Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

"Your plan step back and achieve indifference is a good one.**You can politely interact with women at work without needing them or requiring their approval.**Spend your time meditating, strengthening yourself psychologically, and developing other interests.

Learn to distinguish women based on character and not looks.**Notice that some women actually have better character then others.**Stay absolutely away from places that will have only bad women like bars and nightclubs.**If you can get to the state where you are not expecting the approval of a woman, then it is impossible for her to hurt you.**She can do or say**what she wants.**The hurt is in your head and with some practice can be controlled and even eliminated.**Also learn this lesson - if you are acting right, then if a person intentionally tries to hurt you (which includes being rude), it's because they are angry inside - thus it is their problem and not yours.**In summary - learn to discriminate based on character and avoid women with bad character like they are poison.**The same rule actually applies to men."

Also develop a wider awareness of how the world works.**I am old enough to know what women were like before feminism, so I know they are basically good in the right cultural environment.**You will find that women are herd animals and they are being manipulated by the wider culture that surrounds them.**They are doing what they are taught and the reality around them supports.**The hate ideology of feminism is now being taught in the schools and is always pervasive in the media.**Selfishness and materialism are the ideologies taught through the mainstream entertainment media.**I can honestly say that I have no hatred of women.**I know they are being manipulated and are caught in the matrix.**My righteous sword of anger is reserved for the evildoers.

 

[Not By Bread Alone]

She finds it a fun game to pursue you because you're cold. I bet it'll be cool for a little while, but as soon as she 'gets' you, it will revert to how it was before.

Yeah we spoke about this: how she's more interested in chasing a man than having a man. The thing is, she's so self-aware of how she acts, which I find rare.

damn, your situation worse than mine and youre still down to meet up with her

crazy breh

To be honest it's been playing on my mind the last two days to tell her to cancel the flight.

The more chances you give a chick the more chances she will hurt you more and the more the pain will hurt.

People rarely change, rarely. Unless they have kids some women and men change or religion. Minus those two people rarely change.

I've told her she's on a big test, and to be honest I feel I've been too harsh on her the last few times we spoke. I guess I'll believe it if/when I see her at the arrivals in the airport.

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[jadillac]

I agree on this.

Small lie starts ah I'm bored going out with Michelle.

Two months later, your at the mall with your chick and you see Michelle, and your girl runs up to her damn I haven't seen you since last year girl.

This girl I'm posting about in here, her bff name is Michelle.

But they really do hang out tho....probably too much.

 

[winb83]

The more chances you give a chick the more chances she will hurt you more and the more the pain will hurt.

People rarely change, rarely. Unless they have kids some women and men change or religion. Minus those two people rarely change.

when it comes to women there are no such things as chances she gets one and that's it. women do shyt deliberately so if she crossed a line it was intentional. if she's crossing lines she either thinks so little of you that she doesn't care about losing you or she thinks so little of you she thinks you'd accept any bs she pulled with you and still take her back so she sees you as a sucker.

from the very beginning a man's attitude has to be that its his life and if she's acting right she can come along for the ride and the moment she crosses the line she's out and either way it doesn't matter to that man.

the moment a man shows a high level of attachment to her or shows her he needs her and doesn't wanna live without her is the moment she knows she can act an ass on him. giving a woman another chance is like giving her permission to act up.

 

[jadillac]

What gets me is, some of these women are too damn old to be actin up. This chick i was messing with now is 30, black.

I'm a man, if I'm 30, I'm just entering my prime. Lookswise, mentally knowing who I am, physically in great shape, etc.

A woman however, at 30 is beginning to show visible signs of age, and alot of men would rather have a 24-25 year old woman than a 30 year old woman.

And (not to be rude but) a black woman at that, they should be thankful to find a man who treats them properly and nicely....that 70% stat, if true, is pretty staggering But they're too busy posting on facebook/twitter how god is gonna drop a perfect man out the sky for them and they can do/behave however they want in the meantime.

 

[MikelArteta]

Women think cuz they have 500 male friends on fb a bunch of likes on instagram and followes on twitter that they are special . In reality they are not, yes guys will sleep with you, but a functional relationship win a decent guy? Lol

 

[Nintendough]

There are only a few things in the world worse than a chick with a slick mouth. Its even more disgusting when grown men flock to hype them up.

 

[Mr.bocario]

There are only a few things in the world worse than a chick with a slick mouth. Its even more disgusting when grown men flock to hype them up.

