Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

The more I think about it the more vexed I get trying to understand it. bytches want a man but try everything in their power to make sure that shyt dont happen.

Trust me, your life would be better when you don't even bother trying to understand it or figure it out.

As I've said earlier, if a chick can't cooperate then she goes. Simple as that. I don't care for the reasons as to why she doesn't, because you'll know whether someone values you and wants to spend time or not. As we speak I'm pretty much telling a broad I know on FB to kick rocks because of a situation too long to get into detail about on here. I don't play games and as time goes I'm going to be a lot more harsher and blunt with it and much quicker to end things in a heartbeat if I sense I'm being messed around in any way.

You just have to let broads know your time is valuable and if they wanna be on some silly shyt then just don't bother with them.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

Coli round table.....here's the gist I'm in college I dress good kinda look good and got eh game...that I can ask a girl out cold approach style but thing a brotha doesn't believe in texting to get to know someone plus I ain't good at it either.....so basically when females kinda my number my textin' is jus settin up a date.....so for those like me that are sh!t at textin how are ya scoring ? cz I have a birdies due to lack of consistent contact but at the same time I'm not a fan of being an attention feeder

Keep them texts short, breh. One and two words. When I was in college texting was for one purpose: setting up a meet.

Other than that, only words you need to know for texting a chick:

yeah
nah
oh
busy (and/or some activity like work, gym, school, etc)
maybe
later

The key to women is to just be indifferent. You know what women love more than attention? New attention. Attention to a woman is like p*ssy for a man. Give a man p*ssy and he's disinterested, looking for something new. Give a girl attention and you become a notch under her belt.

That sweet/nice guy shyt will get you lots of "awwww"s but not very many "ahhhhh"s, you feel me?

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

Keep them texts short, breh. One and two words. When I was in college texting was for one purpose: setting up a meet.

Other than that, only words you need to know for texting a chick:

yeah
nah
oh
busy (and/or some activity like work, gym, school, etc)
maybe
later

The key to women is to just be indifferent. You know what women love more than attention? New attention. Attention to a woman is like p*ssy for a man. Give a man p*ssy and he's disinterested, looking for something new. Give a girl attention and you become a notch under her belt.

That sweet/nice guy shyt will get you lots of "awwww"s but not very many "ahhhhh"s, you feel me?

Next level sh!t

 

[DarkHorse23]

Going txt two girls tonight and try to set up something with atleast one of them. Hopefully one bites

One of them bit

Me : What's up Liz, this Mike.

Her: Hey! Nothing just getting home from school.

Me : I bet you're tired lol. We should get lunch or drinks this weekend.

Her: Yeah lets do it! Not this weekend though i'm going to a wedding. What area from Houston you from?

Me: That's cool, no problem. You let me know the day/time and i'll be there. Enjoy your wedding! I live in
Katy.

The ball is in her court now. We'll see what happens

 

[Atlrocafella]

False alarm on my friend who I thought was starting to feel me, about to cut down on this Lil summer team I had going and lock down a thing for the fall season.

 

[Fatboi1]

Man I seen the cutest chick at the bus stop today after seeing her yesterday. Had me thinking about her all the way at home. She reminded me of my high school senior year crush.

 

[TRUEST]

thought id share a funny one that I experienced the other month

was talking to this chick from tinder for a good week or so, might have been longer.... she was all cool, everything all good , she tried testing me a few times with the basic "why are you talking to me" and all these basic level shyts that I breezed past. Eventually ask her to meet up, she was on it, infact she was even going to drive to my area to meet up. The night before she asked me what the dress code was ..... ... I told her nothing special just wear casual .... she said "you really know how to treat a girl" lol .... I had to re-iterate that we just going to eat and hitting a park after (we have a nature reserve in our area which is pretty beautiful) and she knew this the whole time because I told her on the phone that this was gonna be the plan and she was cool with it ..... bytch fully just messaged back saying "Im not sure now, think im gonna leave it"

If I wasnt so smashed out of my head at the time I probably could have flipped this upside down and went through with the plan. At the time I was way gone off that bacardi and kush .... read the message and just replied like "had a feeling you was one of them flakey bytches, delete my number plz" ... she replied with some bullshyt about not knowing how to treat a girl.

The next day she saw my snapchats of me doing what she would have been experiencing with another girl, it was a beautiful day and I had fun .... she deleted and blocked me off everything after that

I just wanna ask you brehs, what you would have done in this situation?

stop talking to these women for a week. wtf man.

me: hey
her: how are u
me: im great, what city are u in
her: blah blah
me: nice, thats close to me.
her: where are u
me: blah blah
me: we should definitely meet
her: i agree
me: when are u free
her: blah
me: blah blah blah

date set in under 30 minutes. yall n1ggas got the patience of gods.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

One of them bit

Me : What's up Liz, this Mike.

Her: Hey! Nothing just getting home from school.

Me : I bet you're tired lol. We should get lunch or drinks this weekend.

Her: Yeah lets do it! Not this weekend though i'm going to a wedding. What area from Houston you from?

