Stringer Bell
:pacspit: Clay Davis
All i can tell you brothers is never deal with a chick who has a man in prison. You just might have to get your hands dirty 

My cousin says his philisophy is he's gonna wait til the 1st round of divorces amongst ppl our age. LOL
Then he's gonna snag him a woman who's been divorced. I guess he feels they'll be more inclined to know what it takes to NOT make a relationship work so it'll work in the long run.And also maybe they'll be more apt to appreciate a good guy.
That's a terrible move, people who divorce are more likely to divorce again, it becomes "easier" to them.
2nd and 3rd marriages have ridiculously high divorce rates.
Well I understand his logic tho.
And I think he's thinking moreso along the lines of someone who REALLY wants to be married. These type of people might be more apt to appreciate a good person if their ex-spouse was terrible.
But I know what ur saying too.
All i can tell you brothers is never deal with a chick who has a man in prison. You just might have to get your hands dirty![]()
Well I understand his logic tho.
And I think he's thinking moreso along the lines of someone who REALLY wants to be married. These type of people might be more apt to appreciate a good person if their ex-spouse was terrible.
But I know what ur saying too.
I don't need no woman cookin for me cleaning up my mess,washing my clothes and treating me like some 10 year old boy.That isn't criteria that's necessary for me personally.If she can throw down in the kitchen cool, if not who cares
I rather have a down ass loyal chick who loves me unconditionally than some secondary momma.Them momma boys need that shyt.Men who take care of themselves don't
that gibbs jam
Me personally I figured out my "problem". I just don't believe in the system anymore. That system that says you meet a good girl you like and do right by her and she'll do right by you. You marry her and keep her happy and yall will be together for the rest of your life.
the problem with the system is there are people playing it that figured it out. They're playing to further their own selfish agenda. They're faking it so they can use honest players for their own selfish gain.
relationships and marriage are all a crap shoot. There's really nothing you can do to make them succeed because you can do everything right and have it fail on account of the other person. No cautionary actions or prep work can save you from that. People change, time changes them. Life changes people. Most of these changes aren't deliberate either. In 5 years the happy relationship with the love of your life can morph into something completely different.
when you no longer believe in the system it robs you of hope. You start to look at this thing like its the lotto. Like it takes being in the right place in the right time with a whole lot of luck to win and not hard work and effort. A lot of people play and a few win those of which may or may not deserve to win.
this is one area in life where good people are not necessarily rewarded and are in fact typically punished for their actions.
You stay makin blanket ass posts about everybody ELSE in every thread you post in.![]()
Fact is, if she can't cook, what the hell is ur kid gonna eat? He gonna eat McDonalds everyday....TV dinners...junk food? Is SHE gonna eat McDonalds everyday herself, get fat? Who's gonna wash ur kids clothes? Who's gonna clean up after him? Whos gonna fulfill the role of being his "mama"?
Oh I know. YOU.