i hate the fact that i have to take her out, spend 60 dollars
i have to make her laugh
hold doors for her
feed her stomach
and then by the end of the night i gotta hope she likes me
And If you don't your jot a gentleman

Women want equality but don't want to spend their own money
Men need to stop doing the pc restaurant movie etc., last chick I went out on a "date" with. I spent nothing, I met her, we went b the waterfront and sat and she talked.
Like others mention it is a job interview of you mess up early your done toast, she will continue to act nice then like malbaker said at the end a thanks for the night. Delete your number and get on to the next victim.
Here are some reincar tips to look out for, as a guy out of the "game"
Cancel your first date a few hours before and reschedule for the next day or the the day after that.
It always you to see if you have one of those chicks who line up dates with diff guys,if you get a bs excuse, I have gym or I have to stay late for work that day cut her and move on.
If she agrees to the reschedule you have the power now
Secondly, I noticed my breh malbaker i think it wqa mentioned cellphones
As for me I'll allow one checking of the phone in my presence meeting a chick for the first time, her girl will check in If everything is ok , so I'll allow that yeah he hasnt raped me text. Now anymore ? Nope, like mal mentioned its prob talking to a guy friend like hey want to come over later?
I will fully leave and end the night as a man of integrity of a girl is texting or calling someone more than once on my presence, it's disrespect right of the bar and my time is precious.
Now back to what mal I think it was mentioned and yup it's true women will fake it All night give you a hug or a thanks and then you leave , then one of her fwb or "azzholes" she was rambling about, will be the ones hitting it.
Patience
I remember this crazy ass chick I was messing with got mad because after two dates I didn't make any moves. And she told me if I don't kiss her next time or try to make a move she would think I'm not interested and maybe would even talk to other guys, can you believe chicks thinking they can manipulate reincar?
If you move to fast your a jerk a$$hole, if you don't you can't threaten with ultimatums.
And you know what I did? I just stopped talking to her, no one can tell me when I feel like kissing someone, wh can't you jus enjoy that I go out of my way to spend time with you
Women and that whole connection ish is bs, don't even try to decipher it, these are the same women who have done ons with guys who never. Aloes back because of their so called connection they felt.
Crap I'm on thE toilet writing this so pardon my grammatical errors and etc
I have more to write but I'll wrap it up heed his advice men take a break even for a month just unplug yourself from the pc bulk rap from dating from social networking dating sites, just avoid women, ear your eyes your thoughts then goo back if you must.
And I keep warning men about online dating meeting chicks its crap for the most part it's like a open house you will get your 15 min of privacy with the real estator and then some other dude will come offers will be made and she will take the best one or reject them all because she thinks she can get more .
I refuse to play that game I used to, I've prob met more chicks online than most men, from the way back getting their icq etc to Facebook,ish it funny getting these chicks fb and there's like 500 other guys already there on her list?
Men stop selling yourself short!