Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[T-K-G]

Breh she can be conditioned, using basic operant conditioning.. You have to reward her for giving you "me time".... So when she gives you that little bit of space ... Reward her for it .. Take her out , eat her out , do whatever she wants ... But when she start acting up don't go the extra mile ... Never tell her you need space though ..keep it psychological breh stay indifferent and you will keep and still have time for other shyt .. Usually when it looks like you don't give a shyt , Bih will try to get you to show emotion

she aint stupid breh, she caught on to that game a while ago (college graduate' goin back for her masters )

trust me i tried everything the reverse psychology worked for a while flipped the switch and smothered her til she was the one suggesting "me time"

problem is her roomate is in the masters program for psychology she be runnin that Seattle Seahawks defense on my shyt every time im tryna get her a boyfriend so she can let me cook

 

[SchrodingersStrapped!]

Wel

she aint stupid breh, she caught on to that game a while ago (college graduate' goin back for her masters )

trust me i tried everything the reverse psychology worked for a while flipped the switch and smothered her til she was the one suggesting "me time"

problem is her roomate is in the masters program for psychology she be runnin that Seattle Seahawks defense on my shyt every time im tryna get her a boyfriend so she can let me cook

Breh you got me digging into my playbook ... Sounds like you need baptize yourself in thotie water breh and keep it moving ... I'm HOH breh so like I said I guerrilla finesse granted though I like thoties who keep best friends who ain't shyt as well

 

[KinksandCoils]

I got rid of my last ex because it was me covering everything 100%, I set up all the dates and events, Not that I would ask her to pay for anything if we went out, but the least she could do is cook for me when I don't feel like going out, she couldn't even do that. Both men and woman need to cut off leeches. These days I pay for the first date, than I will wait to see if the female will take initiative to set up the follow up. If she doesn't, it's bushes

well if that's best for u to do than good for u.

 

[International Playa]

See, this is one reason I'm training myself mentally for the possibility of never having kids or "connecting" to anyone. I've never been anyone's number 1, and I'm probably too old to even build a connection like that with anyone. I kind of feel I maybe missed out on that part of life, so I'm just kind of in the field wandering around aimlessly...

I couldn't of been Ace Rothstein. Casino would of ended quiiiiite differently. You think you have something nice, than find it's some other fool she'll probably leave in a drop of a dime for, and she just kind of "settled" for you. Can you imagine the feeling of being played out like that? I try not to. It's infuriating/devestating....

That's the type of shyt that breeds supervillains...

Man don't stress yourself or think about finding "the one" or the "right woman". Few people are actually happy or actually find that fairy tale love story that hollywood sells us. At my work place its mostly men, out of 40 men, I only know of two who are in genuinely happy marriages. Most cats are divorced, paying alimony,child support, etc. Cats in my work place, before they receive their paycheck, 35% (whatever the current percentage is) is already shaved off by child support.

Enjoy your life, have fun, date different women, get to know yourself, enjoy your hobbies, do things you always wanted to do.Only invest in your life, never let women be your priority. I have never been anyone's genuine number 1, I have had women pretend like I was their number 1 because they had ulterior motives (wanting to get married, biological clock ticking, wanting me to save them from their misery etc.) I'm sure having fun dating different women and having different experiences.

Bruh don't end up knocking up the wrong woman, she will make your life hell for 18 years, you rather be single and childless than the drama and stress she will bring in your life. Yday at work, this brother, he paying child support every month, but his baby mother spends that money on herself, his child dont see the money, the child doesn't dress in nice clothes and isn't well fed, but he pays child support every month.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Try to figure this one out brehs. First, yeah I got a girl I been seeing but nobody at work knows that and it's in the very early stages anyway so I don't think that is the issue with this story.

So I recently got a new job so the other day was my last day. A co-worker (who I had spoken to a little bit in the past but nothing more than casual conversation) come up to me a few days before my last day and is like hey, so blah blah your last day I'm going to come by and see you and her smile is as wide as shyt, playin with her hair and shyt I'm like but I say yeah if you want to do something/get to know one another, we could go somewhere and she's like yeah definitely. So this is pretty much out of nowhere. Fast-forward a few days to my last day and this broad sees me in the hall and rushes out the door.

I'm like It doesn't mean much to me but why go through the trouble a few days earlier?

 

[SchrodingersStrapped!]

Try to figure this one out brehs. First, yeah I got a girl I been seeing but nobody at work knows that and it's in the very early stages anyway so I don't think that is the issue with this story.

So I recently got a new job so the other day was my last day. A co-worker (who I had spoken to a little bit in the past but nothing more than casual conversation) come up to me a few days before my last day and is like hey, so blah blah your last day I'm going to come by and see you and her smile is as wide as shyt, playin with her hair and shyt I'm like but I say yeah if you want to do something/get to know one another, we could go somewhere and she's like yeah definitely. So this is pretty much out of nowhere. Fast-forward a few days to my last day and this broad sees me in the hall and rushes out the door.

I'm like It doesn't mean much to me but why go through the trouble a few days earlier?

Breh you lucky she ain't go yelling to HR on some harassment shyt ? Don't shyt where you are/were at .... Bihs swift with the hysterics ... Did you end up taking her out ?? And what you do ??

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Breh you lucky she ain't go yelling to HR on some harassment shyt ? Don't shyt where you are/were at .... Bihs swift with the hysterics ... Did you end up taking her out ?? And what you do ??

Go to HR for what? She started it

But hell no. When I saw her acting weird I was good. I'm just wondering why the fukk she approached me like that in the first place

 

[SchrodingersStrapped!]

