Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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No... you came to the right place breaghamton.

I'll start small since you're just getting comfortable with the act of creating sexual tension/energy.

Touching a woman is correlated with your self confidence.

If she's giving you signals that she is strongly attracted to you and doing things such as:

1. Smiling A LOT
2. Crossing her legs in YOUR direction.
3. Constantly playing with her hair/tucking it behind her ears

Or this one...

4. Touching YOU.

Those are direct signs that she's into you (they call 'em Indicators of Interests or IOI's - whatever you choose - i like to stress the importance of kinetic energy; it's the ability to create attraction with touch/movement).

This is where game is as essential as how you apply it (the worlds greatest dictators didn't influence people by what they said... but rather, how they say it. So in the game of dating, it's not about what you do with her... it's how you do it that will get her engines revving and admiring what you're bringing to the table).

For instance; this is what i used to do on dates before i switched it up (and the switch up will come when you've advanced enough, i will teach you step by step).

If you need a drink or two to get you loose enough to do this, then fine. I encourage it (just make certain you don't get shiit faced so that you can adjust and fine tune your method accordingly to how she's feeling you - it's something you can gauge via experience aka how receptive she is to you on a date).

You ready?

The tactic in example scenario, the first dinner/lounge meetup:


When you're sitting with babe at a table, let's say the dates going real well, you've had a couple of appetizers, consumed a couple beverages. This is when she starts to inquire about "recreational" things that you enjoy.

Tell her that you like snow sports (sure you live in a hot climate, and hey, you might even be black! but that's the beauty of it, us colored folks need to venture out more to more eccentric and left field activities that aren't typical for us - it raises eyebrows and induces intrigue/curiosity).

Even though i don't snow board, i tell her i do and that i'm awesome (even if i'm not). This is the kicker right here:

Proceed to tell her that you injured your knee last year and that there's a very unusual bump that people who have "loose knee caps" are more susceptible to injury.

Then you scoot right next to her and say, "As a matter of fact, women are even more prone to injuring themselves if they aren't careful doing extreme sports. Here let me show you."

You then take your hand, place it over leg (and trust me, if you do this right, she will out of curiosity, let you continue) and then start to gently squeeze and create circular motions around her knee and say, "You see that bump right there? If you aren't careful, your kneecap could twist out of position and it would really hurt."

And this is where you raise the bar a bit and show her true game with a dose of anatomical/scientific swag.

You move from her knee cap and slowly work your way up to the top of her knee and right at the bottom of her thigh and say,

"You see here? The bone right between the knee and the lower thigh right there is a soft spot and typically succumbs to many types of knee injuries, especially for women post menopause."

By this moment in time, she's not thinking about "Oh wow, i hope this doesn't happen to me one day. That would suck!"

She's actually getting turned on by your ability to gently caress her erogenous zone without being PERVERTED.

It's slick.

After you've spent about a good two minutes there,

FALL BACK! Right away.

Right then and there, you just pulled a "Cat and String" and she's wondering why you stopped. But the pivotal moment is your release and how seductive you were when you pryed yourself away (the wrong detachment could be grounds of creep status - but the right exit.... she's on lip-bite status and deems you a very sexual and intelligent creature).

What you do after this "kinetic" bout of playful gestures and invaluable doctoring-esque course in knee therapy... by the end of the date (granted you've continued to wow her with more interesting stories about work/life/summer-related ironies)... she'll be wanting you to move that hand higher and give her a detailed analysis on why she's so whet.


And that playboy... is up to you to achieve.


Game on, playboy.


Don't be scurred. She wants it just as bad as you do.


But do you have what it takes to "differentiate" yourself from other guys who have tried to vie for her attention and "retain" it in a way that leaves her yearning for more and making you the primary course on her carnal palette of passion and attraction?


If you were fortunate enough to get her to go out with you - make it count.


Be that guy.


