Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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2.2k+ thread on handling these hoes... shyt just pisses me off you don't see no thread on pulling or keeping guys these entitled females... :stopitslime:


/rantover
 

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2.2k+ thread on handling these hoes... shyt just pisses me off you don't see no thread on pulling or keeping guys these entitled females... :stopitslime:


/rantover


nah they dont need one. they have one in the other subforum I think, but its all a joke. in real life its basically this ... "string him along with the p*ssy as much as you want, or as much you can. the end"


So this how last night went down
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just copy n paste it and remove the space between the period and imgur. I did that for a reason.

I know you like this girl, and I can see that youre trying to pull her into fukking and being her friend with benefits, but she really isnt at a stable place in her life mentally. this could get so messy for you. I recommend you stay cool with her and dont fukk her at this time. show some restraint and LISTEN when she tells you that shes in a bad place. and if you look at how shes iffy and back and forth with her actions, then that is also her telling you shes really not ready.


if she ever gets ready then Im sure youll be someone she hollers at. but you, for you sake and hers, I would say let her have some space. I would not fukk her. shes really scatterbrained like breh said and it looks like shes isnt all there.
 
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Man can my coli brehs help me.

Girl is conFUSING :snoop:

been curving this girl for the longest cus she said she was in love wit her man and i dont wanna play second fiddle
but she'd always hmu at a random times + when i see her just talk like i didnt curve her hard (i told her peace out)
Well past saturday i went to a small kickback party thing. she was there plus we had liquor
ion know if it was the liquor (we only drunk a cup) or if it was the mood but we were all on each other, not really making out but almost partition video stuff
after it was over we kissed

Bruh,

Im so confused.

So I ask her if she still go with her bf to confirm she says "no but i talk to somebody tho"
so im like "ok but you made out with me friday" i didnt text her tht tho

I texted

"But you don’t go with nobody tho

So like, why don’t you wanna talk to me, or chill with me? I know u like me. Im saying like we could have fun together don’t u think?"


read it and never replied

or she did but bcus she be turning her data on n off it prob went as a txt and i dont get txts
prob the first reason tho
Seriously for your own sanity move on, this girl is clearly playing games. Probably the type to get mad at the guy she really likes and call her backup (you) to bandage her ego/feelings. You are better than this, find someone who'll obviously be into you.
 

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Once you finally get that stride as a man and know your worth...dealing with the females is easy. You nikkas with the manuals on picking up women and the repeated attempts at chasing a single one. Have a backbone and know the shyt you won't put up with. Don't be afraid to say no and call their bluff. Follow your gut and stop chasing when you know it's futile....trust your instinct when she feels trifling.

If you have to engage her with the convo and questions all the time...fukk it. Even the shy ones can reciprocate the interest and pick your brain for a change.


Maybe I'm brazen from years of bullshyt...:dame:

Dating this one for almost 2 months now and she's lovely...I don't want to fall in love and be vulnerable though. :mjcry:

Excellent advice especially the bolded.
 

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Oh no doubt. The getting the car fixed part was fine but overall just way too much texting. And way too much leaving shyt up to her. I wouldn't ask a chick if she wants to do this or what does she want to do. Come up with a plan and tell her the plan. Women are natural followers. You lay it out to them like that and they follow like zombies. You start including her in the making of the plans you'll never get anywhere because that's just not what women do. :yeshrug:
Bingo and this is what I look for in a guy is he a planner/handler. If his personality isn't boss like then it's a no go. Show me you can lead and I'll do my part as a woman and follow/support you.
 

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Oh ok, do you think she's flat out trying to curve him, or is she trying to keep him on the backburner for later?
I can't really read the text message it's too small. But from I could make out sounds like she's still grieving over the dad and boyfriend leaving. Or she could be playing the sympathy card. How'd he meet her, online ikr or old acquaintances?
 

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I can't really read the text message it's too small. But from I could make out sounds like she's still grieving over the dad and boyfriend leaving. Or she could be playing the sympathy card. How'd he meet her, online ikr or old acquaintances?

Maybe he'll come back and explain how he met her, not sure. I mean I get everything in her life is hectic right now BUT if I recall right, when he asked was she still with her boyfriend she said "No but I talk to somebody though" which means she's not messed up enough to be messing around/sleeping with the other guy right?
 
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Bingo and this is what I look for in a guy is he a planner/handler. If his personality isn't boss like then it's a no go. Show me you can lead and I'll do my part as a woman and follow/support you.

Do you feel like this is a reason so many women follow men that clearly aren't good for them off a cliff? Kinda like how a man will follow a woman off a cliff because the "promise" of sex or love and there body?
 

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Do you feel like this is a reason so many women follow men that clearly aren't good for them off a cliff? Kinda like how a man will follow a woman off a cliff because the "promise" of sex or love and there body?
A woman knows if a man is selling dreams or not some choose to stay or leave. The ones who will follow a man not compatible for them is because of filling in gaps of info instead of asking the right questions. Part of him being a good leader is showing that he can be a protector and provider, none of that "I want to do this or that etc" stuff it's more action oriented.
 
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