Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

looking back at how that chick played me, i've realised something

why the fukk does it take me being rejected by a chick to start pushing on with my life. i seem to only have this motivation to push on with my goals after getting caught up and mind fukked ..... i been in a zone, not even stopping to think, just having a list in my mind and checking them off without even questioning if I have the energy to do it, and i already feel more empowered and generally happy.

why do I keep forgetting that stopping and thinking is what makes me stagnate. I end up talking to chicks, getting somewhere with them, get excited and then start thinking im winning .... when really these last few months my life has been on hold and ive just been fukking around with these c*nts. I need to stay in this state of mind maaaan

Sometimes pain is the biggest motivator. It's the way the universe works sometimes when we got our own stuff to work on. I've gone through some things recently that have made me realise I need to get it together internally. It's what makes a man.

They say your enemies and your friends are equal blessings.

There's a book called 'fukk it' (that's actually the title believe it or not lol) by John C Parkin that speaks a lot about the power of indifference. It might be worth you copping it on amazon.

 

[International Playa]

This is the problem today and why most Men just go MGTOW or some shyt and just don't want to be bothered. I know nikkas working 60 hours a week putting additional 20 hours into gaming. These nikkas have no down time whatsoever. Me personally what I did is get ultra focused in my search and only spent time gaming where I would get the best return on my time investment and the least amount of bullshyt.

I know most nikkas on here on that shaming shyt in regards to paying for it - But many nikkas just simply don't have the time under the age of 30 when they are still progressing professionally to be dealing with Women's bullshyt. But a nikka still need p*ssy. For that dilemma we have the professional hoes for professional working Men.

Instead of the amateur hoes that may require less money but more time. Either way we paying my dude.

I cant co-sign paying for pusssy man.

Im sure dudes can make up 2-3 hrs on a Friday night or Saturday night to pull females from the nightclub. Nightclub is the easiest place to pull females without much effort. Dont go with expectations of meeting your future wife though.

 

[Reginald Noble]

I cant co-sign paying for pusssy man.

Im sure dudes can make up 2-3 hrs on a Friday night or Saturday night to pull females from the nightclub. Nightclub is the easiest place to pull females without much effort. Dont go with expectations of meeting your future wife though.

The opportunity cost for getting p*ssy is not the same for all males.

Steve Urkel - 10,000 hours for 1 lay
Stefan - 10 hours

Every dude is not starting out on even ground. 2-3 hours is an average assuming the guy has basic social skills. There are disadvantaged nikkas raised by they moms and aunt with no male role model telling them the true nature of females. And your 2-3 hour number is dated - shyt hasn't been that easy since the late 90's my nikka. We talking 5-6 hours so that's a Friday and a Saturday night spent chasing p*ssy.

Assuming a nikka just trying to get his dikk wet. Even spending 100 bucks total in the club every month ain't worth it. In some parts of the country you can get a decent looking amateur chick for that money. As I stated in a previous post nikkas in their 20's need to focus on building an empire not chasing p*ssy. But you need to bust a nut in one once in a while to keep your mind clear, it is a biological necessity.

You got to view this shyt pragmatically and realistically. Times have changed and the amount of nikkas with autism is rising not to mention feminism bullshyt. The average American negro is dealing with obesity at a younger age, addiction to porn, alcohol, weed and psychological issues from no daddy in the home. They really don't got the luxury of spending too much time chasing a bytch. They got to get their health and life on track.

Maybe you carved out a knack wherever you live, more power to you. But you that 1 in 100 nikka and I am speaking to the other 99 that are struggling.

 

[u mad son?]

Sometimes pain is the biggest motivator. It's the way the universe works sometimes when we got our own stuff to work on. I've gone through some things recently that have made me realise I need to get it together internally. It's what makes a man.

They say your enemies and your friends are equal blessings.

There's a book called 'fukk it' (that's actually the title believe it or not lol) by John C Parkin that speaks a lot about the power of indifference. It might be worth you copping it on amazon.

You're right ... infact I heard a Masta Killa lyric a while ago "I remain the same, im older now, I embrace the pain" ... this line resonated with me and I think I can finally feel 100% what hes talking about, and in this situation right here (as lame as it is, it took me a chick to reject me to understand fully ) I can see where it comes into play.