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This shyt right here is genius! This cat and string thing is my entire game! I call it the push and pull method. Works with text convos, real life convos, body language, interactions...everything. Makes life so much easier.
 

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This shyt right here is genius! This cat and string thing is my entire game! I call it the push and pull method. Works with text convos, real life convos, body language, interactions...everything. Makes life so much easier.

Iono bruh,I think a woman letting you touch her is only happening bcuz she likes you,or she's just being nice by not telling you to take your hand off her......if she on a date with you its obvious she liked u already though,at least enough to go out with you....if a woman likes you shell see your touchin as confidence and y'all being comfortable together.....if she realize she don't like you you'll get labeled as touchy feely or a weird pervert....I really don't see touching as getting you any closer to the puzzy unless you touchin her zipper.

I ain't tryna talk about fragile knee caps I wanna know how fragile the puzzy is:lolbron:...I feel like if u can get a woman to talk about sex without feeling uncomfortable,and not feeling like a ho while doin it you a lot closer than any touching will tell you....its all about gettin her horny,and not makin her feel like a ho in the proccess...and sumtimes tryna do both your working against yourself....talkin about sex with her might make her horny if she like you,but then sum cats go overboard and get to aggresive or vulgar with the sex talk and make her feel like a whore....and its a thin line cuz sum women are more open then others,but even sum women that know they are hos are only willing to be hos up until the point they realize you are treating them like on....But if a woman really like you its gon be tuff for u to say or do anything to keep yourself out the draws...make her like you should really be the only advice there is...its hard to go wrong after that...u really don't need all the strategies and shyt after that....you can't call too much,you can't not call enough,you can't have been too touchy feely,you can't have not touched her enuff,u can't have called her too soon,or not called soon enuff....make urself into a person that's likeable to people of all kinds and you'll have more success with more different types of women.

Personally I know I'm not likeable to all kinds of people,and sum will see me as loud and obnoxious...I got my black woman/hood chick demographic and I'm cool with that:russ:...but yea just step the personality game up if u can,be more outgoing,bcome more interesting and an overall more likeable person and u will have more success....u realize it ain't about bein a thug or badboy or being too nice....likeable people are just likeable people..."thugs" are just typically more outgoing,interesting people compared to most "nice guys".
 

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"You want to know the damage feminism did to society and is still doing to society?

It’s all around us.

Women have made themselves unmarriageable. They can’t or won’t pair bond to the men willing to marry them. The men they want to marry won’t marry them. (It’s nothing personal. Those men aren’t going to marry anybody.)

Men and women are passing around STDs like doobies at frat parties. It’s all out there, even a new drug resistant gonorrhea. Men and women both are increasingly crudded up and involuntarily sterilized by the various parasitic organisms growing in their petri dish pelvises.

Women collectively have been given responsibilities far beyond their abilities and moral sensibilities. Government has given women the power of life and death over their babies. The result? Millions upon milions of children slaughtered while in their mothers’ wombs, at their mothers’ hands. Women should not be allowed this Godlike power. It’s not too far a leap to women being allowed to end a live child’s life.

The unleashing of hypergamy or concupiscence on society has caused untold pain for mililons of families. Women turning up their noses at good men, holding out for the alpha. Women sexing alphas, hoping to parlay that sex into a relationship and eventually marriage; and failing most of the time. Women pricing themselves out of the marriage market by either waiting too long or racking up a too-high N. Women working increasingly demanding jobs, taking those jobs from men who can do them better, outearning men and making fewer men attractive to them, and stressing themselves out, making themselves less attractive to men who otherwise might want them.

And what of the men?

Average non-player men are getting women’s messages loud and clear. the message they are receiving is that women don’t want them. Period. Not for marriage, not for sex, not even for after-work dates. No, the average man’s utility to a woman is to buy them whatever they want, fix their flat tires and get them out of whatever predicaments they have found themselves in (so long as the woman doesn’t have to get involved with him). Increasingly, men can’t get educations, women, or work.

