Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

I don't think I got that dog in me breh

If she was single though it'd be a completely different story

If that ain't you, don't do it. Never bring snakes into your life. If she's willing to easily cheat on her boyfriend like that, what benefit can she bring you? Even if it's just for play, what if she gets pregnant? You don't want to be tethered to a woman like that for 18 years of your life.

 

[kevm3]

nah hell no

i already called her out and she said "im not ignoring you bla bla", just the typical bs chicks say when there called out.

in all honestly , i got chicks waiting for me if it comes down to it

Yep. That's why I feel a man shouldn't really worry too much about women in this day and age. They are capable of leaving at any time for any reason, even if it isn't a sensible reason. You sit there, think you are building something with her, get super attached and she just decides to disappear. You simply have to have 10,000 things you make a priority over a woman unless you want to wreck your mind wondering what you did wrong and why she is leaving... in which the real answer is she probably experienced a lull in the relationship, felt bored and found a new entertainer to give her a bit of thrills.

 

[TRUEST]

sorry to say guys but the best way to deal with women is to expect them to be doing some trifling sh1t whenever they're not around u. if u think this way, u'd be suprised at how much sh1t wont hurt you if it does in fact happen.

that isn't to say u let sh1t slide if u actually catch them doing something bad. but i truly admire the man that can detach emotionally from a chick he really really likes (oxymoron).

this doesn't apply to all chicks btw. there are some chicks that u just know are down for you based on the amount of their time they spend on being nice to you. like for instance, i got a girl at my house right now just cleaning my place. she came to visit me after not seeing each other for years. she took one look at my apartment, went like, oh no, i goto clean this. and sure enough she's on her knees just handling business. she cant keep her hands off me. looks at me and treats me like i'm the best thing ever to walk planet earth.

if this girl was my girl, what r the chances she'd do some trifling sh1t?? very low.

 

[DaRealness]

sorry to say guys but the best way to deal with women is to expect them to be doing some trifling sh1t whenever they're not around u. if u think this way, u'd be suprised at how much sh1t wont hurt you if it does in fact happen.

that isn't to say if u let sh1t slide if u actually catch them doing something bad. but i truly admire the man that can detach emotionally from a chick he really really likes (oxymoron).

this doesn't apply to all chicks btw. there are some chicks that u just know are down for you based on the amount of their time they spend on being nice to you. like for instance, i got a girl at my house right now just cleaning my place. she came to visit me after not seeing each other for years. she took one look at my apartment, went like, oh no, i goto clean this. and sure enough she's on her knees just handling business. she cant keep her hands off me. looks at me and treats me like i'm the best thing ever to walk planet earth.

if this girl was my girl, what r the chances she'd do some trifling sh1t?? very low.

Does she have a twin?

 

[tekvek]

Women are funny brehs. Broke up with my ex in June, she already had a new dude by July. She's been posting on social media how in love she is. Come to find out dude is 30, no job or car. Ol girl pays for everything. Last week I see her and conversation turns to her dude. I say "that's dope that your in love" . She says "ahhh he's alright". She goes on to say how she's sticking around because she "doesn't want to start over".Keep in mind she's 30 with 2 kids but a good job so that could be her reasoning.

She goes on to say how she's bets I'm a big player now but adds "I bet they are all downgrades anyway". Just threw me off cause I expected to her to confirm what she's posting on social media. Had me thinking it's all for show and she still has feelings for the boy

 

[MikelArteta]

Yep. That's why I feel a man shouldn't really worry too much about women in this day and age. They are capable of leaving at any time for any reason, even if it isn't a sensible reason. You sit there, think you are building something with her, get super attached and she just decides to disappear. You simply have to have 10,000 things you make a priority over a woman unless you want to wreck your mind wondering what you did wrong and why she is leaving... in which the real answer is she probably experienced a lull in the relationship, felt bored and found a new entertainer to give her a bit of thrills.

its sad but true, luckily im a pro in the game, might finally cop me a ps4 or book a trp somewhere

 