Theres about 4/5 books I need to get through before I read another one (this hobby got shelved for chicks also ) ... Im gonna order this book and read it no doubt. appreciate it

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

Coli round table.....here's the gist I'm in college I dress good kinda look good and got eh game...that I can ask a girl out cold approach style but thing a brotha doesn't believe in texting to get to know someone plus I ain't good at it either.....so basically when females kinda my number my textin' is jus settin up a date.....so for those like me that are sh!t at textin how are ya scoring ? cz I have a birdies due to lack of consistent contact but at the same time I'm not a fan of being an attention feeder

 

[International Playa]

Coli round table.....here's the gist I'm in college I dress good kinda look good and got eh game...that I can ask a girl out cold approach style but thing a brotha doesn't believe in texting to get to know someone plus I ain't good at it either.....so basically when females kinda my number my textin' is jus settin up a date.....so for those like me that are sh!t at textin how are ya scoring ? cz I have a birdies due to lack of consistent contact but at the same time I'm not a fan of being an attention feeder

Call a girl my dude, in a phone conversation, you got her full attention to spit game in her ear, setting you apart from the rest of the guys texting her phone.

Average woman has at least 2-3 guys texting her, leaving simping comments in one of her many profiles etc. If you texting her she might see your message and ignore it or respond after texting back them 3-4 guys texting her.

Dating in 2015 is different man, you damn near competing with other guys or even when you in a relationship, dudes will be sliding in to your bae's DM. Thats why its so important to find a woman with true morals, a girl who wont be texting or entertaining other guys while she in a relationship etc.

Just my $0.02

 

[u mad son?]

Coli round table.....here's the gist I'm in college I dress good kinda look good and got eh game...that I can ask a girl out cold approach style but thing a brotha doesn't believe in texting to get to know someone plus I ain't good at it either.....so basically when females kinda my number my textin' is jus settin up a date.....so for those like me that are sh!t at textin how are ya scoring ? cz I have a birdies due to lack of consistent contact but at the same time I'm not a fan of being an attention feeder

In my experience texting girls will just fukk you up in the long run. Send a text every now and then to make sure you still got her attention but dont try hard ... just use it to let her know youre still there. You may be different but in my experience with texts, I end up thinking too hard and end up talking myself out of the p*ssy .... plus they will play the most games with you over IM .... the amount of times ive fukked up game because shes said some off key shyt on whatsapp that i know she wouldnt have the balls to say to me in person ... dont let her push your buttons on IM if she cant do that shyt with you in person.

 

[Youseenmywork]

oh it is....gets very stressful and old....

i suppose you can say my morale has dropped considerably. its gotten to the point where i HATE when i develop any kind if attraction to a female, and automatically try and talk myself out of taking my "shot." the reason being that i simply feel the game isnt really for me, and it will all be yet another waste of time. all the bullshyt, jumping through hoops, fickleness, games...a nikka just can't fukk with it anymore.

sad part is im probably the easiest to please...dont ask for much at all...

All men are easy to please this is why men's happiness should come first that way we can deal with a more complicated creature. Women don't know what makes them happy ...were as am our happiness is superficial. Think about how many guys waiting on NBA 2k 2016 to come on xbox just to kick it and be in some form of peace. You can't let your communication skills go to shyt thoe I get were your coming from thoe. On the low most men have the same resent when it comes to these women...they just game around it. The resentment come from that men offer more in the long run than a women does. Women just hold vagina over our heads cause it the only weapon they have. Once you bring the value of a women's vagina down to zero it makes thing in LIFE a lot easier. I always say men's anger when it comes to women is valid it just nobody really wants to understand the male perspective.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Going txt two girls tonight and try to set up something with atleast one of them. Hopefully one bites

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

Call a girl my dude, in a phone conversation, you got her full attention to spit game in her ear, setting you apart from the rest of the guys texting her phone.

Average woman has at least 2-3 guys texting her, leaving simping comments in one of her many profiles etc. If you texting her she might see your message and ignore it or respond after texting back them 3-4 guys texting her.

Dating in 2015 is different man, you damn near competing with other guys or even when you in a relationship, dudes will be sliding in to your bae's DM. Thats why its so important to find a woman with true morals, a girl who wont be texting or entertaining other guys while she in a relationship etc.

Just my $0.02

Thanks dude.....yeah man game has been completely destroyed by soft nikkas.....But I know If I keep sticking with classy women the busy type shyt might be easier to get with.....HairHats and Ratchets is a no go zone bruuvs.....let me see how I can draft these prospects on hand....two Sistas one pawg and one mexican

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

In my experience texting girls will just fukk you up in the long run. Send a text every now and then to make sure you still got her attention but dont try hard ... just use it to let her know youre still there. You may be different but in my experience with texts, I end up thinking too hard and end up talking myself out of the p*ssy .... plus they will play the most games with you over IM .... the amount of times ive fukked up game because shes said some off key shyt on whatsapp that i know she wouldnt have the balls to say to me in person ... dont let her push your buttons on IM if she cant do that shyt with you in person.

