I was just telling a breh how indifference will make her work for your attention
.. Sometimes the other way too though 
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.. Sometimes the other way too though 
brehs ive heard one of the messed up deceitful disgusting things a woman can do brehs
single mom knocked up, other guy wifes her up helps raises her kid as his own. They have another kid, years go by she starts talking to this dude in hawaii, she flies down to hawaii on vacation leaving her two kids and guy, she gets knocked up by that dude in hawaii comes back pregnant, first kid is now in foster care she doesnt care about her kids nor teh guy and now wants to move back to hawaii to be with the other guy
single mom knocked up, other guy wifes her up helps raises her kid as his own. They have another kid, years go by she starts talking to this dude in hawaii, she flies down to hawaii on vacation leaving her two kids and guy, she gets knocked up by that dude in hawaii comes back pregnant, first kid is now in foster care she doesnt care about her kids nor teh guy and now wants to move back to hawaii to be with the other guy
Chumps who wife upbrehs ive heard one of the messed up deceitful disgusting things a woman can do brehs
single mom knocked up, other guy wifes her up helps raises her kid as his own. They have another kid, years go by she starts talking to this dude in hawaii, she flies down to hawaii on vacation leaving her two kids and guy, she gets knocked up by that dude in hawaii comes back pregnant, first kid is now in foster care she doesnt care about her kids nor teh guy and now wants to move back to hawaii to be with the other guy
single moms don't realise they a stimulus package and that's all ... Bihhs like this know they chumps breh .... My mans older brother wifed up a broad with 3 kids .. None of which was his, and now she's club hopping while this simp babysitting .. She calls it girls night out and we know what that means .... Brehs never learn though
Chumps who wife up
I agree, but this story disturbed me I know the couple personally,
all this b*tch did is stay home and look after the kids while her man was out there working hard then she just gets up and leaves and travels like 5,000 miles away and gets knocked up by a dude she just met on the internet
Saysumthinfunnymike
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True enough. She was good "I'll see where this goes
" material but nobody I would have wasted a lot of time on.
TheArchitect
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ill be 32 in November. i kind of feel the same way, but being single for too long gets verrrrry boring...
Talk to her again maybe this time she'll be more open to telling you the real reason as to her behavior. Maybe tell her insecurity is turning you off. I wouldn't just put that on her culture and IMO a person from a rural area would be more mentally tough like a bit closed off emotionally. It does seem like she has a tough time understanding you and vice versa. You say she likes a lot of attention well what's a lot of attention your idea of a lot could be different from mines theirs hers anyones. It seems like quality Time might be an issue maybe spend one on one time with her where it's just the two of you talking, no tv no games or books just talking for like an hour or two face to face. Won't hurt to try.BEEN did that
she just needs a LOT of attention 24/7
told her that shyt aint healthy and she agrees yet she always slips back into it, especially during shark week
O.iatlhawksfan
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I can never find someone who's in the same situation as me. Most girls I meet are either still dealing with their EX or seriously talking to someone.
T-K-G
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u aint listenin to wat Im sayin
I BARELY can watch tv/read a book/play a game because I gotta give ghis chick attention or she goes batshyt crazy. im talkin like for every 4-5 hours I spend kickin it with her, if a take an hour to do me, she wildin out about it
her only insecurity is that she needs in-your-face reassurance about liking her, and I have no problem doing that
but 18+ hours of my day doing that shyt? man hell naw :smhcraig:
she already admitted to being an attention whore so that's why I feel like this shyt never gonna end 
might just cut my losses
For the most part, you are way better off coming in treating women as transient and recognizing that she probably won't be here a few years from now. If she does manage to stick around, cool, but just with the options that women have and their willingness to explore them, you simply have to build a lifestyle that is satisfying no matter what woman is or isn't in your life.
pretty much
I mean I like my girl, but I know I can wake up tomorrow and get that we need to talk or whatever. But if it comes down to it, I'll be ok. I still got my passport, I still got football, photography, writing etc.
Won't be that guy sitting around bawling my eyes out begging her plz plz plz and all that
u aint listenin to wat Im sayin
I BARELY can watch tv/read a book/play a game because I gotta give ghis chick attention or she goes batshyt crazy. im talkin like for every 4-5 hours I spend kickin it with her, if a take an hour to do me, she wildin out about it
her only insecurity is that she needs in-your-face reassurance about liking her, and I have no problem doing that
but 18+ hours of my day doing that shyt? man hell naw :smhcraig:
if a relationship is streessing you out better to leave early than late imo
Exactly. You never know when or why a woman will leave, so it's better to be prepared for that eventual possibility. I think the reality that a lot of men have to realize is that most women act on those tingly emotions, and it doesn't matter what you've invested in her. As soon as those tingles are over from you, she has ten other guys on the backburner waiting for a shot. A lot of women will explore those options. That's one of the hardest things a man will learn. It doesn't matter what you invest in a woman. It just matters how she feels at any particular moment in time.
If you have the rare gem who wants to 'make it work by any means', then that's lovely, but most women these days will go for the thrills if they are bored. I think at the end of the day, you simply cannot allow a woman's genitalia control the outcome of your life. A lot of men invest so much into these women that they end up destroyed when they find out their woman didn't live up to the expectations they had. Men simply have to find fulfillment outside of having a woman. Enjoy her while she's here, but you don't know what she's doing when you're not around and you never know when she will leave. It's sad it has to be like that, but it is what it is. The woman who actually wants to be around will find a way of her own volition to stick around.
Shoot your shot brehs 