Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Me personally I figured out my "problem". I just don't believe in the system anymore. That system that says you meet a good girl you like and do right by her and she'll do right by you. You marry her and keep her happy and yall will be together for the rest of your life.

the problem with the system is there are people playing it that figured it out. They're playing to further their own selfish agenda. They're faking it so they can use honest players for their own selfish gain.

relationships and marriage are all a crap shoot. There's really nothing you can do to make them succeed because you can do everything right and have it fail on account of the other person. No cautionary actions or prep work can save you from that. People change, time changes them. Life changes people. Most of these changes aren't deliberate either. In 5 years the happy relationship with the love of your life can morph into something completely different.

when you no longer believe in the system it robs you of hope. You start to look at this thing like its the lotto. Like it takes being in the right place in the right time with a whole lot of luck to win and not hard work and effort. A lot of people play and a few win those of which may or may not deserve to win.

this is one area in life where good people are not necessarily rewarded and are in fact typically punished for their actions.

Hope dies last

Like I said prior in the back of my mind there is a little hope that I'll
Meet someone who meets my requirements and is loyal and moral

But the odds are


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[god shamgod]

You stay makin blanket ass posts about everybody ELSE in every thread you post in.

Fact is, if she can't cook, what the hell is ur kid gonna eat? He gonna eat McDonalds everyday....TV dinners...junk food? Is SHE gonna eat McDonalds everyday herself, get fat? Who's gonna wash ur kids clothes? Who's gonna clean up after him? Whos gonna fulfill the role of being his "mama"?

Oh I know. YOU.

Dog that was the 1st post I made in this thread.If she cant Cook I CAN cook nikka,If she don't wash his clothes I'll do it.I'm a grown man dog I been takin care of myself for years and I'd teach my son/daughter the same thing don't depend on NOBODY to do the things you should be able to do

You nikkas need women to take care of you?

Jody did too.It's some good advice in this thread but some of you cats sound jaded

 

[Swing]

:I'd teach my son/daughter the same thing don't depend on NOBODY to do the things you should be able to do

 

[Wild self]

You stay makin blanket ass posts about everybody ELSE in every thread you post in.

Fact is, if she can't cook, what the hell is ur kid gonna eat? He gonna eat McDonalds everyday....TV dinners...junk food? Is SHE gonna eat McDonalds everyday herself, get fat? Who's gonna wash ur kids clothes? Who's gonna clean up after him? Whos gonna fulfill the role of being his "mama"?

Oh I know. YOU.

LOL If you eat junk everyday, good luck to that mama that is trying to live long enough to see her kids graduate.

 

[MikelArteta]

Was posted in another thread, just stirring back reading these stories

Get married brehs

Coping with Infidelity

It turns out, while I was watching the kids (cooking, cleaning, bathing, story) on a sunday
afternoon so she could go to the "massage parlor", she actually went to his house and slept
with him. The thing that pains me the most… is the blatant disrespect of our kids.
All she can do is say "I'm sooooo sorry" over and over again.. I feel she's just sorry she got caught.

 

[god shamgod]

That nikka sound helpless."If she cant cook what are they gonna eat? McDonald's junk food!?!!?"

These nikkas are kids out here they need mommy/their women to help them fend in this cold world or they'd be lost.

 

[Tres Leches]

That nikka sound helpless."If she cant cook what are they gonna eat? McDonald's junk food!?!!?"

These nikkas are kids out here they need mommy/their women to help them fend in this cold world or they'd be lost.

you're telling me you wouldn't mind having to cook for your girl daily ? I'm saying if it turns out she can't cook for nothing

 

[god shamgod]

you're telling me you wouldn't mind having to cook for your girl daily ? I'm saying if it turns out she can't cook for nothing

Besides basic things I don't/can't cook at all.I'm a bony nikka I couldn't care less about home cooked meals and eating 3-4 times a day.I was saying in general I don't care about a woman cooking for me since I take care of myself

If she can cool if she cant cool.Those jody nikkas need that.They need a mama to cook for them,tuck em in,wash their clothes/fold em,iron them,lay out their clothes for the week and wash the dishes.

