Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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You kinda expect the thread to simmer down and it never does. It never stops. All to prove day after day that everybody's crazy.

More wisdom everyday :ohlawd:.

This thread is a greater journey than reading the entire Bible. Info like this already changed people lives.
 

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The other day at work(well not really work but I'll get to it), this chick just randomly approached me. Here's the backstory.

I work at a car rental office and I drive the cars to the car lot where all the cars come from and the chick works there. Past few months I been going there I seen this little chick who I thought was a little sexy and her being like the only female there made it more apparent.

I hardly talk to anyone there I just drive in, gas and clean the car then I'm on my way. I see her but I never said nothing to her nor tried to make eye contact.

Fast forward a few months later I go in doing what i do and I'm at the gas pump near her and she just randomly come up to me like "Why you soo quiet??"" I chopped it up for a few seconds and she then asked for my name and I got her name. I then go back a little bit later and find out she lives really close to my house(literally a few blocks). Her facial expression was all "I'm happy I'm finally talking to you" ish.
The next day she attempts to break the ice again by coming up to me and asking for my name again. I told her she's bullshytting and that she know's my name. I then tell her some bullshyt name "Jean" and she's like

:usure: "that's not what you said last time!!" So I go "well what did I say then??" and she said my name. I'm at this point just measuring how much interest she has based on her actions thus forth.


I get her number a day later and we chatted it up that night. The next day she was off but today she was back and when I came there I saw her but I didn't go up to her and say wassup since she was a bit further away and plus her co-workers look like they were talking about something work related with her. I leave and come back like 20 minutes later(I go back and forth there repeatedly throughout my shift.) I ignore her again because I walked towards her to get something and she turned around to see something someone told her about.

I felt she could've at least waved so I just ignored her again and the third time I go back there she pulls up in the stall closest to me and waves her fingers at me basically saying "Hi."

I gave her a :hmm: "wassup" and kept it moving. I come back and she's there again and I'm doing me when she just randomly blurts out "You not talking to me!??"

:ahh: I then said some bs about her working and I ain't want to get her in trouble or reprimanded for talking too much and I jokingly said she was funny.

I did all that because I thought she was ignoring me and I wanted to see if she was really paying me attention. Nonetheless I'm gonna see what's good later. :youngsabo: I feel as though when you just focus on what you gotta do and not worry about a particular girl, she's probably going to get a little bit intrigued on why your not talking to her.

Do you work for Enterprise breh? :comeon:
 

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The other day at work(well not really work but I'll get to it), this chick just randomly approached me. Here's the backstory.

I work at a car rental office and I drive the cars to the car lot where all the cars come from and the chick works there. Past few months I been going there I seen this little chick who I thought was a little sexy and her being like the only female there made it more apparent.

I hardly talk to anyone there I just drive in, gas and clean the car then I'm on my way. I see her but I never said nothing to her nor tried to make eye contact.

Fast forward a few months later I go in doing what i do and I'm at the gas pump near her and she just randomly come up to me like "Why you soo quiet??"" I chopped it up for a few seconds and she then asked for my name and I got her name. I then go back a little bit later and find out she lives really close to my house(literally a few blocks). Her facial expression was all "I'm happy I'm finally talking to you" ish.
The next day she attempts to break the ice again by coming up to me and asking for my name again. I told her she's bullshytting and that she know's my name. I then tell her some bullshyt name "Jean" and she's like

:usure: "that's not what you said last time!!" So I go "well what did I say then??" and she said my name. I'm at this point just measuring how much interest she has based on her actions thus forth.


I get her number a day later and we chatted it up that night. The next day she was off but today she was back and when I came there I saw her but I didn't go up to her and say wassup since she was a bit further away and plus her co-workers look like they were talking about something work related with her. I leave and come back like 20 minutes later(I go back and forth there repeatedly throughout my shift.) I ignore her again because I walked towards her to get something and she turned around to see something someone told her about.

I felt she could've at least waved so I just ignored her again and the third time I go back there she pulls up in the stall closest to me and waves her fingers at me basically saying "Hi."

I gave her a :hmm: "wassup" and kept it moving. I come back and she's there again and I'm doing me when she just randomly blurts out "You not talking to me!??"

:ahh: I then said some bs about her working and I ain't want to get her in trouble or reprimanded for talking too much and I jokingly said she was funny.

I did all that because I thought she was ignoring me and I wanted to see if she was really paying me attention. Nonetheless I'm gonna see what's good later. :youngsabo: I feel as though when you just focus on what you gotta do and not worry about a particular girl, she's probably going to get a little bit intrigued on why your not talking to her.
having a friendship with a woman you work with is cool if and only if its just a friendship and nothing more. have sex with that woman or seriously date her and its like taking a shyt on your bed then lying right next to it and going to sleep.

most men when they're presented p*ssy their mind locks on to it like here's some p*ssy i can get i'mma fukk with it. really though you should always maintain a degree of separation from whoever it is you fukk with. that way if something goes wrong you walk make a clean break and walk away with no harm or foul.

you work with this woman and if you end up fukking with her when everything is good its cool but if things go south you won't be able to easily cut her off. another thing is women can be mean vindictive and spiteful creatures when things go wrong. do you really wanna deal with the fallout of falling out with a co worker?

there are plenty of attractive women in the world you don't work with. in fact there are more of them than there are the ones you do work with. they may take more effort than the low hanging fruit at the job but the potential breakup is easier to deal with.
 

