I don't believe in marriage or serious relationships. Modern society has turned both into traps for men that surrender all control and power to women. Casual dating is as far as a man should go.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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The cdn census just came out
Marriage is the lowest it has ever been
"for the first time there are now more on person households than couple households with children"
Men are waking up!
Marriage is the lowest it has ever been
"for the first time there are now more on person households than couple households with children"
Men are waking up!
"Just had to relate this story for the guys contemplating marriage
A former school colleague (a 9 and a pastors daughter) began working at my workplace and we reminisced about the old days, she told me she was married to a high income beta for 12 years and had 2 children.
As she opened up she confided in me that during the whole period of her marriage she was sleeping with a former school colleague (a stripper and junky to boot), she even jovially showed me his text messages pleading with her that he'd kill himself if she didn't leave her husband.
As she opened up even more she showed me pictures of a fivesome orgy she had that involved a former porn star (I think it was Jenna Jameson) and her stripper friend.
Eventually she divorced her husband (he went to jail for threatening her) and was on the prowl again. She had to get a restraining order for the police officer that dealt with her case as he was infatuated with her and wouldn't leave her alone. Following this she bounced around between a couple of guys 10 years younger than her, even offered me a blow job.
Now I have a work colleague that is as close as you'd get to the perfect man, single, childless, very handsome, tall, confident, sociable, plays in a band and very wealthy (his father owns a regional airport), guys being guys I bagged my slutty friend and told him about her escapes.
Unbeknownst to me he was seeing the very same woman and undeterred he ended up marrying her.
Seriously I couldn't make this shyt up, wtf?"
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A former school colleague (a 9 and a pastors daughter) began working at my workplace and we reminisced about the old days, she told me she was married to a high income beta for 12 years and had 2 children.
As she opened up she confided in me that during the whole period of her marriage she was sleeping with a former school colleague (a stripper and junky to boot), she even jovially showed me his text messages pleading with her that he'd kill himself if she didn't leave her husband.
As she opened up even more she showed me pictures of a fivesome orgy she had that involved a former porn star (I think it was Jenna Jameson) and her stripper friend.
Eventually she divorced her husband (he went to jail for threatening her) and was on the prowl again. She had to get a restraining order for the police officer that dealt with her case as he was infatuated with her and wouldn't leave her alone. Following this she bounced around between a couple of guys 10 years younger than her, even offered me a blow job.
Now I have a work colleague that is as close as you'd get to the perfect man, single, childless, very handsome, tall, confident, sociable, plays in a band and very wealthy (his father owns a regional airport), guys being guys I bagged my slutty friend and told him about her escapes.
Unbeknownst to me he was seeing the very same woman and undeterred he ended up marrying her.
Seriously I couldn't make this shyt up, wtf?"
UMan - Blog - Unholy Alliance: The jig is up
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Can we get an alternative basketball/NBA metaphor for dealing with these woman to B?
And always make a girl feel like she has more room to improve. Probably been said before but this girl can be Lebron James. Youthful, droppin 30 a game, getting every one on the team to score baskets, defending, rebounding, you name it. But what is Lebron missing? A ring and a hairline.
Make that bytch work for her ring too. shyt for some of these hoes you may even have to make note of the insecurities and have her push that headband back. Set the high standard. Kobe already has his ring but when he loses you already know the haters and trolls are there to make it seem as if any L is a failure. What does that do? Makes him even hungrier. Any girl feels such behaviour is too demanding is simply a twerk and not meant to be with long term. This is what separates the T-Macs from the Kobes. Never be complacent and make her feel as if she already has you head over heels because once that happens its all downhill from there. It's a game and the harder you make it the better. How many nikkas play a video game like God of War and beat it so simply that it just collects dust and you dont even bother playing part two. Games like GTA have you begging for the next chapter though. Even when you come across the most bullshyt missions you feel so compelled to beat them cause you cant wait to see whats next.
shyt when I beat the Miami Heat in NBA 2K11 on Hall of Fame difficulty and I was like
had me anxious to see if I could finally beat the Lakers next.
True, but one always has to remember that the party is over for women long before it is for us men; the kind of social power that women have when they are younger evaporates rather quickly given a little bit of time -- and this phenomena tends to leave them in a serious predicament as they get older.
Not only do they wind up being sexually marginalized, but they often end up having a number of very bad financial habits that they developed over the course of a couple of decades of sponging off of men -- and these habits have a way of rising up and biting them in the ass when they reach 35-40 or so.
And, this time, there is no white knight to save them from their own troubles.
If you are a a younger guy [which it sounds like], I don't blame you one bit for being upset that the game is so rigged in women's favor when y'all are still in your teens/twenties; on the other hand, as a somewhat older guy (36), I can testify that the balance of the game changes dramatically as you get older.
Just wait; I imagine that you'll find the shifting of the scales as humorous as the rest of us mature guys do; seriously, it's just hilarious watching women get more and more desperate as they hit 30/40.
As a guy, you will suffer from very little in the way of the time-pressure women are under; as we all know, a successful guy who has kept himself up has little to no difficulty with women even into his 50s and 60s -- and this cannot be said for women, eh?