I dont.Me and my boy argue about this all the time he needs a woman around him at all times he into the bible and all that bullshyt the bible says about womens roles

I aint on that.

 

[TRUEST]

That nikka sound helpless."If she cant cook what are they gonna eat? McDonald's junk food!?!!?"

These nikkas are kids out here they need mommy/their women to help them fend in this cold world or they'd be lost.

so let me get this straight.

you are willing to marry a chick who brings nothing to the relationship?

u come home from work, u have to take care of everything? what will she be doing in the relationship? or have you not thought that far ahead?

 

[TRUEST]

Besides basic things I don't/can't cook at all.I'm a bony nikka I couldn't care less about home cooked meals and eating 3-4 times a day.I was saying in general I don't care about a woman cooking for me since I take care of myself

If she can cool if she cant cool.Those jody nikkas need that.They need a mama to cook for them,tuck em in,wash their clothes/fold em,iron them,lay out their clothes for the week and wash the dishes.

I dont.Me and my boy argue about this all the time he needs a woman around him at all times he into the bible and all that bullshyt the bible says about womens roles

I aint on that.

maybe you're gay. and im not saying that to disrespect u. but everything in ur post reeks of colorful flames.

 

[god shamgod]

Iiight

Since we have different perspectives on this you reply "Maybe You're gay" fukk outta here

 

[Wild self]

Besides basic things I don't/can't cook at all.I'm a bony nikka I couldn't care less about home cooked meals and eating 3-4 times a day.I was saying in general I don't care about a woman cooking for me since I take care of myself

If she can cool if she cant cool.Those jody nikkas need that.They need a mama to cook for them,tuck em in,wash their clothes/fold em,iron them,lay out their clothes for the week and wash the dishes.

I dont.Me and my boy argue about this all the time he needs a woman around him at all times he into the bible and all that bullshyt the bible says about womens roles

I aint on that.

"They need a mama to cook for them,tuck em in, wash their clothes/fold em..."

Seriously? If that chick is wifey to you, then she will be someone's mama. ANd I'll be damned if a chick with a kids refuses to put effort to taking measures to grew her kids properly simply because of egotistical reasons.

 

[jadillac]

Dog that was the 1st post I made in this thread.If she cant Cook I CAN cook nikka,If she don't wash his clothes I'll do it.I'm a grown man dog I been takin care of myself for years and I'd teach my son/daughter the same thing don't depend on NOBODY to do the things you should be able to do[/B]
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I didnt say THIS thread...I said EVERY thread I see you post in. You're always on some tryna one-up stuff...

Nobody NEEDS a woman to take care of THEM....but it doesnt hurt for someone to fulfill traditional gender roles.

You're gonna teach ur 2-6 year old kid how to COOK, clean, be fully dependent on themselves?

Meanwhile ur lady does what? Be a down-loyal chick? She better be a down-loyal chick if she isn't doing anything else.

But anyway, this thread isn't about arguing, so do what you do, man....

 

[Not By Bread Alone]

some good advice in this thread but some of you cats sound jaded

True, a lot of jaded comments recently.

As for finding a woman to cook for you - what century are you living in? Household duties should be shared.

 

[jadillac]

True, a lot of jaded comments recently.

As for finding a woman to cook for you - what century are you living in? Household duties should be shared.

I'm living in the century where alot of women in other parts of the world, and still some small amount in the USA, know that it's good if a woman knows how to cook, and be a mother/husband to her children.

What century are you living in?

There's nothing wrong with sharing duties, but if you as a man know how to change a flat, fix the toilet, mow the grass, etc., yet ur woman doesnt cook, or clean(this isnt even a skill, but moreso an effort), etc., then what are you really doing?