Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turk]

I have this strong attraction to aggressive women or chicks with slight attitudes

I'm not talking all-the-time angry chicks

But one's who will get in your face in a heartbeat

 

[MikelArteta]

Met a new chick whose is fine. I think I mentioned her awhile back. I can't peg her tho. She's nice to me but I'm not used to a chick who doesn't overtly show their interest in some way. I mean she's communicative and down to hang and obviously matched me on the date site so she's definitely attracted but I don't feel that passion. Plus, she NEVER initiates contact first. That shyt is low key irking me.

I talked to my former fling (who is also bad af) about it and she was like, "Well I was the same way. Don't drop her just yet." It's true. I had to put in work with this girl and it went from me always initiating texts to her blowing me up and wanting to FaceTime all the time.

It must be something about these cute lightskinned chicks. It's like they expect to do nothing up front. Hmmm...

Anyway, I need to do something to figure out if this girl is interested for real or not. I wanna say something straight up like, "Yo I like you. I want to date you." like @Emperor_ReinScarf alluded to but I don't want that to be seen as a lack of confidence. Nor do I want to give up any advantage I have right now. I'm also leaning towards doing some kino. I want to try an intimate move and see how she reacts. Believe it or not, I've scored vagina from hard to read girls just by trying them. It's not my style but

I can't believe I'm 32 and still running into women who throw me off like this. shyt is like running into a legendary Pokemon after I've defeated all the gyms and beasted my way to the top.

II just went in, if a woman liked you, you will know, if not then you won't be wasting any time

 

[MAGNETO.]

I have this strong attraction to aggressive women or chicks with slight attitudes

I'm not talking all-the-time angry chicks

But one's who will get in your face in a heartbeat

same here

If they stand up for something they believe in when questioned, I respect that.

 

[MAGNETO.]

Self esteem. Confidence. You gotta stop viewing women as a prize and instead view yourself as the prize. They should be getting attached to you, not the other way around. Build yourself up. Develop your character. Indulge in hobbies. Enjoy being you so much that women truly become an afterthought. That's when all these chicks you desire come flocking, when you stop giving them attention for free. And then you won't care if they leave because, A) You'll still have you and all the things that make you happy and B) You'll have a slew of women interested in you so you're less likely to be stunting a single one.

Great mindset to have and one that I've had for a while.
Only 20 years old but I feel empowered.

 

[NerdNash]

Girl has me chasing her for punishment. I get it now. It's for what I did to her over all the years. She came back but she only had one foot in.

Don't like it but I get it and I lowkey respect it.

What i have to do is just keep my frame and don't show weakness. Can't be all soft ... hitting her up all the time and jumping as soon as she hits me. Sad that's the game I have to play and honestly I wouldn't even do it if I didn't love her.

But Im ride with this for a little while and feel her out.

 

[kevm3]

Something I've found? The more you can get it out of your mind to cater to women or 'what they want' in any regard, the better. You can do any and everything and they just get bored and cheat or leave. Molding your life around what you can do or say to procure this or that woman is a waste of time. Stop hyper analyzing these women and walking on eggshells to get them. Either she chooses to spend time with you or she doesn't. Worrying about the correct time to call, the correct strategy to use, etc. is a waste of time. These women simply don't bring value to the table to be meticulously gameplanning for and the same woman you are making elaborate battle plans for is being easily procured by a guy who isn't even thinking about or is even concerned about her one iota.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

I have this strong attraction to aggressive women or chicks with slight attitudes

I'm not talking all-the-time angry chicks

But one's who will get in your face in a heartbeat

Real nikka shyt. I know exactly what you're talking about.

 

[iBrowse]

Last night at the Walgreens..the cashier choosin but she's lowkey so no:

Her: "How are you tonight? "
Me: "Fine, thank you
Her: "Are you in the police force?"
Me: "No why :dahellhuh:"
Her: "Because you're so built "
Me: "Oh, thanks "
Her: "Well have a goodnight "

Hope I don't have issues shopping there moving forward.

 

[Fatboi1]

I been feeling apathetic towards dating and women lately . I haven't been really talking to any women. Just work and go home.
I just don't even feel like getting into the motions.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup

Which is why I yell xudes tk step up right away and make your intentions known.

