Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Joined
Jun 6, 2015
Messages
6,809
Reputation
-950
Daps
12,792
Reppin
Queens/NYC
its just getting that roster though :jbhmm:, not enough hours in the day to be setting one up.

This is the problem today and why most Men just go MGTOW or some shyt and just don't want to be bothered. I know nikkas working 60 hours a week putting additional 20 hours into gaming. These nikkas have no down time whatsoever. Me personally what I did is get ultra focused in my search and only spent time gaming where I would get the best return on my time investment and the least amount of bullshyt.

I know most nikkas on here on that shaming shyt in regards to paying for it - But many nikkas just simply don't have the time under the age of 30 when they are still progressing professionally to be dealing with Women's bullshyt. But a nikka still need p*ssy. For that dilemma we have the professional hoes for professional working Men. :jawalrus:

Instead of the amateur hoes that may require less money but more time. :comeon: Either way we paying my dude. :sas1:
 

DAlbert

All Star
Joined
Jan 12, 2014
Messages
5,095
Reputation
700
Daps
12,411
This is the problem today and why most Men just go MGTOW or some shyt and just don't want to be bothered. I know nikkas working 60 hours a week putting additional 20 hours into gaming. These nikkas have no down time whatsoever. Me personally what I did is get ultra focused in my search and only spent time gaming where I would get the best return on my time investment and the least amount of bullshyt.

I know most nikkas on here on that shaming shyt in regards to paying for it - But many nikkas just simply don't have the time under the age of 30 when they are still progressing professionally to be dealing with Women's bullshyt. But a nikka still need p*ssy. For that dilemma we have the professional hoes for professional working Men. :jawalrus:

Instead of the amateur hoes that may require less money but more time. :comeon: Either way we paying my dude. :sas1:

Top tier fukking post my dude, I'm glad I realized this way early in my life. I do sometimes wonder am I missing out on being more cautious with my time, but shyt you have to make sacrifices for the things you truly want.
 
Joined
Jun 6, 2015
Messages
6,809
Reputation
-950
Daps
12,792
Reppin
Queens/NYC
:snoop: Some dudes don't know there are some lines you just don't cross.

Just Jane: Steamy sex with pal’s mum but she's too intense

Brits :ld:

Top tier fukking post my dude, I'm glad I realized this way early in my life. I do sometimes wonder am I missing out on being more cautious with my time, but shyt you have to make sacrifices for the things you truly want.

This is nothing new my dude. It's just been lost through the ages. I am just reiterating advice I've heard from old heads who grew up in my Father's era in the late 70's and early 80's.

The reason why most Black Men are able to be shamed into cupcaking is because our Fathers, Uncles and Grandfathers are not around. Luckily I had mine.

And don't think a broad can't tell you had several male role models in your life. Hoodrats have never been attracted to me because just the way I carry myself they know I am not on that fukkery vibe. :mjpls:
 

T-K-G

Veteran
Joined
May 12, 2012
Messages
42,701
Reputation
7,285
Daps
127,051
Reppin
LWO/Starkset
I think the emotional tone of your posts were pretty obvious because you seemed stressed initially about your situation and seemed to become even more agitated as you posted more. You say you're calm and collected but it was hard for me to tell through your communication on here. Some posters here are very consise and clear when they communicate but then you have ones that gives bits and pieces of vague information for you to put together and want to get belligerent when you're not telling them what they want to hear. If your posts are any indication of how you are in real life then you come across as someone not easy to discuss issues with, dismissive personality, in one ear and out the the other.
nah dealin wit a chick like this is new to me so it did get under my skin a bit but I promise you the way you read those posts were more exaggerated than how I actually typed em. honestly expected more joke replies than serious ones since nikkas stay gassin foriegn broads on here :manny: I was looking for a suggestion that I havent already tried yet. like ole boy said, I gotta dig way deep Iinto the playbook for this
and yep when shyt gets overly illogical I am gonna dismiss it :win: let em work it out for themselves (got her doing that right now :blessed:) if she cant figure how to calm that shyt down a lil bit then it's bushes, maybe i'll be nore willing to go thru that slow progression when im older, but im a young nikka :yeshrug: I aint lettin no female fukk up my mood every other day breh
 
Last edited:

McPiff

#goat
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
21,896
Reputation
2,745
Daps
37,842
smh got dragged into a fight between a female friend of mine and her dude.

I was barely talking to old girl too since she's been with dude.