By the time these skanks are middle-aged, pasty-faced blobs of lard, you will wind up having even more in the way of dating options that you do now; you can take the confirmed-bachelor route and (for instance) simply tool around some place like the Phillipines in a boat while checking out the local young women or, alternatively, settle down with some nice, young woman at the time of your choosing.
Women, on the other hand, have neither of these options -- and they older they get, the more that they realize this fact.
I suppose that's why so many aging women get bytchier and bytcher the more that Father Time takes his toll; nobody likes it when a good party is over, and that is precisely the bitter pill that Time forces women to swallow as their clocks wind down.
So, take heart my friend; as long as you can avoid doing something stupid like marrying a western woman, you are in for one hell of a laugh as time goes by.
Not only do they wind up being sexually marginalized, but they often end up having a number of very bad financial habits that they developed over the course of a couple of decades of sponging off of men -- and these habits have a way of rising up and biting them in the ass when they reach 35-40 or so.
And, this time, there is no white knight to save them from their own troubles.
If you are a a younger guy [which it sounds like], I don't blame you one bit for being upset that the game is so rigged in women's favor when y'all are still in your teens/twenties; on the other hand, as a somewhat older guy (36), I can testify that the balance of the game changes dramatically as you get older.
Just wait; I imagine that you'll find the shifting of the scales as humorous as the rest of us mature guys do; seriously, it's just hilarious watching women get more and more desperate as they hit 30/40.
As a guy, you will suffer from very little in the way of the time-pressure women are under; as we all know, a successful guy who has kept himself up has little to no difficulty with women even into his 50s and 60s -- and this cannot be said for women, eh?
By the time these skanks are middle-aged, pasty-faced blobs of lard, you will wind up having even more in the way of dating options that you do now; you can take the confirmed-bachelor route and (for instance) simply tool around some place like the Phillipines in a boat while checking out the local young women or, alternatively, settle down with some nice, young woman at the time of your choosing.
Women, on the other hand, have neither of these options -- and they older they get, the more that they realize this fact.
I suppose that's why so many aging women get bytchier and bytcher the more that Father Time takes his toll; nobody likes it when a good party is over, and that is precisely the bitter pill that Time forces women to swallow as their clocks wind down.
So, take heart my friend; as long as you can avoid doing something stupid like marrying a western woman, you are in for one hell of a laugh as time goes by.
The trick with the wider-net method of finding accomodating**women is to:
1) Never, ever deal with just one woman at a time; women can sense when a guy has concentrated all his attentions on them, and that is almost always when the headgaming starts.
[Why do you think that so many women are so avidly trying to nail down a relationship in the first place, eh? The bottom-line answer is because they know that this will allow them to start behaving badly; they've finally gotten you isolated, and now they can afford to whip out their grab-bag of neurotic behavior].
If, on the other hand, a chick is completely aware that a guy is interested in other women at the same time that he is chatting her up, it acts as a positively huge deterrent to the headgames she might otherwise contemplate; she'll know with virtual certainty that any bullshyt in her part will result in a Wile E. Coyote -shaped smoke ring on the part of the guy in question, so it cuts down on the amount of headgamey crap she's likely to pull.
2) Don't take it personally if a woman rejects you/isn't interested. This is a hard one, true, but as I've often told my male friends over the years, there is simply no accounting for taste.
Over the years I've personally had so many experiences with having even the plain-Janes of the world utterly shutting me down, and then the very next day women that are smoking hot being extremely interested, that I've concluded that there is often no rhyme or reason for a woman to be interested/not -- and hence no reason to take rejection (or, on the flip side, even acceptance) personally.
Looking at the above phenomena from a more personal standpoint, I've come to conclude that even I myself have behaved in a similar manner to chicks like the above; there have been many, many times when attactive women have hit me up quite directly, and I was just not interested -- and then, the very next day, a plain-Jane would hit me up and I'd be all about it.
People are fickle, to say the least, and when it comes to sexuality this goes double.
3) Remember that when one is intending to sleep around, the absolute hardest woman to deal with is the first one in the group of available women you are trying to collect; once you have at least one woman that is willing to sleep with you, all the others become (comparatively speaking) a walk in the park.
Women can tell if a guy is getting any or not, and if she senses that you have other options, the bullshyt she'll dish out diminishes rapidly, and for the same reasons as detailed in point #1, above.
Furthermore, it's just a fact of female nature that they are attracted to what other women find attactive; if a chick knows that other women are competing for your sexual attention, she is much, much more likely to want to sleep with you in the first place.
Weird, yes, but absolutely true.
4) As far as a woman flaking on you, let them. If a chick is going to be so ridiculous as to tip her hand at this point in the game -- where your investment is/should be absolutely minimal -- then that is a good thing, eh?
In the getting-laid game, you should put up with absolutely NO bullshyt; the very moment that a chick starts to get weird on you, run -- do not walk -- away.
