Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ineedsleep212]

Even being involved with a girl, I can't help but keep thinking about self improvement. Thought I wouldn't but I'm glad that in my mind, I've completely detached any connection between having a woman and happiness. A part of me at times has felt like I'm either thinking too much about something that was said or done and then I check myself to have less of an attachment, especially if it's felt as though I may be putting in more effort (in the thought sense much more than action sense) than I should. AKA If I feel like I'm giving a fukk more than she is, then I should give much much less of a fukk.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[Sharp]

One of the problems we face as men, but as people in general is justifying immediate gratification.

It takes discipline to do what is right, over what makes you happy or give you pleasure.

When you learn how to do the right thing repetitively and consistently, it will bring you happiness.

How this relates to women is as follows.

The desire to simp is all based on immediate gratification. You want something from a woman, so you will simp (which goes against ethical standards of a man) to get it. Simping may bring you immediate gratification, but it is the wrong thing to do, and you will regret ever compromising yourself for something so temporary such as sex or getting a girl to like you for the moment.

Just because it makes you happy or brings you pleasure doesn't mean you should do it. Because you are perhaps used to doing what brings you pleasure this may be agonizing, but doing what's right will benefit you in the long run.

Girl cheats on you- Break up with her. I know it might be hard because you are voluntarily cutting off your go to pu$$y, but it is the right thing to do and you will benefit in the long run.

Girl is always asking you for favors and never does anything for your benefit- stop doing things for her. I know it might be hard because you pride yourself on being a nice guy but you shouldn't reinforce bad behaviors

The first step is to understand what behaviors you have when it comes to women that are detrimental to you achieving the respect that you deserve.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm just at the point where I'm enjoying life and not concerning myself much with 'having' a woman. There's just too much you have to deal with for such little reward when dealing with a lot of these women. Past the looks and about a month of decent behavior, then you are left with lies, nagging, stress, disloyalty and a whole other host of possible behavior. The problem these days is that women come in with all of these 'tests', aka lowest common denominator in behavior patterns to see how much they can get away with. Now realistically, why would I want to be tethered to that. Would you invest your money in a bank that psychologically tests you and if you fail their little tests, they start stealing your money? Or how about you being a loyal customer only to have your loyalty rewarded by the bank giving your money to an irresponsible customer? That's just the tip of the iceberg of what you're dealing with.

The key to me is to not even worry about it and just continue enjoying life to the fullest and if you're blessed to find one of those decent women amongst the horde, then cherish it... but if not, still enjoy every day. Life is too short to make your happiness dependent on another.

the sad thing in this day and a age, there are a very few women out there with the attributes that a man would consider wifeable.

 

[beezy]

I feel like this thread has turned my life around tbh.. i found it while i was goin thru some shyt with the wifey, read it for hours, and realized that been i slippin fam.. i realized i got comfortable and just started lettin her get away with TOO much. had to lay down the law and take back whatever control i lost in my home. im not beat for petty arguments or feeding into dumb immature games no more. if she dont like the new me, she can bounce, cuz im not the one missin out. thank you gawds of this thread

 

[winb83]

One of the problems we face as men, but as people in general is justifying immediate gratification.

It takes discipline to do what is right, over what makes you happy or give you pleasure.

When you learn how to do the right thing repetitively and consistently, it will bring you happiness.

How this relates to women is as follows.

The desire to simp is all based on immediate gratification. You want something from a woman, so you will simp (which goes against ethical standards of a man) to get it. Simping may bring you immediate gratification, but it is the wrong thing to do, and you will regret ever compromising yourself for something so temporary such as sex or getting a girl to like you for the moment.

Just because it makes you happy or brings you pleasure doesn't mean you should do it. Because you are perhaps used to doing what brings you pleasure this may be agonizing, but doing what's right will benefit you in the long run.

Girl cheats on you- Break up with her. I know it might be hard because you are voluntarily cutting off your go to pu$$y, but it is the right thing to do and you will benefit in the long run.