She approached you because she was feeling you ... And she probably thinks you rejected her .. So she embarrassed

 

[DarkHorse23]

See, this is one reason I'm training myself mentally for the possibility of never having kids or "connecting" to anyone. I've never been anyone's number 1, and I'm probably too old to even build a connection like that with anyone. I kind of feel I maybe missed out on that part of life, so I'm just kind of in the field wandering around aimlessly...

I couldn't of been Ace Rothstein. Casino would of ended quiiiiite differently. You think you have something nice, than find it's some other fool she'll probably leave in a drop of a dime for, and she just kind of "settled" for you. Can you imagine the feeling of being played out like that? I try not to. It's infuriating/devestating....

That's the type of shyt that breeds supervillains...

How old are you?

Yeah it's tough. Very depressing. I personally feel the only thing i can do is focus on getting in shape, and hopefully that will change my circumstances, because other than that i'm out of answers. Other than that i'm not really motivated to put myself out there approaching and conversing with women the way i used to because i feel the results aren't going change.

 

[PinotNoir]

breh you dont think I do that?

sometimes I just feel bad when she cryin next to me cuz im playin metal gear n shyt i softened up a bit this past month tho cuz i thought she was past that phase

I had it locked down like that for a while then when we got serious she slipped back into it cuz now she has the "we're in a relationship now so you have to be considerate and think about "we" Iinstead of "you"" defense


to be fair it's nowhere near as bad as when we first met (It used to be even if I left the ROOM she'd catch feelings) but when she slips back into it she slips DEEP back into it

Hmm seems she's insecure when this happens a need isn't being met from you to her so she'll start nitpicking and acting clingy. Maybe you should talk to her and ask what's bothering her who knows maybe she misses her family back home. Open up the dialogue.

 

[T-K-G]

Hmm seems she's insecure when this happens a need isn't being met from you to her so she'll start nitpicking and acting clingy. Maybe you should talk to her and ask what's bothering her who knows maybe she misses her family back home. Open up the dialogue.

BEEN did that

she just needs a LOT of attention 24/7

told her that shyt aint healthy and she agrees yet she always slips back into it, especially during shark week

 

[DaRealness]

Brehs .... been dating this new chick, intelligent and beautiful girl, shes an accountant and doesnt have facebook twitter or any of that shyt.

anyways, met her twice and both times shyt went very smooth imo .... but she doesnt give much away which makes it hard to know where I stand. She told me what she thinks of me and its all positive things, and time just flys past when we together .... she gives me absolutely no game confirmation though. Anyways talking on whatsapp last night (its always IM that is the start of fukkeries) ... I must have made a joke and referred to her as (her name) no.2 (we had previously been joking about how she thinks shes the only person with that name when I actually dated someone with that name before) ..... she got all weird from there and even said she doesnt think it will work :/ ... then she said we can talk about it tomorrow, havent messaged her since.

this is a complete 180 from how she was behaving the last few weeks I been talking to her, is it time for me to fall the fukk back and leave her alone? Or was I out of pocket ?

You should just move on.

If something as small as that rattles her cage, then she's not worth the bother....I don't care how pretty she is. It's not like you even disrespected her.

I've been there and done that where I've let people make me question myself and ask what I did wrong. Nah, never again.

Personally, I'd tell her if she doesn't think it would work then it won't and leave it at that. I ain't chasing or trying to convince anybody of anything.

 

[DaRealness]

Try to figure this one out brehs. First, yeah I got a girl I been seeing but nobody at work knows that and it's in the very early stages anyway so I don't think that is the issue with this story.

So I recently got a new job so the other day was my last day. A co-worker (who I had spoken to a little bit in the past but nothing more than casual conversation) come up to me a few days before my last day and is like hey, so blah blah your last day I'm going to come by and see you and her smile is as wide as shyt, playin with her hair and shyt I'm like but I say yeah if you want to do something/get to know one another, we could go somewhere and she's like yeah definitely. So this is pretty much out of nowhere. Fast-forward a few days to my last day and this broad sees me in the hall and rushes out the door.

I'm like It doesn't mean much to me but why go through the trouble a few days earlier?

LOL don't waste your time asking "why" when it comes to females. Some people are just weird. There's no rhyme or reason to it. It's not worth stressing.

 

[DaRealness]

Man don't stress yourself or think about finding "the one" or the "right woman". Few people are actually happy or actually find that fairy tale love story that hollywood sells us. At my work place its mostly men, out of 40 men, I only know of two who are in genuinely happy marriages. Most cats are divorced, paying alimony,child support, etc. Cats in my work place, before they receive their paycheck, 35% (whatever the current percentage is) is already shaved off by child support.

Enjoy your life, have fun, date different women, get to know yourself, enjoy your hobbies, do things you always wanted to do.Only invest in your life, never let women be your priority. I have never been anyone's genuine number 1, I have had women pretend like I was their number 1 because they had ulterior motives (wanting to get married, biological clock ticking, wanting me to save them from their misery etc.) I'm sure having fun dating different women and having different experiences.

Bruh don't end up knocking up the wrong woman, she will make your life hell for 18 years, you rather be single and childless than the drama and stress she will bring in your life. Yday at work, this brother, he paying child support every month, but his baby mother spends that money on herself, his child dont see the money, the child doesn't dress in nice clothes and isn't well fed, but he pays child support every month.

Exactly, because when you're single you tend to look at dating/marriage through rose tinted specs, but when you look at the hrash realities of it all, you're better just enjoying like until you're with a woman you're 100% sure about it.

 

[MikelArteta]

My girl said she hated my casual shoes, I said shrugs.

Yesterday she came by and spent over 100 buying me two casual shoes as well cooked for me.