Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[agnosticlady]

It's interesting how you can really be feeling a chick and vibing with her, then she says some disrespectful/slick shyt and totally turns you off. Maybe it's just me, but I lose all interest in a chick like that instantly when she does that shyt and can't look at her the same.

I think a lot of people are like that. I used to think I was weird for feeling like that, but I later learned that those things are called red flags.

 

[CinnaSlim]

See this what I'm talking about. Now you didn't answer badly. But what gets me about women is ...you guys don't think to BECOME intresting. Women usually have a list of things they want a man to have but what's intresting is women don't have to a 1/3 of what I HAVE to be to GET a women. The problem is men allow women just to SHOW up with beauty and a vagina and that's it. So a lot of that falls back on men. You ask most these women what a renaissance man is and they can't tell you. I can't meet a women with a personality that's better than mine.

Well, then yeah men have to set standards. If women can get away with just a wink and a smile or some ass and titties, then that's all she's gonna focus on.

Women have interests that are usually just different than most men's. Those interests usually have nothing to do with attracting a man. When a woman wants a dude she falls back on flirting and her looks.

I guess you should look for a woman that doesn't necessarily have the same interests as you, but who has interests that will help you grow. For example, cooking, finances, decorating, working out, spirituality, helping people, creating. This way you can see what she brings into the relationship and how that can help.

TL; DR Men collectively need to raise their standards beyond superficial looks and towards substance. The dating pool today is the result of many merely using people for sex and paychecks.

 

[Action Mike]

Well, then yeah men have to set standards. If women can get away with just a wink and a smile or some ass and titties, then that's all she's gonna focus on.

Women have interests that are usually just different than most men's. Those interests usually have nothing to do with attracting a man. When a woman wants a dude she falls back on flirting and her looks.

I guess you should look for a woman that doesn't necessarily have the same interests as you, but who has interests that will help you grow. For example, cooking, finances, decorating, working out, spirituality, helping people, creating. This way you can see what she brings into the relationship and how that can help.

TL; DR Men collectively need to raise their standards beyond superficial looks and towards substance. The dating pool today is the result of many merely using people for sex and paychecks.

I can dig this.

If women want to go beyond getting a man using ass and winks, and want a relationship that's a totally different game.

I guess some women stay confused on why those frivolous gestures keep them in short term shyt

 

[PinotNoir]

So I'm dating a single mom (of 1). Don't really know how this is gonna turn out. Although she does have her shyt together way more than most people our age. But don't know if I'm quite ready to be a family man...

She a cool chick though and got many of the qualities I want in a woman

Hm, if she has the qualities that you want in a woman, why not go for it. Get to know HER and take things from there.

 

[360dagod]

Is it cuffing season or something??

these broads are peeking at me even with their man next to them

 

[satireprod]

Is it cuffing season or something??

these broads are peeking at me even with their man next to them

LOL I think it's normally when it cools down a little bit. Late Sept/Early October...I think those ladies trying to draft you early right before cuffing season.

 

[FreshFromATL]

Hm, if she has the qualities that you want in a woman, why not go for it. Get to know HER and take things from there.

Yea I'm going to give it a honest shot that was just a random though going through my head at the moment lol...

 

[FreshFromATL]

Hm, if she has the qualities that you want in a woman, why not go for it. Get to know HER and take things from there.

Yea I'm going to give it a honest shot that was just a random thought going through my head at the moment lol...

 

[Youseenmywork]

The problem is YOU and Cold Hearted are two post that I'm working on for this thread #theycoming#

 

[Easy-E]

The dating pool today is the result of many merely using people for sex and paychecks.

*takes deep sigh of frustration*

Ain't that the truth...

 

[Youseenmywork]

*takes deep sigh of frustration*

Ain't that the truth...

I could explain this in detail but im chill....

 

[Jahmal]

lol i was talking to this weird ass bytch a while ago, she was real paranoid. i told her one time for us to take 1 car to the spot we were goin to instead of taking 2 cars
she was like ok sure
like an hour later she texts me back "hey i dont mean to be weird but im just gona take my car. i dont feel safe"

i was like and then

i said cool.. then 30 min before we're supposed to leave i canceled the plans n stopped talking to that crazy bytch. if i kept fukkin with her dumbass i'd prob catch a rape accusation at one point

I dont like to ride in one car when first meeting a chick. If the date goes south you can just bounce and slide to another chick's crib. Imagine having a bad date and you have to ride 15 mins in silence with her back to your place...

 

[sfgiants]

I dont like to ride in one car when first meeting a chick. If the date goes south you can just bounce and slide to another chick's crib. Imagine having a bad date and you have to ride 15 mins in silence with her back to your place...

wasnt the first time i met her, was like the 3rd time we were goin out. she was fukkin weird but would pay for shyt so i was like the time before that we had korean bbq and
you right tho, especially for first dates. thats why i dont do dinner/food on first dates. grab a drink and if it's cool then go do somethin else. if she sucks say you're goin to the toilet and leave >>>>>

 

[Stealth]

Went to my one of my favorite spots around town...ole girl wanted me to order for the both of us. She ended up paying for it. Sad these days where it's rare to find a chick down to pay without blinking at the amount and without my implying anything.

appreciative girls are the best bro. I got asked by a girl if its cool she pays my gas i teared up bro

 

[DaRealness]

This has been my situation the last couple dates. Not really with the disrespectul comments, more like some wild red flags on some "The fukk did she just say?" type shyt. Last girl told me how she picked up a misdemeanor and a felony

I think a lot of people are like that. I used to think I was weird for feeling like that, but I later learned that those things are called red flags.

I just like how they try to be all extra nice, liking all your posts and sending more messages etc when they realise they fukked up - too late cos the damage is already done. It's the equivalent of enjoying a meal only to discover a dead insect in it halfway through. You ain't gonna eat the rest no matter what.