Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

yea man i mentioned how the average age girls lose it is like 16,15 .

she couldnt believe it saying back home girls often wait til 18 at least except for the hoes. I was surprised because I'm Ghanaian and my nikkas that were born in Ghana tell me stories of losing their virginity to 17 year olds when they were thirteen and shyt but she said thats Ghana not Nigeria. Either way... she just turned 18 in August .

Girl brought me food last night after work (using it as an excuse to see me) and I aint even ask .
Were spending Saturday together at her crib (parents are travelling ) and shes telling me how she wanna cook for a nikka
She got that Infinity M35x that her brother passed down to her cause he dont live here and I drive it when we go out cause she still hasnt got her Canadian license yet.
She goes through periods where shell just stare at a nikka for 30 seconds straight for no reason in awe
She gon get an apartment in downtown Toronto soon for school and 10 mminutes away from where I work. She already live in my neighbourhood too so I get the best of both worlds.

Dad is a stock broker, hopefully I can learn from him. Fam is loadedshyts been good to a breh

Only thing is shes a tad bit spoiled as emphasized by the bolded. I can tell her dad treats her like a princess but as instilled good morals in her and values

 

[ridge]

ur heart was probably racing out of control too.

see, when cats on here give advice, i like to listen. no one is too young or old to heed advice. we dont get any tangible prices out of giving advices. we're just looking out for each other.

having witnessed (unfortunately), enough heartbreak in life, i can tell ya, any girl u get with who isn't jumping thru high fences for u, u better make sure u emotionally distance urself from.

any girl can do a man wrong, but a girl who cooks and cleans for u, who worships the floor u walk on, who calls u all the damn time just to hear ur voice, who cant stop thinking of ideas of what she's gon do for u (not just sexually), -- this type of girl is highly unlikely to do u wrong.

but then u got the b1tches yall deal with. the chick who tells u "if u cant deal with the fact that she got male friends then yall shouldn't be together, the one who takes hours to respond to you when u know women check their phone every 10 minutes, the one who's always trying to chill with u and ur friends, the one who thinks she's "one of the guys", the one who never cooks but instead encourages u to cook for her , the one who just cant seem to stay the fucck in the house"---- these women are the likliest to cheat. use them for pleasure, but nothing else.

my girl did that..still slept in a bed with her guy friend


like i said before im positive she didnt do anything sexual with him but she knew it was wrong and hid it



broke up yesterday but im hurting today i must admit brehs

 

[Ohene]

they all capable brehs

 

[jadillac]

Breh... that's a sign.

One night I woke up, all sweaty, heart racing... come to find out the girl I was seeing at the time was getting her back blown out that same night.

Damn, breh, Damn.

I had decided to cut her off last week(I posted in here a few pages back)....I went over to her place to get something I had left...but once I got over there, we started talking and had a really deep convo about things. So I thought things were good....but she thinks she's slick....

She dont know who I am though in terms of if I wanna know something, I'm gonna find out.

Stop ignoring your gut breh. That's your inner manhood trying to guide you through the emotional wreck that relationships are. Women have intuition, us men have our guts.

I was with a girl a few years ago that I started just getting a feeling that she was talking to other dudes. One day I left her at the crib as I went to play ball for a bit. Later that night (she had already left) I'm browsing the computer and something tells me to check my history. I see she had used it and was looking at some dudes twitter page. I check his page and don't see nothing too out of the ordinary (she didn't even have a twitter). A few days later I get a email from MySpace on some "hey come back to MySpace, see what your friends are doing!" shyt, low and behold she has a bunch of updates where she's flirting to someone, but no1 specific. Just a bunch of "lol you need to stop" type updates. Immediately shyt clicked and I went back to dudes twitter and low and behold, this muthafukka was tweeting her messages to a fake twitter name while she was replying through her myspace statuses. SON, I WAS BLOOOOWWWWNNN. nikka had the face for a good hour.

Good advice breh. I think we all try to be logical and not let our untrustworthy nature due to past experiences ruin a new relationship.

Damn, that's some other level creepin right there. Just dirty.

ur heart was probably racing out of control too.

see, when cats on here give advice, i like to listen. no one is too young or old to heed advice. we dont get any tangible prices out of giving advices. we're just looking out for each other.

having witnessed (unfortunately), enough heartbreak in life, i can tell ya, any girl u get with who isn't jumping thru high fences for u, u better make sure u emotionally distance urself from.

any girl can do a man wrong, but a girl who cooks and cleans for u, who worships the floor u walk on, who calls u all the damn time just to hear ur voice, who cant stop thinking of ideas of what she's gon do for u (not just sexually), -- this type of girl is highly unlikely to do u wrong.

but then u got the b1tches yall deal with. the chick who tells u "if u cant deal with the fact that she got male friends then yall shouldn't be together, the one who takes hours to respond to you when u know women check their phone every 10 minutes, the one who's always trying to chill with u and ur friends, the one who thinks she's "one of the guys", the one who never cooks but instead encourages u to cook for her , the one who just cant seem to stay the fucck in the house"---- these women are the likliest to cheat. use them for pleasure, but nothing else.

