Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Youseenmywork]

Sharing knowledge ..... I agree fully with what's below though sometimes I don't follow

Now, here's what happens when you DO cold approach:

• The 93% of women (or whatever it is) who aren't interested in you lose a minute or two politely turning you down, and get both a bit of annoyance ("Do I REALLY have to tell this guy I'm not interested?") and a bit of a self-esteem boost ("I am SO in demand")
  
  
• The 7% of women who think you're clever and amazing and attractive are THRILLED because they've met you and they like you and it's wonderful
  
  
• YOU get great interactions with women, get dates, get laid, get girlfriends, hone your social skills, develop a social intuition that makes you better able to avoid the women who aren't interested and home in on the women who are, and turn yourself into the kind of really attractive man that most women only rarely get to meet and interact with

Starting next year I'm going to be lying 5 bricks a day for 8 weeks straight and come back to this thread and bury the ashes her. Women are suppose to be apart Of a man's life. I'll explain more later.

 

[TRUEST]

it becomes a dignity thing at this point.

when your in his position, he gotta at least act like he's got other women..

simply ask for a date to meet up...

she dosent give an answer of liking...fukk it

yeah, which is why i told him what he needs to do IF SHE hits him up.. listen, when a girl doesn't give u her time, which she knows u want badly, the worst thing u can do is act butthurt. and saying "sup", or being short with her because she didn't wanna date u when u wanted shows pure butthurtedness.

its ok to be hurt. but to show it is a "NO NO". when girls cancel on u, or say no to u, they expect u to feel a certain way. when u dont feel that way (or show that you feel that way), that's when you alter the trajectory of the perception they have of you. with women, you goto control ur emotions man and watch what u say so it doesn't reveal how you truly feel.

again, no where did i say he should hit her up. but chances are, she WILL hit him up. and when she does, he needs to handle it with dignity and not respond to any sh1t she says that isnt in line with what he wants.

 

[MollyGalaga]

homeboy has already screwed up too many times with all that unnecessary texting. the only thing he can do now to redeem himself is if whenever SHE hits him up, he goes:

her: her stranger
him: hey u! good to hear from u. how are u?
her: im great. u?
him: me too. havent seen u in a while. i miss u. when are u free to get together
her: (any response she gives here that isn't a definite time should NOT be responded to)

Talk about reward. if her response to a meetup is not to the liking of the guy, ur punishment is the removal of your attention.

eventually, or very soon, she'll learn to attribute her foolishness to your lack of response. and she'll get in line on her own. but i havent read too much of what ol boy been posting. seems to me she aint feeling him like that and he needs to fall the fucck back.

Lol nah i guarantee you i didnt mess up with her, cause if you go back some pages i posted the skivvy wit me and this chick

 

[MollyGalaga]

Don't you see? You just discovered the secret to women.

When you stop sweatin em they can't stop sweatin you.

You're living proof of this so why would you go back to texting paragraphs to any chick?

You said it yourself, breh. I've said it a thousand times. Indifference is the key with women.

Don't fall into them bullshyt ass "hey" texts. She's seeking your attention. Tell her your time is valuable by not responding for at least an hour. And then hit her with an equally valueless "sup" or something. You start texting your life story she's just gonna think "oh yeah, I still got this one" and just ignore you. Yall boys be in here posting this stuff then continue to do it over and over?

Do you want arthritis in your thumbs and no response from a chick, or to be care free and have her jockeying for your attention? I don't understand yall, brehs.

Wait i texted paragraphs?
Or you consider those texts i seng paragraphs?
And lol i do understand u breh ion know why i just like chasing after girls sometimes.
And its funny you posted this cause this girl i applied the secret to is FIENDING for my attention, and to take her out.

 

[MollyGalaga]

Imma need to visit this thread more often. I know the secrets, the things to do and not to do but i keep letting myself fall into the same hole.

 

[Fatboi1]

Something I noticed is why do some women seem so interested in you one minute and then completely stop talking to you?? Like the last few girls I spoke to online did this and it kind of puzzled me. To preface this, these are just some women I was basically chatting with without any seriousness as I just wanted to make some female contacts for when I go to Japan.

Anyway the first one was receptive and gave me her LINE contact info and we texted a little bit back and forth for like two days. Then I hit her up like a few days later and we chatted. Then like a few days later I hit her up and I asked her what she's doing and she tells me she's in Korea. I respond "Cool when did you go!?" She reads the message and never replies. This was over a month ago.

Second Japanese chick same thing. She sends a "Hi" notification to me on this website and I initiate a text with her and we chat a little. I get her LINE info and we start talking a little bit through LINE. She compliments me on my hair and say it looks good and then she starts just talking about casual stuff like "How is it in NY?" "I LOVE Stevie Wonder!!" "I want dreadlocks one day.." She asks for a picture of me and says it looks nice. She then sends me a picture of her and a picture of her and her friends. After a few more back and forth, she tells me she gotta go because her sister is calling her and that's that. A couple days later I text her and she texts back promptly and we chat a little bit and then she tells me she gotta get back to work and that she'll talk to me again later. This was like over a week ago. I haven't heard from her since. Now I just and let it be.

Now this third chick same thing we chat a little bit, she gives me her contact info on LINE and I send her a message and she reads it and doesn't respond. I then tell her it's "This is ____ from ____." She reads that and doesn't respond. Mind you our rapport was very short and I don't even know what she looks like she it was just an online chat. I don't really care but I found it kind of odd.

? Now of course this isn't with every Japanese chick as the first chicks I was talking to, one of em I visited and smashed and we still talked for a couple months but things went south. The other one I still talk to sometimes and I got her Gram but other than that I don't hit her up like that.

