfortable I know tomorrow or the next day she can get up and just "feel different" and boom its over.only thing thanks to my experience and wisdom gained through the years I'll be like allright, dust myself off and be ok.

 

[kevm3]

Saw this on fb, didnt wanna make a whole thread. Dropping it here.

thoughts?

She should either get with a man that appreciates thicker women or she should hit the gym and trim down to catch the caliber of men she really wants. At the end of the day, that's all she can really do if she wants to improve her situation.

 

[The ADD]

Saw this on fb, didnt wanna make a whole thread. Dropping it here.

thoughts?

Silly meme. It's unrealistic to expect anyone to overlook a certain level of physical attraction for the sake of being in a relationship.

 

[Youseenmywork]

@CinnaSlim question- let's say you bumped into a guy that you were fully intrested in . I'm mean spiritually, emotionally...and physically you found this man intresting and handsome. But what if HE dont find you intresting?...what would you do about that situation?

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Brehs,

For some reason, I've been thinking about this chic that I used to deal with a couple of years ago. We had a falling out due to my simping/ her flaky ass behavior. I don't miss her or want to see if I can rekindle the chemistry per se but I feel that we stop speaking on bad terms and a part me just want to see how is she doing and just bury the hatchet. One side of me is telling me just to forget it and move on while another side is saying just hit her up on Facebook and see what happens. She did pop up on my friends list last year when I haven't looked her up for a long time but I was dealing with losing my job so the last thing I want to deal with is past p*ssy mistakes. I think that she made me more condescending towards dating today. Can someone give me some advice on what to do?

 

[The ADD]

Brehs,

For some reason, I've been thinking about this chic that I used to deal with a couple of years ago. We had a falling out due to my simping/ her flaky ass behavior. I don't miss her or want to see if I can rekindle the chemistry per se but I feel that we stop speaking on bad terms and a part me just want to see how is she doing and just bury the hatchet. One side of me is telling me just to forget it and move on while another side is saying just hit her up on Facebook and see what happens. She did pop up on my friends list last year when I haven't looked her up for a long time but I was dealing with losing my job so the last thing I want to deal with is past p*ssy mistakes. I think that she made me more condescending towards dating today. Can someone give me some advice on what to do?

I don't see the point in contacting her if you didn't do anything wrong to her. Sometimes you just gotta turn the page.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Saw this on fb, didnt wanna make a whole thread. Dropping it here.

thoughts?

Sounds like a BS Shaming tactic. Women can be such hypocrites. You say you're not obligated to date short men, great. Well we aren't obligated to date fat women. Put down the goddamn Big Mac and Fries and put some work in on that fukking treadmill.

 

[MikelArteta]

on one side sometimes when you have nothing or no options you dig in the past , your vulnerable and like a car brokem down on the highway you'll accept any help.

However if you want to do it then do it, have one life. I just usually let old dogs die, she's probably not even thinking of that guy from years ago if she was I'm sure she would have messaged you

Brehs,

For some reason, I've been thinking about this chic that I used to deal with a couple of years ago. We had a falling out due to my simping/ her flaky ass behavior. I don't miss her or want to see if I can rekindle the chemistry per se but I feel that we stop speaking on bad terms and a part me just want to see how is she doing and just bury the hatchet. One side of me is telling me just to forget it and move on while another side is saying just hit her up on Facebook and see what happens. She did pop up on my friends list last year when I haven't looked her up for a long time but I was dealing with losing my job so the last thing I want to deal with is past p*ssy mistakes. I think that she made me more condescending towards dating today. Can someone give me some advice on what to do?

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

on one side sometimes when you have nothing or no options you dig in the past , your vulnerable and like a car brokem down on the highway you'll accept any help.

However if you want to do it then do it, have one life. I just usually let old dogs die, she's probably not even thinking of that guy from years ago if she was I'm sure she would have messaged you

For some reason I been thinking about her a lot. Maybe because she was the last girl that I really like. But I also know that we can never be the same as we was before and we have two different lives and it would never work in the long run. I haven't found someone who like me for me and it has made me cold towards dating today. I'm getting older and the dating prospects for my age are .

 

[MikelArteta]

So do it, what's the worst that can happen?

She doesn't reply, you lose a little ego

Better than being in this same spot next year

For some reason I been thinking about her a lot. Maybe because she was the last girl that I really like. But I also know that we can never be the same as we was before and we have two different lives and it would never work in the long run. I haven't found someone who like me for me and it has made me cold towards dating today. I'm getting older and the dating prospects for my age are .

 

[kevm3]

Brehs,

For some reason, I've been thinking about this chic that I used to deal with a couple of years ago. We had a falling out due to my simping/ her flaky ass behavior. I don't miss her or want to see if I can rekindle the chemistry per se but I feel that we stop speaking on bad terms and a part me just want to see how is she doing and just bury the hatchet. One side of me is telling me just to forget it and move on while another side is saying just hit her up on Facebook and see what happens. She did pop up on my friends list last year when I haven't looked her up for a long time but I was dealing with losing my job so the last thing I want to deal with is past p*ssy mistakes. I think that she made me more condescending towards dating today. Can someone give me some advice on what to do?

Leave her alone and move on. You said you cut it off because of your simping and her flaking, so really, what is there to reconcile? She wasn't really feeling you, so the only thing you getting in touch with her is going to do is justify you trying to rekindle the flame that doesn't exist. Keep it pushing... too many women to worry about one that has minor interest.

 

[CinnaSlim]

@CinnaSlim question- let's say you bumped into a guy that you were fully intrested in . I'm mean spiritually, emotionally...and physically you found this man intresting and handsome. But what if HE dont find you intresting?...what would you do about that situation?

Enjoy his friendship or walk away. I had to walk away before, for my sake. Either enjoy his company or just admire from a far. At the end of the day you can't force feelings, and you can't own our control people.

 

[DaRealness]

It's interesting how you can really be feeling a chick and vibing with her, then she says some disrespectful/slick shyt and totally turns you off. Maybe it's just me, but I lose all interest in a chick like that instantly when she does that shyt and can't look at her the same.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Enjoy his friendship or walk away. I had to walk away before, for my sake. Either enjoy his company or just admire from a far. At the end of the day you can't force feelings, and you can't own our control people.

See this what I'm talking about. Now you didn't answer badly. But what gets me about women is ...you guys don't think to BECOME intresting. Women usually have a list of things they want a man to have but what's intresting is women don't have to a 1/3 of what I HAVE to be to GET a women. The problem is men allow women just to SHOW up with beauty and a vagina and that's it. So a lot of that falls back on men. You ask most these women what a renaissance man is and they can't tell you. I can't meet a women with a personality that's better than mine.

 

[Kal El]

It's interesting how you can really be feeling a chick and vibing with her, then she says some disrespectful/slick shyt and totally turns you off. Maybe it's just me, but I lose all interest in a chick like that instantly when she does that shyt and can't look at her the same.

This has been my situation the last couple dates. Not really with the disrespectul comments, more like some wild red flags on some "The fukk did she just say?" type shyt. Last girl told me how she picked up a misdemeanor and a felony