Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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CrossBones
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2.2k+ thread on handling these hoes... shyt just pisses me off you don't see no thread on pulling or keeping guys these entitled females...
/rantover
nah they dont need one. they have one in the other subforum I think, but its all a joke. in real life its basically this ... "string him along with the p*ssy as much as you want, or as much you can. the end"
I know you like this girl, and I can see that youre trying to pull her into fukking and being her friend with benefits, but she really isnt at a stable place in her life mentally. this could get so messy for you. I recommend you stay cool with her and dont fukk her at this time. show some restraint and LISTEN when she tells you that shes in a bad place. and if you look at how shes iffy and back and forth with her actions, then that is also her telling you shes really not ready.
if she ever gets ready then Im sure youll be someone she hollers at. but you, for you sake and hers, I would say let her have some space. I would not fukk her. shes really scatterbrained like breh said and it looks like shes isnt all there.
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They don't, just have a puzzy and there set. One guy doesn't accept their ish another one will
2.2k+ thread on handling these hoes... shyt just pisses me off you don't see no thread on pulling or keeping guys these entitled females...
/rantover
Just remember a woman will be with you or not, money, status, dikk game, height, how much you love her means nothing.
Seriously for your own sanity move on, this girl is clearly playing games. Probably the type to get mad at the guy she really likes and call her backup (you) to bandage her ego/feelings. You are better than this, find someone who'll obviously be into you.Man can my coli brehs help me.
Girl is conFUSING
been curving this girl for the longest cus she said she was in love wit her man and i dont wanna play second fiddle
but she'd always hmu at a random times + when i see her just talk like i didnt curve her hard (i told her peace out)
Well past saturday i went to a small kickback party thing. she was there plus we had liquor
ion know if it was the liquor (we only drunk a cup) or if it was the mood but we were all on each other, not really making out but almost partition video stuff
after it was over we kissed
Bruh,
Im so confused.
So I ask her if she still go with her bf to confirm she says "no but i talk to somebody tho"
so im like "ok but you made out with me friday" i didnt text her tht tho
I texted
"But you don’t go with nobody tho
So like, why don’t you wanna talk to me, or chill with me? I know u like me. Im saying like we could have fun together don’t u think?"
read it and never replied
or she did but bcus she be turning her data on n off it prob went as a txt and i dont get txts
prob the first reason tho
Once you finally get that stride as a man and know your worth...dealing with the females is easy. You nikkas with the manuals on picking up women and the repeated attempts at chasing a single one. Have a backbone and know the shyt you won't put up with. Don't be afraid to say no and call their bluff. Follow your gut and stop chasing when you know it's futile....trust your instinct when she feels trifling.
If you have to engage her with the convo and questions all the time...fukk it. Even the shy ones can reciprocate the interest and pick your brain for a change.
Maybe I'm brazen from years of bullshyt...
Dating this one for almost 2 months now and she's lovely...I don't want to fall in love and be vulnerable though.
Excellent advice especially the bolded.
Bingo and this is what I look for in a guy is he a planner/handler. If his personality isn't boss like then it's a no go. Show me you can lead and I'll do my part as a woman and follow/support you.Oh no doubt. The getting the car fixed part was fine but overall just way too much texting. And way too much leaving shyt up to her. I wouldn't ask a chick if she wants to do this or what does she want to do. Come up with a plan and tell her the plan. Women are natural followers. You lay it out to them like that and they follow like zombies. You start including her in the making of the plans you'll never get anywhere because that's just not what women do.
I can't really read the text message it's too small. But from I could make out sounds like she's still grieving over the dad and boyfriend leaving. Or she could be playing the sympathy card. How'd he meet her, online ikr or old acquaintances?
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Maybe he'll come back and explain how he met her, not sure. I mean I get everything in her life is hectic right now BUT if I recall right, when he asked was she still with her boyfriend she said "No but I talk to somebody though" which means she's not messed up enough to be messing around/sleeping with the other guy right?
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Do you feel like this is a reason so many women follow men that clearly aren't good for them off a cliff? Kinda like how a man will follow a woman off a cliff because the "promise" of sex or love and there body?
A woman knows if a man is selling dreams or not some choose to stay or leave. The ones who will follow a man not compatible for them is because of filling in gaps of info instead of asking the right questions. Part of him being a good leader is showing that he can be a protector and provider, none of that "I want to do this or that etc" stuff it's more action oriented.
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
I really hate this backburner shyt that some women do. If you're gonna give me my L, let me gracefully take it and be about my way. But folks just have to keep a finger on something they don't want, just to know they have it. Some selfish shyt right here.
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I Got Game
All these games we're (m & w) have to play with each other...and folk wanna get married, too...u playing games til deaf?
"Imma sleep over Steve house, tonite, can't have her thinking she and the kids "got" me."
No shots at my brehs...i get it (hate the game , not the player). But, I feel better not being in the game.
#singlessquad
You looking at it wrong, breh. There's no games (plural) it's just THE game. Kobe and LeBron play a game too, don't mean it's for kids.
But in reality, it's not about creating an illusion. You really SHOULD have shyt going on in your life. Your time really SHOULD be valuable. You really SHOULD have options. What woman would wanna be with a man who sits at home on the couch all day? Think about it.
It's only "games" if you're not sincere. And that will only lead to disaster anyway. Can't front like a socialite when you're really a hermit because at some point that will all come to light.
Can't co-sign this, breh. You let chicks pick spots and drive too?
Never relinquish that power position and give her control of a situation. Be a man. Have some balls. She will respect you for it. Guaranteed.
So what happened at the party? Did you fukk?
I got a rule: don't fukk with broke chicks. Has nothing to do with money. She seems like she got some deep emotional shyt going on that you may not wanna be involved with long term. She sounds way too dependent. Obviously there's the daddy thing. Sounds like she used her ex as a crutch. No one should be depending on anyone else for happiness. That's a clear sign of instability.
If you decide to move forward (and I would caution against that given her apparent state, but I don't know her or the situation), I'd stick to short answers to dissuade this kinda talk. You trying to fukk or be this chick's therapist? That's with any chick. Don't allow her to make you into a texting buddy. If you keep texting long paragraphs then that's exactly what you will become in her eyes. Anytime she's feeling down she's gonna text you. Don't be that guy. Keep your answers short and direct. And kinda be a dikk. Chicks love that.