It's been a long time since I've posted from the problem section of Just Jane, but here's another one. I will never understand how dudes even let themselves be treated like this without deading it way beforehand or at least standing up for themselves. When you have your stuff together, broads will know not to test you cos you can do bad all by yourself. Maybe I'm cut from a different cloth, but shyt like this will never happen to me because I simply don't have it in me to allow this fukkery and emasculation:
Just Jane: I'm a slave for my idle woman
I’m 32 years of age and have had numerous girlfriends over the years.
Yet, in every single relationship I end up doing all the driving, cooking, clearing up and paying.
I sometimes think I must have “mug” branded on my forehead.
I’m currently living with a career woman and I do everything.
I appreciate the fact that she works very hard in a full-time job, but get annoyed when she plonks herself down with a glass of wine and simply expects me to serve her, when I work too.
If I tackle her about her lack of input she simply sniffs: “I don’t do housework”.
But someone’s got to do it or we’ll starve.
How come that someone is always me?
At the moment I’m redecorating the sitting and then I’ll start fitting a new bathroom.
The problem is that the resentment of the day also spills over into the night and the last thing I feel like doing is making love after I’ve worked, scrubbed and polished from dawn till dusk.
Frequently I hit the sack and I’m too tired for sex, which leads to further rows with her calling me weak and selfish.
The thing is that I do have strong sexual urges but a man has only so much energy.
If I was feeling appreciated and valued then I’d jump through any number of hoops to please my woman.
But, at the moment, I simply feel like a put-upon donkey. I know that she complains about me behind my back to her friends and colleagues.
I’m aware that she accuses me of being half a man.
My sister has warned me that she’s even heard her call me The Eunuch, which is so unfair.
and i ain't afraid to admit it
but the nut i busted was
....told homegirl some offputting things post-nut and later on over text told her we need some space. She didn't take it too well ofcourse so i had to soften the blow so much so that i think we good now.
Breh outchea moving into house with women he isn't married to and redesigned the bathroom. He's scared and has dependency issues.