Now the dude thinks i want to sleep with my friend and im trying to ruin their relationship :why: :wtf: :dahell:



i was like : " Nicca, :beli: why the fukk you think i would do that? i barely talk to your girlfriend, go deal with your insecurities somewhere else :camby:"


Now this nicca talmbout he want to fight me and shyt :bryan:

Im too old for this shyt


and yeah the female friend is getting the :camby: too
 

CarltonJunior

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
Feb 21, 2014
Messages
48,522
Reputation
6,016
Daps
134,685
Reppin
Duval County
Me and my girl have had a mutual breakup and we're going to try to be friends. I already mentally checked out of the relationship for around a year or half year, but as recently as 2/3 months ago I had a break down when I realized it was over for some reason. That's not really relevant tho.

What's relevant is that she's having a party and said I'm invited, but she claims that I might see a "different side of her" at the party so beware. :beli:

I'm like I've seen you high, drunk, and sloppy before, so what that means? She like "don't be mad if I'm talking to other dudes at the party." :umad:

I been talking to a couple of females since the break up, so do I shyt on this bytch by bringing one of them with me to the party :jbhmm:

I wanna shyt on her so bad :dead:
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
265,108
Reputation
35,145
Daps
809,435
Reppin
Goatganda the pearl of Africa
Me and my girl have had a mutual breakup and we're going to try to be friends. I already mentally checked out of the relationship for around a year or half year, but as recently as 2/3 months ago I had a break down when I realized it was over for some reason. That's not really relevant tho.

What's relevant is that she's having a party and said I'm invited, but she claims that I might see a "different side of her" at the party so beware. :beli:

I'm like I've seen you high, drunk, and sloppy before, so what that means? She like "don't be mad if I'm talking to other dudes at the party." :umad:

I been talking to a couple of females since the break up, so do I shyt on this bytch by bringing one of them with me to the party :jbhmm:

I wanna shyt on her so bad :dead:

why even fall into these petty games?

this si why I'll never be friends with an ex. Did it once and never again. Once we're over whether mutual etc. its done. See the peple I consider friends can't make me "jealous", dont make me feel some type of way.

I already told my girl if we ever break up thats the last time she will hear from me and I mean it sincerely.
 

McPiff

#goat
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
21,896
Reputation
2,745
Daps
37,842
Me and my girl have had a mutual breakup and we're going to try to be friends. I already mentally checked out of the relationship for around a year or half year, but as recently as 2/3 months ago I had a break down when I realized it was over for some reason. That's not really relevant tho.

What's relevant is that she's having a party and said I'm invited, but she claims that I might see a "different side of her" at the party so beware. :beli:

I'm like I've seen you high, drunk, and sloppy before, so what that means? She like "don't be mad if I'm talking to other dudes at the party." :umad:

I been talking to a couple of females since the break up, so do I shyt on this bytch by bringing one of them with me to the party :jbhmm:

I wanna shyt on her so bad :dead:


dont even go to the party breh.. it wont end well
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
265,108
Reputation
35,145
Daps
809,435
Reppin
Goatganda the pearl of Africa
smh got dragged into a fight between a female friend of mine and her dude.

I was barely talking to old girl too since she's been with dude.


Now the dude thinks i want to sleep with my friend and im trying to ruin their relationship :why: :wtf: :dahell:



i was like : " Nicca, :beli: why the fukk you think i would do that? i barely talk to your girlfriend, go deal with your insecurities somewhere else :camby:"


Now this nicca talmbout he want to fight me and shyt :bryan:

Im too old for this shyt


and yeah the female friend is getting the :camby: too


men and female friendships are rarely worth it.

My closest female friend got married a few months ago and I haven't heard a peep from her since which I commend her for.

Man/Female relationships for the most part is like milk there is an expiry date, you may be able to freeze it etc. but there comes a time for the most part its over
 

CarltonJunior

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
Feb 21, 2014
Messages
48,522
Reputation
6,016
Daps
134,685
Reppin
Duval County
why even fall into these petty games?

this si why I'll never be friends with an ex. Did it once and never again. Once we're over whether mutual etc. its done. See the peple I consider friends can't make me "jealous", dont make me feel some type of way.

I already told my girl if we ever break up thats the last time she will hear from me and I mean it sincerely.

dont even go to the party breh.. it wont end well

That's what I originally thought but everyone I know will be there including my close knit group of friends. They were invited before I was made aware so I couldn't tell them not to show up. I feel like I'm obligated to make an appearance in some way
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
265,108
Reputation
35,145
Daps
809,435
Reppin
Goatganda the pearl of Africa
That's what I originally thought but everyone I know will be there including my close knit group of friends. They were invited before I was made aware so I couldn't tell them not to show up. I feel like I'm obligated to make an appearance in some way

meh screw your friends. Your the only one who has to deal with this, prob seeing your ex grinding up on another guy or clinging to some guy and ish its going to affect you.

Why set yourself back. Ditto what others think or care about, put yourself first.

I remember one time being "Friends" with an ex, and we went out to a movie and then after I dropped her home and some nikka was outside her house waiting for her and I got heated but we were "just friends".
 
Top