He’s told “get to college so you can get a job and find a woman.” College costs money and lots of it. What’s he to do, borrow himself and mortgage his life before it’s even started?

He’s told “be nice, and be yourself”. BS. Those are lines women tell men so as to identify the nice, dull, boring, dependable men, so the women know which men to avoid.

He’s told “go to church to meet a nice woman. There are lots and lots of them there!” BS. Church women are either (1) retread 29 YO + sluts looking for a dumbf**k beta to wife them up as they alight from the carousel; (2) hopelessly unattractive girls; and (3) entitled evangelical American princess “daughters of the King”. The first are toxic death to him; the second are out of the question; and he wouldn’t be able to get a girl from the third category even to talk to him, much less marry him. In fact the girls from the third category are the originators of what has become known as the “nuclear rejection”: the phenomenon in which the girl laughs at, loudly and pointedly shoots down or publicly rejects a man who kindly and politely approaches.

As the economy continues to shrink with men unable and then unwilling to be productive, the women will shout louder for more government intervention. There will be calls for more social programs, more medical programs, and more wealth transfers from men to women. The purpose is to make sure that women are cared for and have what they need.

What do we think will happen to a society in which we have millions of men who have no sex, no women, no jobs, no money, and no legal or socially sanctioned ways to get any of them?

And why should any of these men even try? If they have no chance of winning at the game they’ve been dropped into, why should they even play?"
 

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Nah, I don't think this is true. The best relationship I've ever been in was with a woman who at no point in our time together ever tested me.

Most women test, not all. But, I guess that's why I'm not interested in most women outside of sex. I don't have time nor energy to prove myself to a woman.
all women test men. she has to to find out if you have integrity and to find out what kinda man you are. men run around advertising themselves as such and such. she can't just take your word for that or take every man's word that he is who he says he is.
 

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Man it can get serious out there with these women if you ain't careful.
 

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Sometimes I read this thread as a lurker and I peep everyones insight. There shouldnt be a handbook on how to deal with women. You shouldnt have to approach a woman like youre going to disarm a bomb. I always hear the same steps... Be confident, don't be too needy, be understanding. In reality, you just have to be yourself. If she aint feeling you, she never gonna feel you(genuinely). Women are difficult to understand at times. My approach is simple. If she fukking up, let her go. Cut your losses quick. Thats the only way you become better as person and you realize what you wont tolerate as a man. Let someone else deal with that headache.
 

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Sometimes I read this thread as a lurker and I peep everyones insight. There shouldnt be a handbook on how to deal with women. You shouldnt have to approach a woman like youre going to disarm a bomb. I always hear the same steps... Be confident, don't be too needy, be understanding. In reality, you just have to be yourself. If she aint feeling you, she never gonna feel you(genuinely). Women are difficult to understand at times. My approach is simple. If she fukking up, let her go. Cut your losses quick. Thats the only way you become better as person and you realize what you wont tolerate as a man. Let someone else deal with that headache.
The reason most of this exist is cause most men step to a woman with the paradigm of how do i get her? already the man's value is lower to not equal to her.

one day that guy may wake up and realizes that most of these chicks out here if you put pen to paper and add up the value they bring to your life most of them have a negative net worth meaning the cost to deal with them ain't worth the benefits they bring into your life. the really smart men realize that vagina isn't a perk it comes standard on all women and it doesn't even get factored in as a benefit.

outside of those men most of the rest of them are chasing p*ssy brainlessly, trying to find themselves by finding a woman, or trying to satisfy their ego by turning women into a conquest.

all you gotta really do is step to whatever woman as who you are and it will be what it is. once you start trying to influence the process artificially you open yourself up to get taken advantage of.
 

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:scusthov: That's foul. That brotha was weak. She would have gotten the Ike Turner treatment on camera!

Where's our Ike smiley?