Me: That's cool, no problem. You let me know the day/time and i'll be there. Enjoy your wedding! I live in
Katy.

The ball is in her court now. We'll see what happens

A little advice, if I may.

You started off well with making plans. Worst thing you can be is a text buddy so you immediately jumped into "let's get up" mode. Good. But you should never put the ball in her court. You just gave her home court advantage. You always wanna have the upper hand. It puts you in control and also it makes her respect you. She said she had to go to a wedding. Cool. That's her missing out on an opportunity to see you and that's how you have to see it. Instead of let me know when and where. That's giving her the lead and the decision making responsibility. Those are masculine traits that women LOVE to see displayed, feel me? It also makes you seem kinda desperate. Like whatever she says you just gon clear your schedule for her. Nah, son. "Oh cool, enjoy the wedding. Perhaps another time" and then you try again next weekend or the one after that. Can't let these chicks think you're on their schedule. You're supposed to be an interesting man leading a busy life. You're doing you, you're not thinking about her. She should feel lucky you made some time for her, not "yeah girl, I got this nikka at my beck and call."

The key is to make her want you. If she already has you, how can she want you?

 

[Spades Of Aces]

A little advice, if I may.

You started off well with making plans. Worst thing you can be is a text buddy so you immediately jumped into "let's get up" mode. Good. But you should never put the ball in her court. You just gave her home court advantage. You always wanna have the upper hand. It puts you in control and also it makes her respect you. She said she had to go to a wedding. Cool. That's her missing out on an opportunity to see you and that's how you have to see it. Instead of let me know when and where. That's giving her the lead and the decision making responsibility. Those are masculine traits that women LOVE to see displayed, feel me? It also makes you seem kinda desperate. Like whatever she says you just gon clear your schedule for her. Nah, son. "Oh cool, enjoy the wedding. Perhaps another time" and then you try again next weekend or the one after that. Can't let these chicks think you're on their schedule. You're supposed to be an interesting man leading a busy life. You're doing you, you're not thinking about her. She should feel lucky you made some time for her, not "yeah girl, I got this nikka at my beck and call."

The key is to make her want you. If she already has you, how can she want you?

Very true. How can you want what you already have? Dating has become too much of mental gymnastics. Gone are the simple days of being able to ask a woman out for a date and getting a straightforward answer. Courtship has also gone down the drain as well. It's a shame of how things have gotten to this point in the dating game.

 

[TRUEST]

A little advice, if I may.

You started off well with making plans. Worst thing you can be is a text buddy so you immediately jumped into "let's get up" mode. Good. But you should never put the ball in her court. You just gave her home court advantage. You always wanna have the upper hand. It puts you in control and also it makes her respect you. She said she had to go to a wedding. Cool. That's her missing out on an opportunity to see you and that's how you have to see it. Instead of let me know when and where. That's giving her the lead and the decision making responsibility. Those are masculine traits that women LOVE to see displayed, feel me? It also makes you seem kinda desperate. Like whatever she says you just gon clear your schedule for her. Nah, son. "Oh cool, enjoy the wedding. Perhaps another time" and then you try again next weekend or the one after that. Can't let these chicks think you're on their schedule. You're supposed to be an interesting man leading a busy life. You're doing you, you're not thinking about her. She should feel lucky you made some time for her, not "yeah girl, I got this nikka at my beck and call."

The key is to make her want you. If she already has you, how can she want you?

good point. but we're talking about a chick this dude has never met. i like how he put the ball in her court. but if u haven't met a girl, a week is way too long to be talking. i've had girls ask why u in a rush to meet so soon and my answer is always the same. just wanna make sure we vibe and dont waste each other's time. i may meet u and not like u. its really that simple

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

good point. but we're talking about a chick this dude has never met. i like how he put the ball in her court. but if u haven't met a girl, a week is way too long to be talking. i've had girls ask why u in a rush to meet so soon and my answer is always the same. just wanna make sure we vibe and dont waste each other's time. i may meet u and not like u. its really that simple

Yeah but I wouldn't talk to her for a week. I'd talk to her in a week. I got shyt to do, b.

Then again, I been married and out the game for damn near a decade so I can't fully comprehend the concept of talking to someone you've never met. nikkas woulda got clowned for online dating in my hay day.

 

[ThaJoker23]

My girl just broke up with me with a text . I'm already going through some shyt in this time of my life. This just put the nail in the coffin

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

My girl just broke up with me with a text . I'm already going through some shyt in this time of my life. This just put the nail in the coffin

Why did she dump you?

 

[ThaJoker23]

Why did she dump you?

That the thing I don't know . It was all good just yesterday having a good time and shyt. She sent me this text talking about "I can't be that girl for you anymore". So I texted and tried calling her but she ignoring all my shyt . Shyt just came outta no where.

 

[360dagod]

That the thing I don't know . It was all good just yesterday having a good time and shyt. She sent me this text talking about "I can't be that girl for you anymore". So I texted and tried calling her but she ignoring all my shyt . Shyt just came outta no where.

There had to be some signs you missed

Dont even call...just block her number