Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm too stoic. I just won't get attached to anyone. I just feel too many of these women are the same, physically and personality wise. Its like groundhog day with women. I just feel like some are too simple.
 
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I'm too stoic. I just won't get attached to anyone. I just feel too many of these women are the same, physically and personality wise. Its like groundhog day with women. I just feel like some are too simple.


....Yeah I'm learning now how to be stoic it can be difficult when your a caring guy...
 

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Well if your out here dating/talking to women a lot, they all blend...but when you get one that stands out :gladbron:
 

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....Yeah I'm learning now how to be stoic it can be difficult when your a caring guy...
I used to get hurt a lot cause I went out my way to help everyone. I was like Mc hammer in a sense. Helped everyone yet when dark shyt came no one was there.
So I feel I have to make an effort to care less. Because this world is a fukked up place.
 
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I used to get hurt a lot cause I went out my way to help everyone. I was like Mc hammer in a sense. Helped everyone yet when dark shyt came no one was there.
So I feel I have to make an effort to care less. Because this world is a fukked up place.


...Yeah I'm getting there. My attitude towards women as of late has been 2 tears in a buckle. I think it's at stage in redpill as well but that's a diffrent convo for a diffrent day.
 

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simple; stop basing your worth on the women youre gettin'/not getting.

The best relationships are based on common ground. Find a hobbies and develop it. Of course it needs to be one that involves being social, brother.

Idk breh, I feel behind the ball with women in general at my age and as I get older the harder it becomes. I mean 1 date in my entire life and the sad part was that she lost my number after. The hobbies I have are things don't require you to be social and are things that you can do by yourself.

You'll be alright fam. The right girl will come across when you least expect it. Focus on your education/job/health/spirituality. Seriously you aren't missing anything in the dating world. You see married men with kids who are mad depressed. Also get a best friend that has some game.

Don't really care for getting married or having kids because I don't want them. I don't have any friends so that's out
 

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Don't really care for getting married or having kids because I don't want them. I don't have any friends so that's out

You're 26 breh lol. You have the rest of your life to live. Your ideas of what you want at 26 are going to change completely in 10 years.

And work on creating friendships with people. It's important. We're social beings. You say that's out but put some effort into it.
 

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Idk breh, I feel behind the ball with women in general at my age and as I get older the harder it becomes. I mean 1 date in my entire life and the sad part was that she lost my number after. The hobbies I have are things don't require you to be social and are things that you can do by yourself.



Don't really care for getting married or having kids because I don't want them. I don't have any friends so that's out

dude, there's someone out there for everyone. stop thinking so negatively about yourself. if u think ur situation is bad, it can be worse. be thankful for ur current state in life. im in no way trying to minimize the struggles u may be going through, but there are others out there who have it worse than u. some stutter, are way shorter than you, have bad skin, socially awkward, physically deformed.... man the list goes on.

just focus on presenting the best image of urself. i.e. wear fitted clothes, smell nice, and take ur time when you speak to people of the opposite sex. learn to calm down. while many women get got by physical attraction, there are many others who u can get by just how to speak, how u carry urself and the words that come out ur mouth. if u dont have the physical, focus on other areas of life that i just mentioned.
 
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Idk breh, I feel behind the ball with women in general at my age and as I get older the harder it becomes. I mean 1 date in my entire life and the sad part was that she lost my number after. The hobbies I have are things don't require you to be social and are things that you can do by yourself.
I forget the exact, but; Comparison is herion to the brain. Don't feed into that "behind the ball" stuff, brother.

There's no roadmap to life.

I'm sure there's brothers out there with mountains of women, who feel cold inside :to:
 
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