Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

DaRealness

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This has been my situation the last couple dates. Not really with the disrespectul comments, more like some wild red flags on some :what::merchant: "The fukk did she just say?" type shyt. Last girl told me how she picked up a misdemeanor and a felony :jbhmm:

I think a lot of people are like that. I used to think I was weird for feeling like that, but I later learned that those things are called red flags.

I just like how they try to be all extra nice, liking all your posts and sending more messages etc when they realise they fukked up - too late cos the damage is already done. It's the equivalent of enjoying a meal only to discover a dead insect in it halfway through. You ain't gonna eat the rest no matter what.
 

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Are you back together? If not then eh

I've slept with my ex before didn't mean anything. Just confirmed why for the most part we couldn't be friends

We not "official" but damn near. We've been together every damn day for like a week and a half.

I think she just doesn't want to make it official because she think i'll go back to my savage ways. She's back on me bro.
 

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If you get back together man. Hope you learned your lesson, and don't stray you know it isn't worth it.


We not "official" but damn near. We've been together every damn day for like a week and a half.

I think she just doesn't want to make it official because she think i'll go back to my savage ways. She's back on me bro.
 

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If you get back together man. Hope you learned your lesson, and don't stray you know it isn't worth it.


We not "official" but damn near. We've been together every damn day for like a week and a half.

I think she just doesn't want to make it official because she think i'll go back to my savage ways. She's back on me bro.
 

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I did the 21 days no contact, got back in contact and she was all over me, talking about how she's ready to settle down with me now and have my babies. Talking about she's ready for a ring this year. At my apartment every second from our first meeting after the no contact, including when I left this morning for work.

I look on my phone around lunch and see her online on POF (kept my profile active but invisible bc I didn't trust her) and called her out right away. She tried to say it said she was online because she was on her phone not the app itself or some BS.

I told her I'm done, this time the no contact will keep going forever. She is losing the best dude she ever had and according to her the only guy to make her O in the past 2 years. It seems so silly, like she really has no self control ....but that's not my problem.

Or am I overreacting?
 

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Saw this on fb, didnt wanna make a whole thread. Dropping it here.
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thoughts? :ld:
I kind of like them FLUFFY actually. But SLOPPY looking...:whoa:
 

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It's interesting how you can really be feeling a chick and vibing with her, then she says some disrespectful/slick shyt and totally turns you off. Maybe it's just me, but I lose all interest in a chick like that instantly when she does that shyt and can't look at her the same. :camby:
Me too....I was NOTORIOUS for doing that shyt....
 

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Actions ain't matching up to words anyone can utter.

You the best guy ever you have my heart, but still On pof





I did the 21 days no contact, got back in contact and she was all over me, talking about how she's ready to settle down with me now and have my babies. Talking about she's ready for a ring this year. At my apartment every second from our first meeting after the no contact, including when I left this morning for work.

I look on my phone around lunch and see her online on POF (kept my profile active but invisible bc I didn't trust her) and called her out right away. She tried to say it said she was online because she was on her phone not the app itself or some BS.

I told her I'm done, this time the no contact will keep going forever. She is losing the best dude she ever had and according to her the only guy to make her O in the past 2 years. It seems so silly, like she really has no self control ....but that's not my problem.

Or am I overreacting?
 

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Gentlemen! I can't say it enough, know your worth. This life becomes exponentially easier once you come to that conclusion. I was talking to the lawyer shorty last night about a myriad of topics. She asked me if I ever got worried about whether or not I was going to get married. My only response was it wasn't really a concern of mine because if I wanted a wife, I could have one. She was knocked through a loop lol. Confidence is always the key.
 
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