Just an observation. I wonder why some of them do that..

 

[klientel]

Man....I think I fukked up.

Me and my girl broke up and got back together a billion times, its nothing. But this time I think was it. She has been saying she doesn't feel important for months and I did nothing. Then I got offered a trip to Vegas for a conference next week and its her fukking bday on Tuesday, I forgot.

When I told her work was sending me to Vegas I had this dumb ass smile on my face and she just cried. It took me literally all day to realize what happened. She told me to go to Vegas and never come back, she can't do this anymore. She's can't continue to feel like this.

That was the last thing she said to me and that was 2 days ago. She hasn't responded to me since, I can't figure out what to say right now. I've been with this girl for years and we never went more than a few hours without saying SOMETHING to each other. And now I sitting here with this nikka in my ear making me feel 10x worse......

 

[TRUEST]

Man....I think I fukked up.

Me and my girl broke up and got back together a billion times, its nothing. But this time I think was it. She has been saying she doesn't feel important for months and I did nothing. Then I got offered a trip to Vegas for a conference next week and its her fukking bday on Tuesday, I forgot.

When I told her work was sending me to Vegas I had this dumb ass smile on my face and she just cried. It took me literally all day to realize what happened. She told me to go to Vegas and never come back, she can't do this anymore. She's can't continue to feel like this.

That was the last thing she said to me and that was 2 days ago. She hasn't responded to me since, I can't figure out what to say right now. I've been with this girl for years and we never went more than a few hours without saying SOMETHING to each other. And now I sitting here with this nikka in my ear making me feel 10x worse......

if you can forget your own girl's birthday, you goto question if u really really like her like that

 

[Reginald Noble]

Something I noticed is why do some women seem so interested in you one minute and then completely stop talking to you??

Stop that online shyt. Women and online don't mix very well period. I don't do long distance relationships, now if we are together for 10 years and will be a part just one year that's one thing. But this day in age there really is no reason that has to happen anyways.

My friend is like you and has been to the Philippines at least once a year. He has had false alarm baby momma drama and everything. That online FB shyt has fukked it up. I tell him stop making friends with Filipinas online because half of them know each other at least find a new girl in an entirely new fukking city or state period. He keeps associating with Women who somehow only have 1 or 2 degrees of separation from his ex. He went to Hong Kong with her and some dumb Indian dude was also in the mix.

Put it this way, if you are not on the scene touched down in the country = You don't exist, and neither should they. Focus on local hoes to occupy your time they have plenty of exchange students you can game in the U.S. fukk them good enough and maybe they will pay for your plane ticket back to their homeland.

Man....I think I fukked up.

Me and my girl broke up and got back together a billion times, its nothing.

It's not nothing man. fukk it dude, you broke up a million times. Why do you still want to be with this girl?

Forgetting her B-day is just the icing on the cake. What the fukk else has been going on for you to be breaking up so much and why did you never just call it quits before then?

 

[Reginald Noble]

True, people Women are fickle.

Fixed.

 

[klientel]

It's not nothing man. fukk it dude, you broke up a million times. Why do you still want to be with this girl?

Forgetting her B-day is just the icing on the cake. What the fukk else has been going on for you to be breaking up so much and why did you never just call it quits before then?

It was never serious shyt it's just her being a dramatic overreacting chick. She get mad, claim she cant do it anymore and then a couple days later we fine.

And I really dunno how I forgot I just lost track of time and thought this was still the first week of October. I just fukked up on that one....

But I think the fact that we stay together is because this is the only serious relationship either of us ever had. We don't know anything different. We met in college during the first 5 minutes of freshman orientation like 7 years ago. I messed around sometimes on some sneaky shyt and had lil side chicks when I was younger, but never anything real.

 

[Atlrocafella]

For some reason, I just haven't been with or met a chick that I want around me 24/7. This chick I'm dealing with is frustrated that she can't come see me whenever she wants too. I told her I like when she's around, but sometimes I just want to be in my own spot by myself. Probably why I don't see myself living with a chick, which probably means I would have a hard time being married , or maybe I just haven't met that great chick that I wouldn't mind having up under me all the time

 

[Action Mike]

For some reason, I just haven't been with or met a chick that I want around me 24/7. This chick I'm dealing with is frustrated that she can't come see me whenever she wants too. I told her I like when she's around, but sometimes I just want to be in my own spot by myself. Probably why I don't see myself living with a chick, which probably means I would have a hard time being married , or maybe I just haven't met that great chick that I wouldn't mind having up under me all the time

This was me forever until recently.

Still got my wits about me, but this girl mane...shes , i want to see her all the time.

I need to check the red flags before im in too deep

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

For some reason, I just haven't been with or met a chick that I want around me 24/7. This chick I'm dealing with is frustrated that she can't come see me whenever she wants too. I told her I like when she's around, but sometimes I just want to be in my own spot by myself. Probably why I don't see myself living with a chick, which probably means I would have a hard time being married , or maybe I just haven't met that great chick that I wouldn't mind having up under me all the time

This is me right now..my girl gets livid when I say I just want some alone time. I just like chilling in my own place and enjoying my own things.

I don't know if its her or that I don't like someone under me 24/7, but I know I would be miserable living with her right now. She recently started nagging me for counting the time we hang out together....


And it's not like I don't like her..we have a great time when we hang out, I just need a break sometimes

 

[Gus Money]

It's mandatory for me that whoever I date from now on has to also like having her alone time, or at least be understanding of the fact that I need mine.

I'm done dealing with women who get upset about spending time apart. It's smothering and I know there's women out there who appreciate their alone time too.