Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[u mad son?]

Just fall back for a bit and block her number...

You know your relationship better than else on here...

Whatever you felt you did wrong, even if it seemed right,has to be taken into consideration...

But dont fall into that mental masturbation fam .... just maybe write a list and let it sit there and do your own thing .... if she comes back to you or wants to talk, talk it out with all the things you considered

Thats crazy though man .... shyt like this makes me shook to even enter another relationship

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

Yes. We both kinda agreed to go out twice a week. I pay most of the time.

I'm seeing a routine setting in. Routines are boring to women. How was the sex? Was she making all kinda involuntary noise and digging her nails in your back? Routine sex can get boring too and that's even worse than regular boring.

And what do you mean when you say "we both kinda agreed"? You mean she decided and you went along with. Keep it real, we're all trying to learn and grow here. See how she did you. Told you she wanted this, you did that, and it was your own undoing. Not saying this one thing specifically, but these things usually happen in patterns. But just going along with women's ideas in general... Don't do it. Even if they're right don't concede this because as ass backwards as you may think it seems, they see it as a weakness in you. No balls. No conviction. They don't think this. It's subconsciously. This is natural instinct. Natural selection. Evolution.

Can't give up that leadership/decision making position for even a second or it comes off as weakness. And again it's not even that they're actually thinking like that but there's hormones and pheromones in the atmosphere, breh. It's like a 6th sense we all have. Social media and reality TV have women thinking they want a man who caters to their every whim, but she will never respect him as a man and women ultimately need to be made to feel secure. Even the wild ones, they fiend to be tamed.

And instead of going on a date, then your place, you shoulda skipped straight to your place if that's what's you wanted to do. Insteada "agreeing" to some bullshyt routine date that you most likely are gonna pay for, tell her what you want to do. You make the decision. If she's down, cool, if not at least you got that $50 in your pocket. But you have a better chance being upfront about your own wants because you're showing assertiveness and that turns her on. She's your girl so she's already DTF so you just gotta set the mood and terms. Give off that masculine energy and she will take her natural submissive feminine place. But come off scared and thus unable to protect and her insubordination grows. "I don't wanna go out tonight. Come to my place we'll watch some Netflix and chill."

 

[TRUEST]

Ok yeah I feel you. Yeah the reason I texted that was because I read(I'm not the most experienced) that if you start setting days and specific times that you them a better chance to flake or reject you, and by allowing them to choose the day/time more convinent for her then she's more likely to say yes( paraphrasing). I do agree with you though the whole "I'll be there" was a mistake and not a good look.

its ok to be aggressive and unrelenting if you haven't met a chick yet. but after that first date though, u need to fall back. if she likes u, she will keep reaching out to you.

 

[360dagod]

But dont fall into that mental masturbation fam .... just maybe write a list and let it sit there and do your own thing .... if she comes back to you or wants to talk, talk it out with all the things you considered

Thats crazy though man .... shyt like this makes me shook to even enter another relationship

nah i was telling homeboy what to do..

I told him to keep it pushing

 

[DarkHorse23]

its ok to be aggressive and unrelenting if you haven't met a chick yet. but after that first date though, u need to fall back. if she likes u, she will keep reaching out to you.

Yeah I hear you. Hopefully the first date happens next week.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

Ok yeah I feel you. Yeah the reason I texted that was because I read(I'm not the most experienced) that if you start setting days and specific times that you them a better chance to flake or reject you, and by allowing them to choose the day/time more convinent for her then she's more likely to say yes( paraphrasing). I do agree with you though the whole "I'll be there" was a mistake and not a good look.

Yeah I feel you. I wouldn't hit a chick with specifics either unless she first agreed to go on a date then I would plan specifics. But I just mean let her know you're busy and have a life too. This makes you more attractive to her. And so will the assertiveness of seeing her on your terms, when you have the time, not the other way around. "I'll be at Starbucks around 2 if you wanna stop by and have a drink." Now you've eliminated pressure off her, making her feel at ease and you showed you have a life outside of her at the same time. You're going to Starbucks, regardless, doing you. If she wants to join in and be a part of that moment in your life, she's more than welcome. If not, you're not gonna be torn up about it, you're just gonna enjoy your latte, maybe even meet another candidate. If she keeps flaking then she's flaky anyway, now you know quickly when it's time to step.