I started talking to my girl on :okcupid on Thurs that very day I asked to meet her and on Saturday I met her.

If a woman wants to go out with you she'll say yes if not shrugs.

And yep it doesn't matter what you do, it doesn't matter if you spend a million dollars or one dollar.

It doesn't matter if you save her life she either feels it for you or not and its out of your control.

Hell my gf is taller than me, richer than me, has a MBA, her own place, her own car yet shes with me .

Ain't changing nothing about me.

Something I've found? The more you can get it out of your mind to cater to women or 'what they want' in any regard, the better. You can do any and everything and they just get bored and cheat or leave. Molding your life around what you can do or say to procure this or that woman is a waste of time. Stop hyper analyzing these women and walking on eggshells to get them. Either she chooses to spend time with you or she doesn't. Worrying about the correct time to call, the correct strategy to use, etc. is a waste of time. These women simply don't bring value to the table to be meticulously gameplanning for and the same woman you are making elaborate battle plans for is being easily procured by a guy who isn't even thinking about or is even concerned about her one iota.

 

[reserved_one]

Man....having that attitude towards women has did me wonders over the years. I remember a time when I use to be that simp who got emotional when chicks wouldn't answer my calls/texts on time or write letters to them expressing my love. All the years of getting ethered, played and dealing with heartbreak has turned me into a beast in the dating game. I don't have the energy to put all my time & focus on these chicks. Sometimes, I'll even forget to text a girl or not have a care to. Thats the space, I'm kinda in right now even though I am currently talking to someone. But she's more engaged than I am.

I'm just like


The nice/polite side of me is still there, but now theres a perfect balance. I got it down to a science. I realized theres a time to be polite/respectful and theres a time to be HOH. For example, lets say you was supposed to send her a pic but you was taking your time to watching a game. She calls, you answer

Her - "Hello"
You - "Yeah, what?
Her - "Why haven't u send me that picture yet?"
You - "Ima send it to you in a min, I'm trying to see the end of this game"
Her - "Well, you need to hurry the fukk up."
You - "Well...you better fukking wait. Keep this up and I won't send you shyt"
Her - "You said what"?
You - "You heard me...don't rush me again".


Her - " Oh...I'm sorry daddy. I just wanna look at you"

You -


This just happened by the way...But yeah I was just thinking to myself how much I changed when it comes to interacting, talking with women. Every now & then, I'll fukk up and do some simp shyt but I'll snap back into reality quick.

 

[kaiOogway]

beautiful hot and single? i should have seen the signs from the get go this bytch is a straight up pyscho

 

[jjj123]

I think i have a problem, i dont care to say anything to women.

This female i fukk regularly i come by fukk her and dip, its been a yr or so and she dont know shyt about me. I keep it on a oh hows ur day going tip and thats it. I got her through action and few words...

Im introverted unless i know you, and even then i dont enjoi talking much, im a listener. But im social in general greetings/smile common crap. If i know everyone i am with i am an extrovert 100%. I have no problem conversing with fellow males but i dont enjoi conversing with females much.

I used to avoid females to the point id get hella attention after awhile, then i became aa straight savage where i dont care to talk its r we fukkin or not. I use body language to demonstrate what i want. But i feel like my mouthpiece game is -10 while my physical/kino/sexual seduction game is +10. So in essence i gain nothing. What am i to do? I dont have anything to say usually, nor do i care to hear what these females say on some general bullshyt? I know these hoes want me to talk to them, but im just not up to it? Am i low testosterone cuz im not taking shots? I hate talking to females unless its about sex, i dont have the patience to bullshyt.

My spirit is starting to hurt from this conundrum im facing...

 

[Easy-E]

Yup

Which is why I yell xudes tk step up right away and make your intentions known.

I started talking to my girl on :okcupid on Thurs that very day I asked to meet her and on Saturday I met her.

If a woman wants to go out with you she'll say yes if not shrugs.

And yep it doesn't matter what you do, it doesn't matter if you spend a million dollars or one dollar.

It doesn't matter if you save her life she either feels it for you or not and its out of your control.

Hell my gf is taller than me, richer than me, has a MBA, her own place, her own car yet shes with me .

Ain't changing nothing about me.

Ya'll two official tissue yet b?

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup almost 3 monthd

Ya'll two official tissue yet b?