Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

Real Talk...

The more kinds of women you guys interact with, the better your "scope"will be..

Even if its platonic,make the best of it...From the ratchets to the "nice"women...Women with/without kids

When it comes to women and reviewing them, its like watching film as a quarterback

The more you see,the better it is when other women come along from the same foundations as the previous one...

Even when the blitz{bullshyt}is in disguise, she will tip you off as what you need to do to counter it

 

[NeilCartwright]

Real Talk...

The more kinds of women you guys interact with, the better your "scope"will be..

Even if its platonic,make the best of it...From the ratchets to the "nice"women...Women with/without kids

When it comes to women and reviewing them, its like watching film as a quarterback

The more you see,the better it is when other women come along from the same foundations as the previous one...

Even when the blitz{bullshyt}is in disguise, she will tip you off as what you need to do to counter it

I feel you...There's red flags i recognize now and i just dip, or at least know not to let the relationship get serious



Im 21, and mansion is a club down here.

 

[u mad son?]

so i been talking to this chick the last few days, she seems mad cool, beautiful and easy to have a joke with. tried going for the aggressive approach and calling her asap and trynna set up a date ... but she was like "nah im not ur type" ... in fact i think i made a post about this earlier, the reason she was saying this was because I said my type was social media hoes. then i asked her for a second time and she said she thought i was a player (massive shyt test, best way to answer this is to either ignore and switch conversation or just switch the pressure on her). I left the convo and didnt text her until the night after. few days went on and texting was cool but kept to minimum, when you can minimally text a girl but everytime u do you have fun, you know ur onto something, the other girls i was texting at the time was giving me bullshyt one word answers, "lol" type shyts that u just have to smile and laugh at.

anyways i decided to ask her again over text this time, she replies "nah im definately not worth knowing, youll regret it after etc etc" .... at this point i just dropped the jokes and said "look im not for games or wasting time, you wanna see me or not, u seem cool and i wanna get to know you? if not its cool". her whole demeanor changed after that on some "i wasnt playing games haha, ok we can meet etc etc" ,,, infact i even got her to be an alarm for me the next morning, coming from a chick who never initiated shyt... woke up earlier than her and dropped more game. now she willing to travel an hour on the train to come see me.

this just a reminder for you guys out there that when a chick starts dropping these real weird responses, dont overthink and try squirm your way out, just call her out and tell her how it is. the old me would have been on some "ah nah i bet youre really worth knowing, you seem like a real cool girl that has good qualities etc etc etc". this is basics and i know this but just re-iterating what everyone in here is saying, dont get pulled into their weirdo games that have ur brain scrambling

This chick brehs ..... she something else

I happened to be around her area this day to fit some subwoofers in the whip (planned it this way incase she flaked i didnt make a wasted journey) ..... she came to the train station right by where I was which was like a 40 min journey, we went and grabbed some food ... shyt was decent we clicked real nice and the conversation flowed. She goes in to say she needed to go the bathroom ... she comes out and says "you wanna go grab that coffee now?" ... I get up and about to walk away from the table and i stopped and said "oh shyt, we aint even paid yet, hold up" ..... she told me she went in and paid for the whole bill brehs

Coffee shop was closed so we just chilled by the river enjoying the vibes ... we was bout to head off and she said she was gonna grab the train ... was only right that I dropped her off home, seeing as its on the way home ... still had to convince her though. this chick is mad thoughtful ... I aint ever experienced something like this before

 

[Reginald Noble]

Went out today and saw no black men with black women

Its over brehs. The black community is going to be engulfed by the biracial community in 10-15 years tops.

And we can blame black women solely for giving men little to nothing to pick from.

You in Cali?

This chick brehs ..... she something else

I happened to be around her area this day to fit some subwoofers in the whip (planned it this way incase she flaked i didnt make a wasted journey) ..... she came to the train station right by where I was which was like a 40 min journey, we went and grabbed some food ... shyt was decent we clicked real nice and the conversation flowed. She goes in to say she needed to go the bathroom ... she comes out and says "you wanna go grab that coffee now?" ... I get up and about to walk away from the table and i stopped and said "oh shyt, we aint even paid yet, hold up" ..... she told me she went in and paid for the whole bill brehs

Coffee shop was closed so we just chilled by the river enjoying the vibes ... we was bout to head off and she said she was gonna grab the train ... was only right that I dropped her off home, seeing as its on the way home ... still had to convince her though. this chick is mad thoughtful ... I aint ever experienced something like this before

Sounds good be on the lookout for red flags though. Seems like she's been burned in the past or has been lonely a long time which will do shyt to a Woman....(Or Man)

 

[u mad son?]

You in Cali?



