Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Ain't no probably. She's definitely a go-getter. She's making out with you, and then your homie and then flirting with everyone. You did the right thing in leaving. What are you even looking to get from other? You go further with her and you possibly end up with an STD>
damn n1ggas out here got the patience of a freaking angel. this n1gga said since high school.
and making out aint no action to me...especially since u were like one of 10 guys she made out with that n1ght. the whole story was just straight status1. Decide what is too slutty for you. For some its N>1, others its N>10. Its your own comfort level you need to be concerned about. Just accept right now youre probably not going to get an accurate answer at least not at first.
2. Decide what you want. Are you a player? Are you looking to get married someday (which I dont recommend unless you are religious/spiritual and really, really want children)? Do you want LTR or series of LTRs? Going your own way (which does not necessarily mean celibacy)?
3. Learn the slut tells. More experience with women will teach you the slut tells. (Hint: a womans varied experience in bed with a variety of partners does not necessarily translate into sexual skill. Why? Shes relied on her looks and her body all her life and shes never had to learn how to satisfy a man in bed. The men who sex her dont care all that much about her skill. As long as he gets off, he couldnt care less how that happens.)
4. Heres a list of slut tells:
a. She is quick to defend other sluts or slutty behavior.
b. She rails against the perceived double standard of man has lots of sex, hes a stud; woman has lots of sex, shes a slut
c. She is evasive and defensive when asked her partner count and immediately shames you. She demands that her prior conduct is never to be judged or evaluated.
d. Or, alternatively, she talks about sex frequently with you, before youve even had sex.
e. All her ex-boyfriends every single one of them are a$$holes. in her mind, no man has ever treated her kindly or fairly or nicely. She talks freely and openly about this to you.
f. She takes no responsibility for how poorly her prior relationships turned out.
g. She has no concept of her prior sexual conduct as an indicator of her character. She is genuinely surprised to hear anyone take a negative view of a womans promiscuity. She is flummoxed at suggestions that female promiscuity is detrimental.
h. She frequently uses profane and vulgar language.
Here is a list of reformed slut tells:
a. She speaks of prior sexual experiences as mistakes that made me who I am today. She says that youre special and she wants to do it right this time because she is not like that anymore.
b. She tells you about her prior sexual conduct and ONSs, but wants you to wait for sex to make sure youre for real because she doesnt want to get hurt again.
c. She has taken a sudden, fervent interest in Christianity and refers to herself as a born again virgin. She uses frequent Christianese, including saying things like I prayed, and God told me to _________________________. and Facebookisms like If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.
d. She talks about her plan for her future single life in case she never marries. This means she is looking hard for a husband and closely gauging your reaction to her plan.
e. At church she presents as a prim and proper girl. Everywhere else what she does is calculated to attract male attention.
f. At church she seeks out the few good looking single men and lavishes them with her attention while purposefully ignoring and nuclear-rejecting the less attractive men."
No rings for sluts.. Cautionary « The Private Man
2. Decide what you want. Are you a player? Are you looking to get married someday (which I dont recommend unless you are religious/spiritual and really, really want children)? Do you want LTR or series of LTRs? Going your own way (which does not necessarily mean celibacy)?
3. Learn the slut tells. More experience with women will teach you the slut tells. (Hint: a womans varied experience in bed with a variety of partners does not necessarily translate into sexual skill. Why? Shes relied on her looks and her body all her life and shes never had to learn how to satisfy a man in bed. The men who sex her dont care all that much about her skill. As long as he gets off, he couldnt care less how that happens.)
4. Heres a list of slut tells:
a. She is quick to defend other sluts or slutty behavior.
b. She rails against the perceived double standard of man has lots of sex, hes a stud; woman has lots of sex, shes a slut
c. She is evasive and defensive when asked her partner count and immediately shames you. She demands that her prior conduct is never to be judged or evaluated.
d. Or, alternatively, she talks about sex frequently with you, before youve even had sex.
e. All her ex-boyfriends every single one of them are a$$holes. in her mind, no man has ever treated her kindly or fairly or nicely. She talks freely and openly about this to you.
f. She takes no responsibility for how poorly her prior relationships turned out.
g. She has no concept of her prior sexual conduct as an indicator of her character. She is genuinely surprised to hear anyone take a negative view of a womans promiscuity. She is flummoxed at suggestions that female promiscuity is detrimental.
h. She frequently uses profane and vulgar language.