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Iono bruh,I think a woman letting you touch her is only happening bcuz she likes you,or she's just being nice by not telling you to take your hand off her......if she on a date with you its obvious she liked u already though,at least enough to go out with you....if a woman likes you shell see your touchin as confidence and y'all being comfortable together.....if she realize she don't like you you'll get labeled as touchy feely or a weird pervert....I really don't see touching as getting you any closer to the puzzy unless you touchin her zipper.

I ain't tryna talk about fragile knee caps I wanna know how fragile the puzzy is:lolbron:...I feel like if u can get a woman to talk about sex without feeling uncomfortable,and not feeling like a ho while doin it you a lot closer than any touching will tell you....its all about gettin her horny,and not makin her feel like a ho in the proccess...and sumtimes tryna do both your working against yourself....talkin about sex with her might make her horny if she like you,but then sum cats go overboard and get to aggresive or vulgar with the sex talk and make her feel like a whore....and its a thin line cuz sum women are more open then others,but even sum women that know they are hos are only willing to be hos up until the point they realize you are treating them like on....But if a woman really like you its gon be tuff for u to say or do anything to keep yourself out the draws...make her like you should really be the only advice there is...its hard to go wrong after that...u really don't need all the strategies and shyt after that....you can't call too much,you can't not call enough,you can't have been too touchy feely,you can't have not touched her enuff,u can't have called her too soon,or not called soon enuff....make urself into a person that's likeable to people of all kinds and you'll have more success with more different types of women.

Personally I know I'm not likeable to all kinds of people,and sum will see me as loud and obnoxious...I got my black woman/hood chick demographic and I'm cool with that:russ:...but yea just step the personality game up if u can,be more outgoing,bcome more interesting and an overall more likeable person and u will have more success....u realize it ain't about bein a thug or badboy or being too nice....likeable people are just likeable people..."thugs" are just typically more outgoing,interesting people compared to most "nice guys".

Word. I feel you. But you're not telling me anything I don't already know. I don't propose to know everything, but I don't really have too many issues with pulling females. My issue is how to properly deal with the relationship bullshyt that comes afterward because I'm either an a$$hole or too easy going...I need to find that balance.
 

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all women test men. she has to to find out if you have integrity and to find out what kinda man you are. men run around advertising themselves as such and such. she can't just take your word for that or take every man's word that he is who he says he is.

So when I say my ex didn't test me I'm lying? Are you saying you've lived my life? LOL. My ex, at no point in our entire relationship, never tested me. And I respected the fukk out of that.
 

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Oh man I fukked up last night.

I went out for drinks with a platonic female friend that I always wanted to smash but she had a BF but now shes recently single. I didn't really try anything and it was cool just having her as a friend cause she was hot. She kind of raised my stock value.

Anyways we were supposed to go out for coffee in the evening but we ended up getting drinks. We went to this spot with a patio and we had the whole patio to ourselves. It was mad fun.

A couple hours later we end up at this small indie bar/lounge that most of my friends go too. So we were there and it was live as hell. One thing led to another and we were making out.

I see one of my homeboys there who lives lives on top of the bar and we all started chilling. This girl was drunk but she was all over my homie right in front of me. I didnt really notice cause I was drunk too but my homie noticed and told me.

Anyways after that this chick started flirting with almost every dude in the place. I told her to chill and thats shes embrassing me and shes like your not my boyfriend I can do what I want even though I was making out with her 10 minutes earlier.

Anyways some dude with two of his friends started spitting game at her and I told her to tell em to go away. She was like noooo and I told her I was going to leave if she didnt. I ended up leaving and I go home. This morning she sends me like 50 text messages asking why I left.

Shes like Oh she just got out of a relationship and she likes to flirt and blah blah. I don't know why she thought she could do that right in front of me. It was so embarrassing and I dont think I even want to talk to this chick ever again even though we go way back. Anyways I think because I liked her as a friend I had more respect for her than she deserved. She was probably a hoe the whole time and I didn't realise it.


low key im still kinda glad I got some action. Been wanting to get with that since high school.
 
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