Great post. I think trying to read a woman is key...some women are really clingy and let you know it....others try to hide it. You can never really know til you get to know them....and you have to be careful to assume she is or is not really diggin you.

 

[jadillac]

Man, these chicks are crazy. Girl looked me right in the eye the other night during our conversation and lied.

This might be kinda funny actually, b/c she doesnt think I know.

She might try to just keep me around as a backup, and I might just play along from a distance to make sure I get the last laugh.

 

[ridge]

Man, these chicks are crazy. Girl looked me right in the eye the other night during our conversation and lied.

This might be kinda funny actually, b/c she doesnt think I know.

She might try to just keep me around as a backup, and I might just play along from a distance to make sure I get the last laugh.

about what

 

[MikelArteta]

u were just reckless.

when i'm fuccking certain chicks that I know i dont wanna get pregnant, even with a condom on, if i feel i'm about to bust, i pull out. u always know when the condom breaks. if sh1t starts to feel too good, i pull out to make sure.

there are many chicks who would have hit the lotto by being impregnated by me. i recognize these types of chicks and i never EVER get reckless with them.

u need to keep this in mind whenever u mess with chicks . and btw, wtf is up with this "celibate" nonsense ur talking about. there aint nothing winning about that. if u aint in some puccy or making some type of obscene money, the fucck is ur purpose in life?

Due to religious purposes I no longer engage in sexual immorality.

And yes I'm winning in life.

 

[MikelArteta]

It doesn't matter f she cooks and cleans and calls you all the time and treats you good, chicks put on the greatest facades.

In marriages chicks do all that and more and still step out. As a man you have to pick up the signs early.

My boy was telling me a story one time how he was smashing this chick and her bf called and she was telling him how she loves him and dinner is in the fridge and she will see him later.

While I giggled and laughed that could have been any man. Chicks know the game they will do everything right so you don't pick up the scent of deception. They will cook, clean, text, suck your dikk, do your laundry, say I love you, buy you things, let still suck off their ex or another dude and you have no idea of knowing.

The thing that many men fall into when a chick treats wm like royalty they get the mindset of she's not like the other girls out there I got a good one

 

[Ohene]

It doesn't matter f she cooks and cleans and calls you all the time and treats you good, chicks put on the greatest facades.

In marriages chicks do all that and more and still step out. As a man you have to pick up the signs early.

My boy was telling me a story one time how he was smashing this chick and her bf called and she was telling him how she loves him and dinner is in the fridge and she will see him later.

While I giggled and laughed that could have been any man. Chicks know the game they will do everything right so you don't pick up the scent of deception. They will cook, clean, text, suck your dikk, do your laundry, say I love you, buy you things, let still suck off their ex or another dude and you have no idea of knowing.

The thing that many men fall into when a chick treats wm like royalty they get the mindset of she's not like the other girls out there I got a good one

ignorance is bliss

 

[MikelArteta]

my girl did that..still slept in a bed with her guy friend


like i said before im positive she didnt do anything sexual with him but she knew it was wrong and hid it



broke up yesterday but im hurting today i must admit brehs

She did something sexual, I know you don't want to think she didn't but she did.

Girls tell half truths, she already knows she let you down and disappointed put and betrayed your trust so to not hurt you more she won't admit more of the details.

Hurting is apart of it, by cuttin her of now in a month or so you will be fine, Any text, phone call, etc will set you back.

There is nothing worse for a man knowing he's been deceived and played.

Especially since you knew her faults yet still gave her chance, we've all been there.

 

[Still Benefited]

Oh man I fukked up last night.

I went out for drinks with a platonic female friend that I always wanted to smash but she had a BF but now shes recently single. I didn't really try anything and it was cool just having her as a friend cause she was hot. She kind of raised my stock value.

Anyways we were supposed to go out for coffee in the evening but we ended up getting drinks. We went to this spot with a patio and we had the whole patio to ourselves. It was mad fun.

A couple hours later we end up at this small indie bar/lounge that most of my friends go too. So we were there and it was live as hell. One thing led to another and we were making out.