Here is a list of reformed slut tells:
a. She speaks of prior sexual experiences as mistakes that made me who I am today. She says that youre special and she wants to do it right this time because she is not like that anymore.
b. She tells you about her prior sexual conduct and ONSs, but wants you to wait for sex to make sure youre for real because she doesnt want to get hurt again.
c. She has taken a sudden, fervent interest in Christianity and refers to herself as a born again virgin. She uses frequent Christianese, including saying things like I prayed, and God told me to _________________________. and Facebookisms like If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.
d. She talks about her plan for her future single life in case she never marries. This means she is looking hard for a husband and closely gauging your reaction to her plan.
e. At church she presents as a prim and proper girl. Everywhere else what she does is calculated to attract male attention.
f. At church she seeks out the few good looking single men and lavishes them with her attention while purposefully ignoring and nuclear-rejecting the less attractive men."
No rings for sluts.. Cautionary « The Private Man
Nintendough
#Kliq
I swear all females have integrity amnesia.
The things i've seen, the lack of ethics.
Scustin Trillberlake
Banned
Not trying to sound simpish here, but I think this girl was just having a vulnerable moment. She just got out of a long term relationship, was probably pretty hurt by it ending, and was just enjoying the attention she was getting as a confidence booster. You should have pulled her back to your place if it was bothering you so much.
Kilgore Trout
Banned
damn n1ggas out here got the patience of a freaking angel. this n1gga said since high school.
She didnt make out with any other dudes but she was hanging off my boy and she just talking and joking flirting with every other dude who would give her attention. My camera was in her purse and she started taking pics with random dudes hugging them and shyt.
Like ive seen this happen to other dudes. Where the dudes girl will get drunk and start acting like a hoe but I never thought it would happen to me. I still feel so humiliated.
That's what she is trying to say happened but it doesn't matter shes not 12, Shes a grown ass woman.
I have a question for someone willing to answer,
A lot of women have been drawn to me as of late but 80% dont even bother getting to know my real name. Everyone calls me illa etc and I can use obvious common thought as to why they are just fine with calling me illadope but why would someone want to invest their time in someone when in theory they dont know anything about them?
A lot of women have been drawn to me as of late but 80% dont even bother getting to know my real name. Everyone calls me illa etc and I can use obvious common thought as to why they are just fine with calling me illadope but why would someone want to invest their time in someone when in theory they dont know anything about them?
It's simple they don't want to get serious, or get to know you
If a chick really is interested on you she wants to know your name, your sisters name your 3rd cousin best friend name
If a chick really is interested on you she wants to know your name, your sisters name your 3rd cousin best friend name
Id agree with you but a few of them are real stalkerish
u said u've been wanting to fucck ol girl. that night was ur night. i dont know why u suggested going out in public. nothing's better than a one on one spent at your place. u opened urself up for that disappointment.
but all in all though, i woulda dipped early the minuted she disregarded me to pay extra attention to anyone else. that's a very bold thing to do. and the reason i woulda dipped early is not just because it is simply disrespect what she did, but also, simply for the fact that I cannot conceive of doing that to someone else. that's just humiliating. based on how u told the story, she left u there looking like a dumbass. like i can just imagine an outsider looking in on the both of u and shaking his head at the fool she was making out of u.
Kilgore Trout
Banned
Yeah I knew her since highschool but its not like we chill all the time. Saturday was the 2nd time we chilled in like 2 years and the first time being a month ago after she broke up with her dude. I honestly didn't expect to get laid or any action that night but as the night progressed I just got bolder with it. Anyways I fukked up and I still cant brush off that L I took. The bartender who im also friends with was listening to us with the
face. I wont be showing my face there for at least a month. She was apologizing all day but I don't really think i can fukk with this chick like that again. This chick is delusional and and her excuses were so lame.