Time to cut the roster down and get it to 1 For the fall season brehs.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Time to cut the roster down and get it to 1 For the fall season brehs.
Mr Hate Coffee
Veteran
wrong thread
Me and my girl have had a mutual breakup and we're going to try to be friends. I already mentally checked out of the relationship for around a year or half year, but as recently as 2/3 months ago I had a break down when I realized it was over for some reason. That's not really relevant tho.
What's relevant is that she's having a party and said I'm invited, but she claims that I might see a "different side of her" at the party so beware.
I'm like I've seen you high, drunk, and sloppy before, so what that means? She like "don't be mad if I'm talking to other dudes at the party."
I been talking to a couple of females since the break up, so do I shyt on this bytch by bringing one of them with me to the party
I wanna shyt on her so bad
Look at the line in bold bruh. Now you really think you'd be cool with seeing her up on other dudes. We're men, we got egos. There's never a completely mutual break up. One person wanted it more than the other....it is what it is. Dunno how serious you guys were, but if it was serious and it ended then maybe you should distance yaself from her for a while. From the bolded, it seems you might be in the petty stage of seeing if you find someone who is "better" than your ex in some category. She might be doing the same with you at that party with other dudes.
Saysumthinfunnymike
VOTE!!!
Male and female friendships rarely work but I do have a couple female friends who ARE in longterm relationships and they still call/text me almost every day. 
Male and female friendships rarely work but I do have a couple female friends who ARE in longterm relationships and they still call/text me almost every day.
now would you be ok with your girl doing that to another guy?
exactly, honestly its better to just part ways, and maybe a while down the road you can try being friends again but guess what by that time you'll have no inkling to even be in contact.
I'm not friends with any exes, I just don't see the point. even though I have no romantic feelings for them I have nothing to talk to them about, after you get over them they just become strangers you shared memories with at one point. If i wanted to be friends iwth a chick I'd rather it be a chick I never loved or cared about emotionally, incase those feelings rise.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Bless't
Living the dream
Bless't
Living the dream
Ehhhh... depends. What's "too long" to you though?
TheArchitect
All Star
ive been single for going on 3 years....
Bless't
Living the dream
Okay, I hear ya. Then, yes... I'm sure it could become boring af at that point.
Youseenmywork
KING
What's the problem?
TheArchitect
All Star
oh it is....gets very stressful and old....
i suppose you can say my morale has dropped considerably. its gotten to the point where i HATE when i develop any kind if attraction to a female, and automatically try and talk myself out of taking my "shot." the reason being that i simply feel the game isnt really for me, and it will all be yet another waste of time. all the bullshyt, jumping through hoops, fickleness, games...a nikka just can't fukk with it anymore.
sad part is im probably the easiest to please...dont ask for much at all...
Saysumthinfunnymike
VOTE!!!
They probably do. i'm not ever in my girl's phone and I don't want them in mine. I don't ask but if she start being distant acting different then we have problems
u mad son?
All Star
looking back at how that chick played me, i've realised something
why the fukk does it take me being rejected by a chick to start pushing on with my life. i seem to only have this motivation to push on with my goals after getting caught up and mind fukked ..... i been in a zone, not even stopping to think, just having a list in my mind and checking them off without even questioning if I have the energy to do it, and i already feel more empowered and generally happy.
why do I keep forgetting that stopping and thinking is what makes me stagnate. I end up talking to chicks, getting somewhere with them, get excited and then start thinking im winning .... when really these last few months my life has been on hold and ive just been fukking around with these c*nts. I need to stay in this state of mind maaaan
why the fukk does it take me being rejected by a chick to start pushing on with my life. i seem to only have this motivation to push on with my goals after getting caught up and mind fukked ..... i been in a zone, not even stopping to think, just having a list in my mind and checking them off without even questioning if I have the energy to do it, and i already feel more empowered and generally happy.
why do I keep forgetting that stopping and thinking is what makes me stagnate. I end up talking to chicks, getting somewhere with them, get excited and then start thinking im winning .... when really these last few months my life has been on hold and ive just been fukking around with these c*nts. I need to stay in this state of mind maaaan