Sounds good be on the lookout for red flags though. Seems like she's been burned in the past or has been lonely a long time which will do shyt to a Woman....(Or Man)

I hear that, infact thats the first thing i started pondering. She tells me shes never actually been in a relationship before, she was reluctant to tell me this incase i thought she was a square. She went to London School of Economics which is like a top 3 university and the one dude she loved, didnt like her like that, so that tells me she kinda naive and new in the whole dating game, she also didnt seem to test me at all in terms of bullshyt games. She tells me she never even has dates, I can believe her but at the same time im thinking where did she learn to pull that slick shyt with the bill. Time will tell, will meet up a few more times and guage if she really is that genuine or not.

 

[TRUEST]

What are signs you dealing with a quality female?

I already dont check for females at clubs...Dont deal with women with weave, fake eyelashes, ratchet accessories, etc.

I write on the school newspaper and usually deal with women on that area of campus

you know you're dealing with a quality female if:

she has very few guy friends. and knows not to talk to her EXes without you having to tell her.
she knows how to cook and if she doesn't, she's very willing to learn whatever you like so u can be happy
she is not a club rat. she only likes going to parties/clubs/bars for special occasions and when she does, her man is usually with her.
she can help you save and doesnt engage in activities that'll drain your pockets
she never talks to you in a disrespectful tone in public.
when you're out with her, she may mix and mingle with others but she'll want to spend most of her time by your side
when you're out in public, she rarely makes eye contact with other men. if she does, it wont be enough for u to notice or be bothered by it. she's classy!
when you take her out to eat, she offers to pay and if u say no, she insists on at least leaving the tip -- > a girl that does this, boy, u better hold on to that.

 

[Momentum]

You in Cali?

Carolina, which is what makes it so surprising.

 

[Reginald Noble]

Carolina, which is what makes it so surprising.

Oh it's on then....

Game over for us.

 

[Atlrocafella]

This chick brehs ..... she something else

I happened to be around her area this day to fit some subwoofers in the whip (planned it this way incase she flaked i didnt make a wasted journey) ..... she came to the train station right by where I was which was like a 40 min journey, we went and grabbed some food ... shyt was decent we clicked real nice and the conversation flowed. She goes in to say she needed to go the bathroom ... she comes out and says "you wanna go grab that coffee now?" ... I get up and about to walk away from the table and i stopped and said "oh shyt, we aint even paid yet, hold up" ..... she told me she went in and paid for the whole bill brehs

Coffee shop was closed so we just chilled by the river enjoying the vibes ... we was bout to head off and she said she was gonna grab the train ... was only right that I dropped her off home, seeing as its on the way home ... still had to convince her though. this chick is mad thoughtful ... I aint ever experienced something like this before

She paid the bill? That's some unicorn shyt for real. Keep this one going breh

 

[TRUEST]

She paid the bill? That's some unicorn shyt for real. Keep this one going breh

every girl i've dated who insisted on paying the bill, i can tell you i have nothing but fond memories of them. it warms my heart when a girl does that.

 

[MikelArteta]

you know you're dealing with a quality female if:

she has very few guy friends. and knows not to talk to her EXes without you having to tell her.
she knows how to cook and if she doesn't, she's very willing to learn whatever you like so u can be happy
she is not a club rat. she only likes going to parties/clubs/bars for special occasions and when she does, her man is usually with her.
she can help you save and doesnt engage in activities that'll drain your pockets
she never talks to you in a disrespectful tone in public.
when you're out with her, she may mix and mingle with others but she'll want to spend most of her time by your side
when you're out in public, she rarely makes eye contact with other men. if she does, it wont be enough for u to notice or be bothered by it. she's classy!
when you take her out to eat, she offers to pay and if u say no, she insists on at least leaving the tip -- > a girl that does this, boy, u better hold on to that.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Brehs is it me or does it seem like with SOME women that they tend to act right when you hurt they're feelings?

 

[jeh]

Brehs is it me or does it seem like with SOME women that they tend to act right when you hurt they're feelings?

Awe, the ol treat a lady like a bytch, and a bytch like a lady tactic. It has its uses.
Bottom line, a grown mature man don't need to bother with a woman like that breh breh.

Games, tricks, so on so forth

Camby smiley

 

[Turk]

It's crazy how much a few words can ether your soul

A chick I was just messing with told me to stop talking to her...for no reason at all

I really liked her too

fukk...now I'm in my feelings now



I don't got the heart or the time to keep going through this with women

 

[TRUEST]

It's crazy how much a few words can ether your soul

A chick I was just messing with told me to stop talking to her...for no reason at all

I really liked her too

fukk...now I'm in my feelings now



I don't got the heart or the time to keep going through this with women

u must have been calling her hard or texting too much, or both