Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Breh...

You gotta develop your game..

You cant tippy toe with these broads...

Be comfy in who you are and talk to them like that..

shyt im quiet as hell myself, but im sarcastic and rude when i do speak...These broads like it:yeshrug:

Then when i catch them alone, we have a lil "deep"convo and it fukks their heads up

Unfortunately I find it hard to talk to people period. Instead of stuttering I tend to get lost in my thoughts and end up mumbling something random or saying something off topic. It's been that way since grade school. Hell just yesterday I told my boss that I thought my bog was barking instead of dog. I think I'm losing my mind like my Uncle's who talk to themselves loudly
 

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Unfortunately I find it hard to talk to people period. Instead of stuttering I tend to get lost in my thoughts and end up mumbling something random or saying something off topic. It's been that way since grade school. Hell just yesterday I told my boss that I thought my bog was barking instead of dog. I think I'm losing my mind like my Uncle's who talk to themselves loudly

Breh dont worry about that..

Its like when Aaron Rodgers looks at the field and his receivers are covered..

Sometimes he runs, sometimes he checkdowns to the RB or he throws out of bounds..

Point is sometimes you gotta come up with shyt on the fly even when your in a fukked up situation...

I've been in my thoughts quite a few times, simply say my bad, make fun of it and keep moving
 

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Breh dont worry about that..

Its like when Aaron Rodgers looks at the field and his receivers are covered..

Sometimes he runs, sometimes he checkdowns to the RB or he throws out of bounds..

Point is sometimes you gotta come up with shyt on the fly even when your in a fukked up situation...

I've been in my thoughts quite a few times, simply say my bad, make fun of it and keep moving

exactly


if a woman likes you, you can be awkward and all that ish anyways , look a tthat clip max had no game at all, just a stuttering mumbling all over the place loser, but roxanne was digging the boy.
 

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Breh dont worry about that..

Its like when Aaron Rodgers looks at the field and his receivers are covered..

Sometimes he runs, sometimes he checkdowns to the RB or he throws out of bounds..

Point is sometimes you gotta come up with shyt on the fly even when your in a fukked up situation...

I've been in my thoughts quite a few times, simply say my bad, make fun of it and keep moving

exactly


if a woman likes you, you can be awkward and all that ish anyways , look a tthat clip max had no game at all, just a stuttering mumbling all over the place loser, but roxanne was digging the boy.
 

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Well I think I'm too awkward, quiet and weird. Must be true since I've gotten this far in life with no experiences with women outside of family
 

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You have a self defeatist attitude and lacking confidence all of that can be fixed.

You struggle with talking to people sign up for toastmasters or even volunteer.

I used to be extremely shy and struggle talking to people but a crummy call center job broke down my barriers.

You said you work so obv you speak to people in your office talk to women the same.

You never know whose going to be feeling you.

If you think your ugly and a lame and no one will want you, guess what that's what others will think.


Destroy the negative thoughts and start proclaiming good things to happen



Well I think I'm too awkward, quiet and weird. Must be true since I've gotten this far in life with no experiences with women outside of family
 

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Well I think I'm too awkward, quiet and weird. Must be true since I've gotten this far in life with no experiences with women outside of family
Have you tried practicing on being more talkative with service people or maybe reading tips/watching youtube videos? That can help. What you put out into the universe will come back at you. Think positive. Maybe you could workout at the gym, join a club do some traveling but try getting out there and enjoying yourself with no intentions of meeting a woman. That'll happen with timing. We usually meet someone when we least expect it, especially doing something YOU love, I know so. Try a different activity once a week or whatever works for your schedule. I don't know what happened in your life but sometimes our environment growing up can wreck some serious damage and we don't really understand the extent until adulthood when we start noticing our own issues. Having someone you can confide in would possibly be helpful in your case. Nothing is forever unless you make it so.
 

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Breh...

You gotta develop your game..

You cant tippy toe with these broads...

Be comfy in who you are and talk to them like that..

shyt im quiet as hell myself, but im sarcastic and rude when i do speak...These broads like it:yeshrug:

Then when i catch them alone, we have a lil "deep"convo and it fukks their heads up


No way I can be pigeonholed in my interaction, I'll switch up so much she has no idea how to categorize me. I'll go from deep, to cracking jokes, to serious, to cool, to overconfident, to personal, to :troll: all in the couple hours she might spend with me
 

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No way I can be pigeonholed in my interaction, I'll switch up so much she has no idea how to categorize me. I'll go from deep, to cracking jokes, to serious, to cool, to overconfident, to personal, to :troll: all in the couple hours she might spend with me
I hope this all natural and if it is, sounds like a bipolar personality to me :huhldup:. Who wants to deal with all those emotions/personalities in such a short time. People should just be themselves and if you have to play games to catch or keep a person, you've already lost....
 

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You have a self defeatist attitude and lacking confidence all of that can be fixed.

You struggle with talking to people sign up for toastmasters or even volunteer.

I used to be extremely shy and struggle talking to people but a crummy call center job broke down my barriers.

You said you work so obv you speak to people in your office talk to women the same.

You never know whose going to be feeling you.

If you think your ugly and a lame and no one will want you, guess what that's what others will think.


Destroy the negative thoughts and start proclaiming good things to happen

I work at a grocery store so the only ppl I have to really talk to are my coworkers. I use to greet customers but they started ignoring me even if I said it to their face. Women more so than men for whatever reason.
 
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