I see one of my homeboys there who lives lives on top of the bar and we all started chilling. This girl was drunk but she was all over my homie right in front of me. I didnt really notice cause I was drunk too but my homie noticed and told me.

Anyways after that this chick started flirting with almost every dude in the place. I told her to chill and thats shes embrassing me and shes like your not my boyfriend I can do what I want even though I was making out with her 10 minutes earlier.

Anyways some dude with two of his friends started spitting game at her and I told her to tell em to go away. She was like noooo and I told her I was going to leave if she didnt. I ended up leaving and I go home. This morning she sends me like 50 text messages asking why I left.

Shes like Oh she just got out of a relationship and she likes to flirt and blah blah. I don't know why she thought she could do that right in front of me. It was so embarrassing and I dont think I even want to talk to this chick ever again even though we go way back. Anyways I think because I liked her as a friend I had more respect for her than she deserved. She was probably a hoe the whole time and I didn't realise it.


low key im still kinda glad I got some action. Been wanting to get with that since high school.

Man if u don't cut that out,these are the dangers of dealing with women that drink...I've seen and heard about sum of the most loyal and standup women doing sum horrible disgusting shyt when they drunk and you mad cuz she flirted with sum guys?

Its sad how many nikkas deal with women who drink and have no idea of how they woman interacts with other dudes when they drink....ya girl can honestly be a loyal and good girl but when sum drinks get in certain woman....a good girl can turn into a train real quick lol,and it really don't take much,sum females just shouldn't drink cuz they have no idea what it turns them into.....I always say bein drunk is the ONLY reason to forgive a woman for cheating if you desperate for a reason,anything else should fall on deaf ears......I ain't sayin u should try to date this girl,I'm just sayin everything she did with you and those other dudes you really shouldn't have took to heart......she probaly had drinks in her when y'all made out just like she had drinks flirting with thsoe other guys.....neither act wuz neccesarily real.


But bottomline be glad u got to see her drunk in action as a lesson dealin wit womenthat drink this is the risk you take....all the excuses she gave you wuz her defending herself becuz she probaly felt like a whore,rather u made her feel that or she felt that way after the fact I don't knowbut that's probaly why u got every dumb excuse in the book...no reason to not respect her as a person and be cool but certainly she ain't g/f material long as she livin that party life and likes to drink.

 

[ridge]

She did something sexual, I know you don't want to think she didn't but she did.

Girls tell half truths, she already knows she let you down and disappointed put and betrayed your trust so to not hurt you more she won't admit more of the details.

Hurting is apart of it, by cuttin her of now in a month or so you will be fine, Any text, phone call, etc will set you back.

There is nothing worse for a man knowing he's been deceived and played.

Especially since you knew her faults yet still gave her chance, we've all been there.

for what reason?


and nah im not getting back with her regardless, the lying is enough but i really dont think she did. oh well breh too late now anyway

 

[Ohene]

for what reason?


and nah im not getting back with her regardless, the lying is enough but i really dont think she did. oh well breh too late now anyway

Because to them they arent lying. Cmon breh women will always rationalize actions in a way to relieve themselves of guilt. You already know this breh.

"I only slept in his bed because i was tired and didnt want to fall asleep on the wheel. His sofa was real funky and I woulda slept head to toe but I was afraid his feet would be funky too "

Its not that difficult breh

 

[MikelArteta]

For herself, to convince herself she's not a cheater anymore that she's a good girl, so by not admitting she got smashed in her eyes your just overreacting nothing bappaned.

Chicks never want to look bad never, it's why even I'd they are the reason their past relationships ended. They will call all their exes a$$holes and horrible men.

I can see this chick right now fishing in her next sucker,
Oh me and my last boyfriend broke up because he was insecure and didn't trust me. But leavin out she was in some other dudes bed.

 

[jadillac]

She did something sexual, I know you don't want to think she didn't but she did.

Girls tell half truths, she already knows she let you down and disappointed put and betrayed your trust so to not hurt you more she won't admit more of the details.

Hurting is apart of it, by cuttin her of now in a month or so you will be fine, Any text, phone call, etc will set you back.

There is nothing worse for a man knowing he's been deceived and played.

Especially since you knew her faults yet still gave her chance, we've all been there.

This is why we shouldnt beat ourselves up too much.

We were only trying to be nice...then it comes to a point of what you should/should not accept.

More often than not, it'll come around to the chick that whoever the "other" dude is will ditch them or play them for sex....then she'll start thinking of all the nice things you did and all the nice things you said, etc.

Then you will be in control of things.


































THAT'S when you hit her with the when she tries to come back around.