Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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meet a chick at a party over the weekend, message her the next day and have a quick chit chat.
end up finding out that she works downtown so i suggest that we should meet up one day. turns out she works the nights so i suggest we should have lunch then. she agrees....bet
2 days later I message shorty asking what her schedule is like ...no reply.
day later (i figure fine...maybe she was busy at work) i message her again ... no reply
these girls make shyt difficult for no reason.
end up finding out that she works downtown so i suggest that we should meet up one day. turns out she works the nights so i suggest we should have lunch then. she agrees....bet
2 days later I message shorty asking what her schedule is like ...no reply.
day later (i figure fine...maybe she was busy at work) i message her again ... no reply
these girls make shyt difficult for no reason.
you: when do you get off work on so and so date?
her: blah blah
you: ok cool. let's meet at blah blah street at 8pm
her: (says some bullsh1t that doesn't translate to agreement to the date or does not provide an alternative time)
you: (you say and do nothing)
that's how the game goes my dude. its really not a game. at least this part isnt. girls who dont reply to you like this one did really dont end up working out anyway. cut your losses early.
So my current job is prob phasing me out in 5 months my bro in law is my boss and gave me the heads up, have my second interview next week.
Hope I can get it then take a package here
Hope I can get it then take a package here
I've had chicks I talked to like once or twice from tinder dissaear and go cold then weeks later hit me up like hey didn't you say you live near wonderland and ish.
That's how I got swindled by the fat girl angle last time
That's how I got swindled by the fat girl angle last time
DaRealness
I think very deeply
It's so fukking corny when they play these types of games.
Action Mike
All praise..
I feel like this message got moonwalked over. You aight breh???
its really not a game my dude. they just not feeling whoever the guy is that they're doing it to. or the guy was playing games with them and they get mad and wanna do it right back to him
Youseenmywork
KING
...dudes gotta stop worrying why women want fukk them ...let women worry why they won't fukk you.
This will seem random but I promise there's a point if you read to the end. For the past two months I've been looking to buy a new watch, and this one caught my eye recently. It's nothing special, and a little overpriced, but it fits my style and I like it. It was on sale last month but I was hesitating to buy it because I didn't want to spend that much money on myself. I always over-analyze things before making expensive purchases, especially for myself, so this was no surprise. I decided to sleep on it, but the sale ended the next day so I told myself that it wasn't meant to be and I would just wait for the next time it goes on sale. I hoped the price would drop even more next time and then I would feel better spending that much on myself.
The watch went on sale again today, but I found myself hesitating to buy it just like before. I have a new job that pays pretty decent money, but I just couldn't shake how uncomfortable I felt spending that much on myself for a simple watch. Then I started thinking about the amount of money I dropped without hesitation in my last relationship. Dinners, gifts, hotels, you name it, and this was while I was making an absolutely pitiful salary. My current salary is probably below the Coli average, but it's more than I've ever made and I have no debts holding me down, so there would be no financial strain at all from buying this watch.
I realized that I never thought twice about spending money on my ex back then because I valued her happiness so much, but look what it got me: an emotionally draining and unstable relationship where I wasn't appreciated despite sacrificing myself over and over again. And it also reminded me that my biggest problem has always been the fact that I put other people's happiness and comfort over my own, even if it impacts me negatively. My ex didn't need that new purse but I bought it without thinking twice because I wanted to make her happy more than I wanted to make myself happy. Her happiness was always worth that $40 dinner or the $70 sweater, but I hesitate to make even the most routine purchases for myself as if my own happiness isn't worth it. That's a problem and I need to face it.
I've been single for about two and a half months and I legitimately forgot what it's like to feel this.... free. I'm not anti-relationship but the relationships that I have been in all felt suffocating to an extent. Some of that is my fault, some of it the fault of the women I chose to date, but being single by choice for the first time in years has given me an opportunity to take care of myself and work on my flaws. I need to appreciate that, even when I'm feeling down or having a bad day.
I need to make myself and my happiness the top priorities in my life right now, because if I don't think I'm worth it then how can I expect to keep moving forward? I can't grow or improve my situation if I don't think my happiness is worth the price of something that's on sale. I got home tonight and bought that watch without hesitation, and I feel good as hell about it. I'm worth it and this is the mindset that I need to adopt permanently.
The watch went on sale again today, but I found myself hesitating to buy it just like before. I have a new job that pays pretty decent money, but I just couldn't shake how uncomfortable I felt spending that much on myself for a simple watch. Then I started thinking about the amount of money I dropped without hesitation in my last relationship. Dinners, gifts, hotels, you name it, and this was while I was making an absolutely pitiful salary. My current salary is probably below the Coli average, but it's more than I've ever made and I have no debts holding me down, so there would be no financial strain at all from buying this watch.
I realized that I never thought twice about spending money on my ex back then because I valued her happiness so much, but look what it got me: an emotionally draining and unstable relationship where I wasn't appreciated despite sacrificing myself over and over again. And it also reminded me that my biggest problem has always been the fact that I put other people's happiness and comfort over my own, even if it impacts me negatively. My ex didn't need that new purse but I bought it without thinking twice because I wanted to make her happy more than I wanted to make myself happy. Her happiness was always worth that $40 dinner or the $70 sweater, but I hesitate to make even the most routine purchases for myself as if my own happiness isn't worth it. That's a problem and I need to face it.
I've been single for about two and a half months and I legitimately forgot what it's like to feel this.... free. I'm not anti-relationship but the relationships that I have been in all felt suffocating to an extent. Some of that is my fault, some of it the fault of the women I chose to date, but being single by choice for the first time in years has given me an opportunity to take care of myself and work on my flaws. I need to appreciate that, even when I'm feeling down or having a bad day.
I need to make myself and my happiness the top priorities in my life right now, because if I don't think I'm worth it then how can I expect to keep moving forward? I can't grow or improve my situation if I don't think my happiness is worth the price of something that's on sale. I got home tonight and bought that watch without hesitation, and I feel good as hell about it. I'm worth it and this is the mindset that I need to adopt permanently.
As long as you're handling your responsibilities and have some money saved up, there's nothing wrong with copping something for yourself. You can't take all of that money with you anyways. Also, if you got the model number of that watch, look online. You can save a ton of money buying watches online.