Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Trust me brehs if a woman wont accept you for who you are throw her in the bushes.
Spent yesterday just taking photos at a park with my girl she's into photography as well
Spent yesterday just taking photos at a park with my girl she's into photography as well
havoc
Superstar
Some women are addicted to physical affection.Why do bytches always want you to be up under them?
We just slept together and fell asleep for nine hours. I'm awake and you're still sleepy so why bother me downstairs then get mad cause I'm not straddling you all fukkin day.
This is a reason that I dropped my bm.
I'm faithful but every time I go somewhere public I count how many bad bytches I would holla at IF I was single
No, you're not overreacting. She's clearly playing games and using you. I once heard, "the person doing the giving is the most in love". You have to know your worth because if you don't you'll fall for anything and liable to fill in the blanks when the signs are staring you right in the face.
drugxglory
Street Struck
Did a lil experiment with my ex yesterday, we aint goin out or nuthin but we still cool and chill. So her phone is on silent all the time, only the screen lights up when something comes, i never question her or say anything about who hittin her up. So before i get to her house yesterday i text my bruh, now we watching "Power" my phone goes off,
"ohh all of a sudden ur phone blowing up? who is it?"
"just my bruh"
"riiiighhhttttt, who is she? how long yall been talkin?
"ohh all of a sudden ur phone blowing up? who is it?"
"just my bruh"
"riiiighhhttttt, who is she? how long yall been talkin?
Mr Hate Coffee
Veteran
I was feasting off single mom's earlier this year on okc. Like I just purposely filtered them in because they just want attention
Straight SAVAGE.
I used to do the same with cougars. I got out of the "dream selling" game tho. Wasn't good for my karma.
I don't even know how long this is going to last brehs, took my girl to the fair today we spent like 5 hours, drove her home she opened up about her past then she got mad that I didn't react.
Then when I dropped her off she got mad because she asked me about my.past and I told her and she got angry because I said something concendescing
I'm about to pull the plug I don't need this stress in my life
Then when I dropped her off she got mad because she asked me about my.past and I told her and she got angry because I said something concendescing
I'm about to pull the plug I don't need this stress in my life
Mr Hate Coffee
Veteran
I guess I should update everyone on my love life.
Over the past year I've been seeing a chick on and off. It pretty much had a few phases:
Phase 1: Friends with benefits. I was having my cake and eating it too. Led to a lot of arguments. I'm mature so I said let me go ahead and make this official. Maybe that will make things better. So enter...
Phase 2: Officially together. Some good times here and there but mostly realized that the same problems we had before were still around. Plus, I learned this chick is crazy and disrespectful. Never before in my life have I wanted to call my gf a bytch and snap on her but here I was feeling that type of anger. I deaded it after two months which leads me to...
Phase 3: Post break-up. We still see each other every day because of school so I can't avoid her. She says she understands its over but then makes pleas to get back together. Every now and then she catches me in a vulnerable moment and I consider it. I play into it, we go into phase 1 again. The minute she acts up, I'm reminded why I broke up with her and end it again. This cycle keeps continuing.
Going forward... I'm so happy that I've finally manned up and said no to the back and forths. No more "I love yous." No more late night drunken sex. Nope. I realized that I need to match my actions with my words and really be consistent. I used to blame her for being crazy and manipulative but it's me. I'm the man and I had to realize that no woman should ever dictate my actions.
So yeah that's my update. I'm a lil embarrassed that a savvy OG like me got caught up like this
but I'm always down to share my failures in hopes that the brehs in here can learn from them. Now keep in mind that this chick is FINE AS fukk. Long hair, slim, big boobs like I like. But she's crazy, has daddy issues, and is selfish.
Funny thing about all of this is now I have so much clarity on what I REFUSE to deal with in relationships going forward. My fuse is also shorter. I no longer entertain chicks I don't see myself being serious with. I've learned that there's no reason to lie to women to try to protect their feelings. Just keep it real and hold yourself accountable for what you say. The women respect you more for doing so and everything works out better in the end.
Over the past year I've been seeing a chick on and off. It pretty much had a few phases:
Phase 1: Friends with benefits. I was having my cake and eating it too. Led to a lot of arguments. I'm mature so I said let me go ahead and make this official. Maybe that will make things better. So enter...
Phase 2: Officially together. Some good times here and there but mostly realized that the same problems we had before were still around. Plus, I learned this chick is crazy and disrespectful. Never before in my life have I wanted to call my gf a bytch and snap on her but here I was feeling that type of anger. I deaded it after two months which leads me to...
Phase 3: Post break-up. We still see each other every day because of school so I can't avoid her. She says she understands its over but then makes pleas to get back together. Every now and then she catches me in a vulnerable moment and I consider it. I play into it, we go into phase 1 again. The minute she acts up, I'm reminded why I broke up with her and end it again. This cycle keeps continuing.
Going forward... I'm so happy that I've finally manned up and said no to the back and forths. No more "I love yous." No more late night drunken sex. Nope. I realized that I need to match my actions with my words and really be consistent. I used to blame her for being crazy and manipulative but it's me. I'm the man and I had to realize that no woman should ever dictate my actions.
So yeah that's my update. I'm a lil embarrassed that a savvy OG like me got caught up like this
but I'm always down to share my failures in hopes that the brehs in here can learn from them. Now keep in mind that this chick is FINE AS fukk. Long hair, slim, big boobs like I like. But she's crazy, has daddy issues, and is selfish.Funny thing about all of this is now I have so much clarity on what I REFUSE to deal with in relationships going forward. My fuse is also shorter. I no longer entertain chicks I don't see myself being serious with. I've learned that there's no reason to lie to women to try to protect their feelings. Just keep it real and hold yourself accountable for what you say. The women respect you more for doing so and everything works out better in the end.
Mr Hate Coffee
Veteran
Give it time.
Chalk it up to women being women... FOR NOW.
Nobody's perfect breh.
Seems like something yall can work thru.
DarkHorse23
Banned
Google : Jodi Arias case
Bruhs it's the greatest example of the double standards between the sexes and the inability of women to take responsibility for their actions. Sadistic woman here
Bruhs it's the greatest example of the double standards between the sexes and the inability of women to take responsibility for their actions. Sadistic woman here
Straight SAVAGE.
I used to do the same with cougars. I got out of the "dream selling" game tho. Wasn't good for my karma.
i'm talking to one right now, she's 27 i think her kid is like 3.. she's smart, in shape, pretty as hell, college graduate, works downtown as a financial analyst
i have zero intentions of getting serious with her. i haven't made her think i am either
i do agree that selling dreams ot these poor broads is fukked up tho lol. i dont do it cuz im too lazy plus a lot of the time they just wana chill and get penetrated by a nice young man.
things are going to get real
once fall/winter hits tho, lots of lonely women looking to get drafted once cuffing season hits. im going to try to finesse some home cooked meals and box out of this shyt. maybe some christmas gifts 
Saw this on fb, didnt wanna make a whole thread. Dropping it here.
thoughts?
Fat people always coming up with some ole bullshyt, I like to be active with the women I'm with. By that I mean, gym, swimming, hiking, riding bikes etc. these fat slobs ain't bout that life.