If a chick (for instance) starts chatting up another guy on her cell-phone during her dinner-date with you -- leave the freaking resturaunt, eh? Just get up and go. Jump in your car and go hang out with your buddies and/or a less flaky chick.
This is, I admit, a rather ruthless way of looking at things, but that is just the way that the dating market works these days; harsh, yes, but true.
On the other hand, trust me when I say that (for example) the very first time you are driving along and the chick in the car starts to flake on you with neurotic weirdness, when you pull the car over, look her directly in the face, and tell her to get out...her expression will be priceless.
The trick here is to (basically) have some pride, and to remember that any chick that starts to flake on you (e.g.,**treat you badly) before the relationship has even gotten off the ground, deserves nothing**more than a simple "no, thank you, I'm not buying any bullshyt today. Buh-bye, have a nice day".
1) Never, ever deal with just one woman at a time; women can sense when a guy has concentrated all his attentions on them, and that is almost always when the headgaming starts.
[Why do you think that so many women are so avidly trying to nail down a relationship in the first place, eh? The bottom-line answer is because they know that this will allow them to start behaving badly; they've finally gotten you isolated, and now they can afford to whip out their grab-bag of neurotic behavior].
If, on the other hand, a chick is completely aware that a guy is interested in other women at the same time that he is chatting her up, it acts as a positively huge deterrent to the headgames she might otherwise contemplate; she'll know with virtual certainty that any bullshyt in her part will result in a Wile E. Coyote -shaped smoke ring on the part of the guy in question, so it cuts down on the amount of headgamey crap she's likely to pull.
2) Don't take it personally if a woman rejects you/isn't interested. This is a hard one, true, but as I've often told my male friends over the years, there is simply no accounting for taste.
Over the years I've personally had so many experiences with having even the plain-Janes of the world utterly shutting me down, and then the very next day women that are smoking hot being extremely interested, that I've concluded that there is often no rhyme or reason for a woman to be interested/not -- and hence no reason to take rejection (or, on the flip side, even acceptance) personally.
Looking at the above phenomena from a more personal standpoint, I've come to conclude that even I myself have behaved in a similar manner to chicks like the above; there have been many, many times when attactive women have hit me up quite directly, and I was just not interested -- and then, the very next day, a plain-Jane would hit me up and I'd be all about it.
People are fickle, to say the least, and when it comes to sexuality this goes double.
3) Remember that when one is intending to sleep around, the absolute hardest woman to deal with is the first one in the group of available women you are trying to collect; once you have at least one woman that is willing to sleep with you, all the others become (comparatively speaking) a walk in the park.
Women can tell if a guy is getting any or not, and if she senses that you have other options, the bullshyt she'll dish out diminishes rapidly, and for the same reasons as detailed in point #1, above.
Furthermore, it's just a fact of female nature that they are attracted to what other women find attactive; if a chick knows that other women are competing for your sexual attention, she is much, much more likely to want to sleep with you in the first place.
Weird, yes, but absolutely true.
4) As far as a woman flaking on you, let them. If a chick is going to be so ridiculous as to tip her hand at this point in the game -- where your investment is/should be absolutely minimal -- then that is a good thing, eh?
In the getting-laid game, you should put up with absolutely NO bullshyt; the very moment that a chick starts to get weird on you, run -- do not walk -- away.
If a chick (for instance) starts chatting up another guy on her cell-phone during her dinner-date with you -- leave the freaking resturaunt, eh? Just get up and go. Jump in your car and go hang out with your buddies and/or a less flaky chick.
This is, I admit, a rather ruthless way of looking at things, but that is just the way that the dating market works these days; harsh, yes, but true.
On the other hand, trust me when I say that (for example) the very first time you are driving along and the chick in the car starts to flake on you with neurotic weirdness, when you pull the car over, look her directly in the face, and tell her to get out...her expression will be priceless.
The trick here is to (basically) have some pride, and to remember that any chick that starts to flake on you (e.g.,**treat you badly) before the relationship has even gotten off the ground, deserves nothing**more than a simple "no, thank you, I'm not buying any bullshyt today. Buh-bye, have a nice day".
^^^ Damn, sounds just like this last chick.
I'm not even sad about not being with her and I dont miss her ....I'm just sad/mad
that it made me look bad in the end b/c it probably leaves her thinking she has the upperhand
I'm not even sad about not being with her and I dont miss her ....I'm just sad/mad
that it made me look bad in the end b/c it probably leaves her thinking she has the upperhand
son, what's furthermore is that they think that all these dudes are available...
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you should take that a step further and say never take any shyt from a woman.
if i woman ever gives you any shyt, flaking, complaining, whining, entitlement, demands, ultimatums just let her know she can either deal with it or get out of your life and either way it doesn't matter.
i feel like all the bad relationships i ever got into began when i started letting the women give me shyt in the early goings and i accepted it. had i had a zero bullshyt policy back then things would have probably gone totally different.
Most women are so nice in the beginning though that you think you wont need to use these "take no crap" tactics. They know to be on their complete best behavior
It usually isnt until it's too late(you start getting some feelings for them) that you recognize.
Truth.com. They will not pull that shyt until they know that they have you.