Girl is always asking you for favors and never does anything for your benefit- stop doing things for her. I know it might be hard because you pride yourself on being a nice guy but you shouldn't reinforce bad behaviors

The first step is to understand what behaviors you have when it comes to women that are detrimental to you achieving the respect that you deserve.

i never thought of simping as instant gratification. to me Simping is like starting out in New York and driving to California to ultimately go to Florida when you could have just went straight to Florida in the first place.

the shortest path to the p*ssy is the direct path but that's also the "least safe path" if you will. simping is the indirect path but seems more safe.

truth is if you simp most women will at least deal with you and as i found out many will after a while passes fukk you as a measure of control to keep the simp around and keep him happy. if you take the direct path you'll probably get shot down far more but when you end up getting what you want you don't have to pay for it.

over a period of time continuously taking the direct path a man can build up a stable of chicks and get regular ass in a rotation while the simp focuses on one woman and may or may not fukk her but pays a high price and has limited to no options.

 

[Sharp]

i never thought of simping as instant gratification. to me Simping is like starting out in New York and driving to California to ultimately go to Florida when you could have just went straight to Florida in the first place.

the shortest path to the p*ssy is the direct path but that's also the "least safe path" if you will. simping is the indirect path but seems more safe.

truth is if you simp most women will at least deal with you and as i found out many will after a while passes fukk you as a measure of control to keep the simp around and keep him happy. if you take the direct path you'll probably get shot down far more but when you end up getting what you want you don't have to pay for it.

over a period of time continuously taking the direct path a man can build up a stable of chicks and get regular ass in a rotation while the simp focuses on one woman and may or may not fukk her but pays a high price and has limited to no options.

True.

The reason I consider simping immediate gratification is because it allows to obtain a short term goal which is getting a girl to like you or getting a girl to have sex with you.

However simping never leads you to your long term goal which is being respected and genuinely loved for who you are in while in a relationship.

All men want to be love and respected by their woman. Simping does not help you accomplish this.

When we meet women, our immediate goals are to bag her, sleep with her, and for some guys cuff her. Simping can quickly help you accomplish this. Be on her beckoning call, buy her whatever she wants, be available for her emotionally, physically and whatever other way she needs you, neglecting your own needs, and she will probably be open. But once a woman realizes that you will do anything and everything she wants you to do in order to be with her, she will not respect you.

And then for some women, they won't genuinely love you or like you, but they will love what you can offer them or do for them. You never want to be in a relationship where your status is decided on what you do for them.

I can't think of one person I know that simped their way into a relationship who is currently happy in their relationships. They are always on pins and needles because they gave up their leverage the moment they simped and let her control the relationship. When you simp, you give the woman control of your manhood.

For some they have to experience this a couple of times to realize that it isn't worth it in the long run.

 

[Atlrocafella]

True.

The reason I consider simping immediate gratification is because it allows to obtain a short term goal which is getting a girl to like you or getting a girl to have sex with you.

However simping never leads you to your long term goal which is being respected and genuinely loved for who you are in while in a relationship.

All men want to be love and respected by their woman. Simping does not help you accomplish this.

When we meet women, our immediate goals are to bag her, sleep with her, and for some guys cuff her. Simping can quickly help you accomplish this. Be on her beckoning call, buy her whatever she wants, be available for her emotionally, physically and whatever other way she needs you, neglecting your own needs, and she will probably be open. But once a woman realizes that you will do anything and everything she wants you to do in order to be with her, she will not respect you.

And then for some women, they won't genuinely love you or like you, but they will love what you can offer them or do for them. You never want to be in a relationship where your status is decided on what you do for them.

I can't think of one person I know that simped their way into a relationship who is currently happy in their relationships. They are always on pins and needles because they gave up their leverage the moment they simped and let her control the relationship. When you simp, you give the woman control of your manhood.

For some they have to experience this a couple of times to realize that it isn't worth it in the long run.

If the brehs would start thinking more long-term and with the heads on top of their neck and not the head below the naval, we wouldn't have these problems.

"If you know your worth, why entertain less than what you deserve?"..

I had a broke babymama of 2 straight up and tell me she wanted me to come over and hit.. Why even bother with that, end up hitting, possibly getting her pregnant, and have a lifetime full of wondering why the fukk you even did that.

We just got to be smarter in our approach and be cold to cut off these nonsense ass women, the same way they would do us.