[MikelArteta]

sorry to say guys but the best way to deal with women is to expect them to be doing some trifling sh1t whenever they're not around u. if u think this way, u'd be suprised at how much sh1t wont hurt you if it does in fact happen.

that isn't to say if u let sh1t slide if u actually catch them doing something bad. but i truly admire the man that can detach emotionally from a chick he really really likes (oxymoron).

this doesn't apply to all chicks btw. there are some chicks that u just know are down for you based on the amount of their time they spend on being nice to you. like for instance, i got a girl at my house right now just cleaning my place. she came to visit me after not seeing each other for years. she took one look at my apartment, went like, oh no, i goto clean this. and sure enough she's on her knees just handling business. she cant keep her hands off me. looks at me and treats me like i'm the best thing ever to walk planet earth.

if this girl was my girl, what r the chances she'd do some trifling sh1t?? very low.

 

[kevm3]

its sad but true, luckily im a pro in the game, might finally cop me a ps4 or book a trp somewhere

After you've been through it a few times, you sort of gain that apathy like oh well, whatever. Life is way too short to waste it by making your happiness contingent on what someone else is doing. Might as well go get that PS4 or hit some new restaurant and just enjoy the countless other blessings in life.

 

[EMainstreet]

I had a crazy realization the last couple days.

It is amazing how positively girls respond when you're direct.

I was texting a girl the other day and told myself fukk it lets take this sexual cause I'm never direct with girls...

Anyways I started texting her some dirty ass shyt expecting her to get mad at me and start bytching but the exact opposite happened.

I was nervous as shyt when I first wrote the text but wen she was feeling it I was like oh shyt being direct and unapologetic works.

 

[Ohene]

I had a crazy realization the last couple days.

It is amazing how positively girls respond when you're direct.

I was texting a girl the other day and told myself fukk it lets take this sexual cause I'm never direct with girls...

Anyways I started texting her some dirty ass shyt expecting her to get mad at me and start bytching but the exact opposite happened.

I was nervous as shyt when I first wrote the text but wen she was feeling it I was like oh shyt being direct and unapologetic works.

welcome breh

the beauty about keeping it real is that you wont ever have regrets. you know that at the very least youll always be dignified

 

[Youseenmywork]

Already chewed her out dont care.
Grandma for diagnosed with stage 4 cancer yesterday

...same with my grandmother ...she has some type of bone cancer...it's aggressive and she is in stage 4 as well. The gems she has been giving me about this life and women and what I need to do better ...all I can do is soak it in. I know how long she has to live to

 

[MikelArteta]

...same with my grandmother ...she has some type of bone cancer...it's aggressive and she is in stage 4 as well. The gems she has been giving me about this life and women and what I need to do better ...all I can do is soak it in. I know how long she has to live to

yeah shes having her 89th bday party on saturday im going, my sister went to see her on sunday she said shes so frail and has a tube

hat's why I only does it for grandma

 

[Gus Money]

She's literally said like one word to me past 3 days, till I called her out on it today. I know how women are emotionally detaching, so I'm always a step ahead.

Already chewed her out dont care.
Grandma for diagnosed with stage 4 cancer yesterday

Damn, man. Sorry to hear about your grandma. I hope she can fight it. And at least you know how to move when a girl gets distant. I booked a trip with some friends to New Orleans for New Year's and I can't wait for the sloppiness. I've been thinking of traveling overseas too, always wanted to see London.

Maybe your girl has some shyt going on though. Did she say anything of substance besides the "I'm not ignoring you" line?

 

[kevm3]

When someone you love gets sick, it's real tough. Life is just a breath and then it's gone... but then again there is a much better life on the other side for the righteous.

 

[Youseenmywork]

yeah shes having her 89th bday party on saturday im going, my sister went to see her on sunday she said shes so frail and has a tube

hat's why I only does it for grandma

...Yeah she has changed my life within the last 5 months. I plan on dropping a post " conversation with grandma" which I'm putting together as we speak. Lately she dosent do too much cause it takes all her energy. Going to the mail box tires her out.