 

[Action Mike]

Yes. We both kinda agreed to go out twice a week. I pay most of the time.

this shyt right here breh
she forced that twice a week didnt she

it aint even about the money, but if she feels she had no stake or investment in the relationship, its why she walked away so easily

she had no stake, i making assumptions but i think it you gave out more than what you were receiving

 

[Swamp-Thing]

She played you with that text. No contact.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah I feel you. I wouldn't hit a chick with specifics either unless she first agreed to go on a date then I would plan specifics. But I just mean let her know you're busy and have a life too. This makes you more attractive to her. And so will the assertiveness of seeing her on your terms, when you have the time, not the other way around. "I'll be at Starbucks around 2 if you wanna stop by and have a drink." Now you've eliminated pressure off her, making her feel at ease and you showed you have a life outside of her at the same time. You're going to Starbucks, regardless, doing you. If she wants to join in and be a part of that moment in your life, she's more than welcome. If not, you're not gonna be torn up about it, you're just gonna enjoy your latte, maybe even meet another candidate. If she keeps flaking then she's flaky anyway, now you know quickly when it's time to step.

thats the best way, that's why always plan what you want to do.

I'm into photography Im going to take photos at a park your more than welcome to join, if you get that 755pm text I can't make it then who cares your goign to enjoy photography anyways

 

[MikelArteta]

I still think worrying about this and that, did I say the right hting did I do the right thing is all meh. A woman will like you or not, and if she likes you everything fits. if she doesn't well good luck its easier trying to touch the pope.

If you didn't cheat, abuse her, flake or whatever and treated her respectfully then who cares? screw her if she aint feeling you

trust me I remember being rejected earlier this year and I couldn't fathom what I did or say and all this jargon, why didnt she like me, what did I do bla bla, then I met my girl and its easy as pie. Same exact person, same exact personality but she was feeling the boy

 

[Lo-Co]

My girl just broke up with me with a text . I'm already going through some shyt in this time of my life. This just put the nail in the coffin

getting dumped is the coldest feeling, but that pain lets you know your alive. its best to keep yourself occupied. hang out

with friends or go out on your own. sooner or later it subsides. and possibly someone better will walk by

 

[DarkHorse23]

I still think worrying about this and that, did I say the right hting did I do the right thing is all meh. A woman will like you or not, and if she likes you everything fits. if she doesn't well good luck its easier trying to touch the pope.

If you didn't cheat, abuse her, flake or whatever and treated her respectfully then who cares? screw her if she aint feeling you

trust me I remember being rejected earlier this year and I couldn't fathom what I did or say and all this jargon, why didnt she like me, what did I do bla bla, then I met my girl and its easy as pie. Same exact person, same exact personality but she was feeling the boy

If i'm texting a girl and everything is going good, and i call her "sexy" and she goes ghost then that means she wasn't ever interested in the first place. Right? And i need to just move on and not stress myself over it.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

There's this chick who Ice had my eyes on for years. Since I'm recently talked to her I hit her up on Facebook. We been talkin a lot the last two days and I got her feeling me. There's just one problem. She has a boyfriend in jail. Idk how long he gone for I don't wanna ask but I wanna keep fukking with her. Like I said I've wanted her for years and getting to know her she's really cool and down to earth.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

There's this chick who Ice had my eyes on for years. Since I'm recently talked to her I hit her up on Facebook. We been talkin a lot the last two days and I got her feeling me. There's just one problem. She has a boyfriend in jail. Idk how long he gone for I don't wanna ask but I wanna keep fukking with her. Like I said I've wanted her for years and getting to know her she's really cool and down to earth.

How long that nicca in jail? Na eff that...not worth it

 

[Rocket Scientist]

There's this chick who Ice had my eyes on for years. Since I'm recently talked to her I hit her up on Facebook. We been talkin a lot the last two days and I got her feeling me. There's just one problem. She has a boyfriend in jail. Idk how long he gone for I don't wanna ask but I wanna keep fukking with her. Like I said I've wanted her for years and getting to know her she's really cool and down to earth.

leave that alone.Not worth it,he might have some goon friends who might see y'all two together and word can get back.