^ Yo real talk my boy said he like these type of girls. The ones that act ratched and have slick mouths. I didn't tell em directly, but I thought to myself ''thats some low self-esteem shyt right there''

 

[MikelArteta]

"And yet when it comes to relationships, the only thing women initiate is DIVORCE. Initiating a start means taking a risk which they don't think is their place to do. Buuuut initiating a finish, especially when there's no risk and much reward, they have no problems doing."


When these women say "love", they mean "powerful romantic attraction", not real love, which is putting up with all the things you don't like about the other person and still having a positive attitude and doing good things for them, day by day.

Women in our culture think a strong romantic attraction is what love means, and they won't start a relationship without it. What they fail to realize is that men who are most skilled at giving women these feelings are the ones who are most likely to be players and womanizers.

 

[MikelArteta]

Some life experience ideas hammered out over @ dontmarry.com

Falling in love is suicide.


Think with the big head, not the little.**If one choses a woman because he likes her body - he will pay the price.

Vet's GF**rulez

Choose girls (emphasize on the word CHOOSE - as in YOU choose)

- from 2 parent families

- from strict backgrounds

-**whose family members (aunts, sisters) have low divorce rates

-**who don't hate any family members (girls who hate people are losers - hate is a bad quality and she'll end up hating you one day in divorce court)

-**someone who is into karma / what goes around comes around philosophy, spiritual, wants to do good

-**someone who understands (and make it real clear upfront) that 2 adults must put each other first before the children because A.**That makes the most successful relationships**B.**That makes the most successful offspring.

- who aren't big into sex

-**who never talk about "X" boyfriends

-**who are**9/10's as good looking as you (Even's her sexual power over you)

-**are from similar economic background (anything to low = bad upbringing, around losers, conflict, drugs, etc.

-**stay away from drinkers**/ drug users (common sense)

-**watch how they treat mum and dad - thats how they'll treat you in 5-10 years

When you wake up next to someone years down the road and they're old, washed up, and ugly, all you have left is their personality.**You suddenly realize her personality is something that will dominate the duration of the relationship - whether life long or not.

1.**Never apologize to a woman
2.**Always go with your gut when unsure what to do (never take her advice)
3.**Withhold sex regularly from her (to raise your status)

There is no mystery to a woman, get that out of your head.**They fart, shyt, stink, bytch, eat, menstruate, and have nothing going on upstairs other than what's in it for me.**Romance, Love, Passion, are mere chemical reactions that mean absolutely ZIPPO 5 years down the road.**Choose wisely, jerk off 3 times before each date with the new woman to focus on whats upstairs not downstairs.

p*ssy can be bought.**A compatible mind must be carefully Chosen.
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[Rocket Scientist]

Like I said women are like NFL running backs. The older they get,the more wear&tear (mentally-physically emotionally) im not saying all women over 30 are bad. You might get a gem who is still serviceable (Willis McGahee). Most men prefer the young one who can be a franchse player (Trent Richardson). Once they get between 25-30,they feel the need to ask for more,when in fact everything is going good for them (MJD contract demand) and some have baggage like kids or divorce (AD injury). This is why its best to dont go after the divas and train a practice squad player who can eventually grow (Arian Foster)

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

"In my generation from 1984-present, the nice guy was never cool. Well, actually he was. Only when he could be the emotional pillow or the temporary cuddle buddy. Nice guys are batteries for the women. When they are running low on motivation, esteem, or affection they will run to the nice guy. Once they get their charge, they are ready to go, they'll put back or throw away the nice guy and then go full steam ahead to the first thugged out, pretty boyish, drug dealing, drug doing, shytfaced, abusive, moronic male they can find. Then when they get beat up or put down, they come back to the nice guy for more charging. The key is to not be that battery. The key is to be off the shelf. Or raise the price. She better give you something in return, and I mean more than just a cuddle. She better offer to pay for lunch or offer the phallus hotel between her legs. This is economics. Men need to start raising the price for their services or don't be on the damn shelf at all. I'll be damned if I'll be some chick's rechargeable battery!"

Poetry

 

[jadillac]

You also gotta watch these women who claim to be religious and into church, etc. It makes you think she could possibly be the "one", and you start looking past obvious red flags b/c you dont wanna judge her b/c shes a "work in progress"....

This chick I've been referring to would talk about her going to church and would try to make me feel like I needed to go. I've forgotten more about the Bible than she knows and I consider it an insult for her to question my beliefs when I spent 10 years of my life dedicated to it when she was out doign who knows what. lol And nothing about her life I observed, over time, suggested that she lived what she claims to believe. At least when I was in it, I did it....I wasn't fake. Then on top of that, she REALLY, SUPER into horrorscopes and astrology.....which is "evil, witchcraft" by bibilical standards

But hey, "nobodys perfect", right?

 

[sixsixtwo]