 

[Non Sequitur]

I'm just at the point where I'm enjoying life and not concerning myself much with 'having' a woman. There's just too much you have to deal with for such little reward when dealing with a lot of these women. Past the looks and about a month of decent behavior, then you are left with lies, nagging, stress, disloyalty and a whole other host of possible behavior. The problem these days is that women come in with all of these 'tests', aka lowest common denominator in behavior patterns to see how much they can get away with. Now realistically, why would I want to be tethered to that. Would you invest your money in a bank that psychologically tests you and if you fail their little tests, they start stealing your money? Or how about you being a loyal customer only to have your loyalty rewarded by the bank giving your money to an irresponsible customer? That's just the tip of the iceberg of what you're dealing with.

The key to me is to not even worry about it and just continue enjoying life to the fullest and if you're blessed to find one of those decent women amongst the horde, then cherish it... but if not, still enjoy every day. Life is too short to make your happiness dependent on another.

Have you thought about joining the clergy?

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

Oh, it's gonna get extra cold for some of these chicks

Especially when they realize they

 

[MikelArteta]

If the brehs would start thinking more long-term and with the heads on top of their neck and not the head below the naval, we wouldn't have these problems.

"If you know your worth, why entertain less than what you deserve?"..

I had a broke babymama of 2 straight up and tell me she wanted me to come over and hit.. Why even bother with that, end up hitting, possibly getting her pregnant, and have a lifetime full of wondering why the fukk you even did that.

We just got to be smarter in our approach and be cold to cut off these nonsense ass women, the same way they would do us.

Most men are slaves to puzzy


For every fat obese 3 kids by 4 guys there is like ten simps

 

[Atlrocafella]

Most men are slaves to puzzy


For every fat obese 3 kids by 4 guys there is like ten simps

oh Trust me I know, I see them all the time out and about with the face, wondering how they got put in this position.

 

[MikelArteta]

Many men want to believe in the system, that somewhere out there is the fairy tale romance and that if they only do the right thing, they can opt into it, happy ever after.

Many men have bought into the feminism, and belief that if you**just treat womyn as human beings, they will reward you with all the goodies.

Many men believe that what they see on "Girl's Gone Wild" that there is a co-ed orgy going on, somewhere, on a college campus or Palm Springs, or ... wherever. And all hey need do is apply some formula and they too will be invited. (Elsewhere I discussed a friend, in his 50s, who still buys into this belief and is chasing college co-eds, to be shot down 100% of the time -- but he refuses to give up his illusion because he has committed too much to it.)

The illusion is created in part by the media barrage in this wasteland; in part by the natural desire for female companionship and sex, and part by a stubborn refusal to believe that one's worldview is all f*ck*d


How to break people free of this femiMatrix?

Rational argument does not seem to work. Most people have too many emotional and perceptual commitments to their delusions to want to take the Red Pill. Some thoughts:

Some men awake because someone has told them the truth and they accept it (a small minority).

Some men awake after they have been screwed over by a female.

Some men awake after years of banging their head against the system.

Some men awake after long years of close contact with female exposes womyn's foibles to them.

!

 

[Wild self]

that day as a man when you wake up and no matter how hot, how big the azz, how big titties, how good anything is knowing that you are not afraid to lose her is

Use her to attract other bad chicks. When I get with a chick, I automatically assume that its not going to last, unless she really is in good behavior and selfless.

 

[winb83]

Some men awake after they have been screwed over by a female.

this is what happened to me. i went out there believing that if you did right you'd get treated right.

truth be told there's so many people out here with messed up lives that have no business having themselves out on the dating market but are putting themselves out there anyway. that's not even the worst part. the worst part is they know they're lives are fukked up and instead of working on fixing themselves they're trying to hide it and at the same time trying to find someone else to fix them.

these women come at you with the perspective that they fukked up but they shouldn't have to deal with their own mess. you should save them from the mess they made. they use damsel in distress tactics and guilt trips to try to get you to step in and save them from themselves.

a lot of these women don't necessarily want to be saved either. instead they want you to be their enabler. you step into their life and try to make a positive change and they take that effort and redirect it into the same dumb shyt they were doing before.

from the male female dating perspective i know how Mitt Romney felt when he was on that secret tape talking about freeloaders thinking they're victims and that they're entitled to someone else's resources and not looking to take responsibility for themselves. a lot of women have that sort of attitude.