Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm 31 and at 26 I had messed an engagement with my ex. We were engaged, then she wanted to move in together, I made the decision not to and realized she wasn;t the girl I could see myself with for the rest of my life. Attractive, cool but had a nasty attitude. After almost 4 years, I got beyond the looks and really knew I couldn't take that step with her. I realized our personalities just wasn't working together anymore. Mighta been my job environment and people I'd work with (white chilled folks), then I'd come back to her (hood pr chik). I started to develop more interests in things happening outside of our environments while she'd be stuck to the TV screen and trap music. shyt she'd talk about I'd have no interest in. Didn't wanna travel beyond the carribean islands like the rest of the world didn't exist. This was years ago though.

I'm starting to get the itch where I want to settle down and start a family. I will most likely marry the girl I'm with now. I've had a good run as far as women. I've smashed all types, smashed on every vacation I've taken solo, I've had one night stands, threesomes, did the long distance thing. Met some great women who helped expand my way of thinking. Don't really feel like I'm missing anything as far as women at this point.

:wow:

How long were you engaged to her.
 

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Ran into this chick I met 8 years ago at a club. Used to bump into her on the regular, always flirting with me but it never ended up going anywhere. She vanished all of a sudden, now she's back.

Now she got 2 kids and divorced recently...
 

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Ran into this chick I met 8 years ago at a club. Used to bump into her on the regular, always flirting with me but it never ended up going anywhere. She vanished all of a sudden, now she's back.

Now she got 2 kids and divorced recently...
2 kids, but still out at the club
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Nah breh, I met her at a club 8 years ago... I just bumped into her on the street yesterday, exchanged numbers.

Now my dikk is telling me to go head and try to smash
ah okay
yea i try to stay away from the single mothers, that shyt can end badly many different ways
unless im drunk af and its right in front of me
 

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I think maybe I just needed this reminder whenever im single and feeling like hopping in.

Spose to meet my girl like half n hour goes back I text are you still going to come she blew up at me and hasn't said a word to me all evening. I said eff this and tool her back home she started to cry and i told her to get out.

Yesterday I was to passive and she had me.figured out bur now I'm some rude a$$hole

I'm cursed with beautiful women but sometimes putting your hand through a woodchipper is much better than this
 

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Share breh
lol one of my coworkers pulled up to work one day with his car looking like one of the cars that they use at high school drunk driving presentations
apparently he broke it off with a single mother and she got her 2 brothers to bust up this dudes car with sledgehammers

he told her he was breaking it off because he didn't want to deal with kids :mjlol:
 

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I think maybe I just needed this reminder whenever im single and feeling like hopping in.

Spose to meet my girl like half n hour goes back I text are you still going to come she blew up at me and hasn't said a word to me all evening. I said eff this and tool her back home she started to cry and i told her to get out.

Yesterday I was to passive and she had me.figured out bur now I'm some rude a$$hole

I'm cursed with beautiful women but sometimes putting your hand through a woodchipper is much better than this

rein, this girl is sounding like a flipping headcase. And this is what, only the 2nd week ya'll been together? :martin:

if i were you, i'd tell her you ain't with it no more, can't and won't put up with the bullshyt she is bringing and remove her from your life altogether.
 

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My brother has never really believed in much of the things we've talked about ITT nor red pill theory in general.
He kept on telling me about this girl at his work who he had crushed on.
They were on talking terms and he expressed interest and did all the right things.
He's got a secure job and is not ugly by any means.
But to his shock he found out she was going out with this other dude.
He kept on going on about how this dude works at a shyt job is a douche etc. but what can you do huh
He was sure she was the exception but they're all the same.
I hope this experience eliminates that naivety.
 

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My brother has never really believed in much of the things we've talked about ITT nor red pill theory in general.
He kept on telling me about this girl at his work who he had crushed on.
They were on talking terms and he expressed interest and did all the right things.
He's got a secure job and is not ugly by any means.
But to his shock he found out she was going out with this other dude.
He kept on going on about how this dude works at a shyt job is a douche etc. but what can you do huh
He was sure she was the exception but they're all the same.
I hope this experience eliminates that naivety.

A lot of people ain't gonna believe it because they don't want to believe it because it's not really a pleasant thing to believe.
It's something life forces you to accept by bashing you over the head over and over with realities that shatter your mental fantasies. A few more experiences and he'll see what it is.
 

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It's like I always say, if your not a woman's first it doesn't matter. You can have all the status all the money in the world, a great job treat her like a queen.

Yet some rancid rotted dude working at McDonalds treating her like trash is getting her all.




My brother has never really believed in much of the things we've talked about ITT nor red pill theory in general.
He kept on telling me about this girl at his work who he had crushed on.
They were on talking terms and he expressed interest and did all the right things.
He's got a secure job and is not ugly by any means.
But to his shock he found out she was going out with this other dude.
He kept on going on about how this dude works at a shyt job is a douche etc. but what can you do huh
He was sure she was the exception but they're all the same.
I hope this experience eliminates that naivety.
 

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It's like I always say, if your not a woman's first it doesn't matter. You can have all the status all the money in the world, a great job treat her like a queen.

Yet some rancid rotted dude working at McDonalds treating her like trash is getting her all.




My brother has never really believed in much of the things we've talked about ITT nor red pill theory in general.
He kept on telling me about this girl at his work who he had crushed on.
They were on talking terms and he expressed interest and did all the right things.
He's got a secure job and is not ugly by any means.
But to his shock he found out she was going out with this other dude.
He kept on going on about how this dude works at a shyt job is a douche etc. but what can you do huh
He was sure she was the exception but they're all the same.
I hope this experience eliminates that naivety.
 
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