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few things to watch for
1/marlyn monroll fan
2/sharpie eyebrows
3/animal print

I dropped alot of girls because of those 3 mentioned
 

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having a friendship with a woman you work with is cool if and only if its just a friendship and nothing more. have sex with that woman or seriously date her and its like taking a shyt on your bed then lying right next to it and going to sleep.

most men when they're presented p*ssy their mind locks on to it like here's some p*ssy i can get i'mma fukk with it. really though you should always maintain a degree of separation from whoever it is you fukk with. that way if something goes wrong you walk make a clean break and walk away with no harm or foul.

you work with this woman and if you end up fukking with her when everything is good its cool but if things go south you won't be able to easily cut her off. another thing is women can be mean vindictive and spiteful creatures when things go wrong. do you really wanna deal with the fallout of falling out with a co worker?

there are plenty of attractive women in the world you don't work with. in fact there are more of them than there are the ones you do work with. they may take more effort than the low hanging fruit at the job but the potential breakup is easier to deal with.
I understand what you saying but to provide more clarification I don't work with her period. She works at some other place a few minutes from where I work and stay at. My job is kind of an subsidiary of her job and that's why I get to go there.

I literally come to work, do what I do and if a car needs gas I drive over to Hertz and gas the car up. I just see her there because she works in the area where I gas the cars up. Also my job is going under another company soon so I won't be around there for too long.

Honestly though I'm not too sure what's going on with her atm because after yesterday when she asked if I'm not talking to her no more she definitely seemed to be emotionally invested in me to the point that she'd ask me that because I wasn't jocking her.

She literally lives very close to my house(literally like 20 minutes walking if I may). I'm tryna get her to slide thru and do the deed :youngsabo: I been eyeing her for a minute :shaq:

. Last night I text her @ like 12AM and she's at the club and shyt texting back "LOL", "IM DRUNK", "LEAVE ME ALONE" I'm like :mjpls: "ight"
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Nah I really was feeling like :sadcam: I'm carrying the proverbial basket full of eggs.
 

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. Last night I text her @ like 12AM and she's at the club and shyt texting back "LOL", "IM DRUNK", "LEAVE ME ALONE" I'm like :mjpls: "ight"
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Nah I really was feeling like :sadcam: I'm carrying the proverbial basket full of eggs.

She wants u to :cape:
 

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If a woman doesnt wanna cook for you something is wrong.Look its good to know how to cook for ourselves and household duties can be shared.We the men do everything in the relationship regardless,so the least we can get is a meal! If a woman doesnt care to at least make a sandwich for you,or attempt to cook, Then its a red flag.Thats probably the same type of woman,who WOULDNT wanna have your kid.
 

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2 things to realize about men and women


1. Men would ideally want ONE woman to give their heart to, and still have the ability to fukk other women because of natural desires

2. Women would Ideally want ONE man to have sex with, but give their hearts to other men because of their natural desires of variety in love.


When a woman has a man that does everything right, in terms of consistency, the excitement fades. Only because women dont want to have ONE TYPE of man to love, they would rather have 5 dudes to fall in love with.

1.Nice Guy 2.Cocky Guy 3.Mysterious Guy 4.Funny Guy 5.Emotionally Distant guy

this is what gets women going....this is why most women Cheat...its nothing physical, its mostly emotional

reasons why us dudes cheat, is mostly physical, nothing emotional....

just thinking out loud brehs....
 

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2 things to realize about men and women


1. Men would ideally want ONE woman to give their heart to, and still have the ability to fukk other women because of natural desires

2. Women would Ideally want ONE man to have sex with, but give their hearts to other men because of their natural desires of variety in love.


When a woman has a man that does everything right, in terms of consistency, the excitement fades. Only because women dont want to have ONE TYPE of man to love, they would rather have 5 dudes to fall in love with.

1.Nice Guy 2.Cocky Guy 3.Mysterious Guy 4.Funny Guy 5.Emotionally Distant guy

this is what gets women going....this is why most women Cheat...its nothing physical, its mostly emotional

reasons why us dudes cheat, is mostly physical, nothing emotional....

just thinking out loud brehs....

So the best thing for us to do if we want the chick to stay is be nice once in a while, get cocky, stay mysterious and be funny and become emotionally distant??
:steviej:
 

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So the best thing for us to do if we want the chick to stay is be nice once in a while, get cocky, stay mysterious and be funny and become emotionally distant??
:steviej:

if u gotta do that, she gotta learn to swallow, take it up the ass with a smile on her face, throw it back as fast as pinky, and throw it down in the kitchen like rachael ray :yeshrug: even trade off
 
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