Word boss.....on texts that's when i lose it bcoz some days I get horny then other times you jus sending words that ain't make sense or getting you anywhere.....now I will try to be disciplined and use texts strictly to meet a chick.....how are ya fellas managing some of these sistas though ?

 

[u mad son?]

thought id share a funny one that I experienced the other month

was talking to this chick from tinder for a good week or so, might have been longer.... she was all cool, everything all good , she tried testing me a few times with the basic "why are you talking to me" and all these basic level shyts that I breezed past. Eventually ask her to meet up, she was on it, infact she was even going to drive to my area to meet up. The night before she asked me what the dress code was ..... ... I told her nothing special just wear casual .... she said "you really know how to treat a girl" lol .... I had to re-iterate that we just going to eat and hitting a park after (we have a nature reserve in our area which is pretty beautiful) and she knew this the whole time because I told her on the phone that this was gonna be the plan and she was cool with it ..... bytch fully just messaged back saying "Im not sure now, think im gonna leave it"

If I wasnt so smashed out of my head at the time I probably could have flipped this upside down and went through with the plan. At the time I was way gone off that bacardi and kush .... read the message and just replied like "had a feeling you was one of them flakey bytches, delete my number plz" ... she replied with some bullshyt about not knowing how to treat a girl.

The next day she saw my snapchats of me doing what she would have been experiencing with another girl, it was a beautiful day and I had fun .... she deleted and blocked me off everything after that

I just wanna ask you brehs, what you would have done in this situation?

 

[DaRealness]

thought id share a funny one that I experienced the other month

was talking to this chick from tinder for a good week or so, might have been longer.... she was all cool, everything all good , she tried testing me a few times with the basic "why are you talking to me" and all these basic level shyts that I breezed past. Eventually ask her to meet up, she was on it, infact she was even going to drive to my area to meet up. The night before she asked me what the dress code was ..... ... I told her nothing special just wear casual .... she said "you really know how to treat a girl" lol .... I had to re-iterate that we just going to eat and hitting a park after (we have a nature reserve in our area which is pretty beautiful) and she knew this the whole time because I told her on the phone that this was gonna be the plan and she was cool with it ..... bytch fully just messaged back saying "Im not sure now, think im gonna leave it"

If I wasnt so smashed out of my head at the time I probably could have flipped this upside down and went through with the plan. At the time I was way gone off that bacardi and kush .... read the message and just replied like "had a feeling you was one of them flakey bytches, delete my number plz" ... she replied with some bullshyt about not knowing how to treat a girl.

The next day she saw my snapchats of me doing what she would have been experiencing with another girl, it was a beautiful day and I had fun .... she deleted and blocked me off everything after that

I just wanna ask you brehs, what you would have done in this situation?

I would have literally laughed out loud.

There's just so much b.s. these days it would take a real woman for me to even take seriously.

 

[u mad son?]

I would have literally laughed out loud.

There's just so much b.s. these days it would take a real woman for me to even take seriously.

The more I think about it the more vexed I get trying to understand it. bytches want a man but try everything in their power to make sure that shyt dont happen.

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

thought id share a funny one that I experienced the other month

was talking to this chick from tinder for a good week or so, might have been longer.... she was all cool, everything all good , she tried testing me a few times with the basic "why are you talking to me" and all these basic level shyts that I breezed past. Eventually ask her to meet up, she was on it, infact she was even going to drive to my area to meet up. The night before she asked me what the dress code was ..... ... I told her nothing special just wear casual .... she said "you really know how to treat a girl" lol .... I had to re-iterate that we just going to eat and hitting a park after (we have a nature reserve in our area which is pretty beautiful) and she knew this the whole time because I told her on the phone that this was gonna be the plan and she was cool with it ..... bytch fully just messaged back saying "Im not sure now, think im gonna leave it"

If I wasnt so smashed out of my head at the time I probably could have flipped this upside down and went through with the plan. At the time I was way gone off that bacardi and kush .... read the message and just replied like "had a feeling you was one of them flakey bytches, delete my number plz" ... she replied with some bullshyt about not knowing how to treat a girl.

The next day she saw my snapchats of me doing what she would have been experiencing with another girl, it was a beautiful day and I had fun .... she deleted and blocked me off everything after that

I just wanna ask you brehs, what you would have done in this situation?

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