Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Not By Bread Alone]

I'm living in the century where alot of women in other parts of the world, and still some small amount in the USA, know that it's good if a woman knows how to cook, and be a mother/husband to her children

I see that. Though I'm saying responsibilities should be shared. Just as it's good for a women to know how to cook, so should a man. It's a bonus for sure, but to expect a woman to do these things for you, because you either refuse to or can't do it yourself, is not even acting like an adult, nevermind a man.

All depends on what you're attracted to in a woman - for me those traditional gender roles are outdated. Especially if you're both working.

 

[MikelArteta]

Jody did too.It's some good advice in this thread but some of you cats sound jaded

shaming language 101

it amazes me how women can bash men, cheat on men, emasculate and belittle man everyhwere in court, on tv, in newspaper, out in public but if a man makes remarks or does not do the usual pc comments hes spewing misogynstic jaded comments

 

[sixsixtwo]

Weak nikka shyt:

"The Texas teacher, filmed having sex with four students at her suburban home, has spoken out claiming that she is the actual victim in the case.


Brittni Colleps, 28, a former English teacher at the Kennedale High School outside Fort Worth, Texas, says that the students, who were all aged 18, conspired to film their sex romp without her consent and distributed the footage and that in no way did she every prey on anybody.


Meanwhile, Colleps' husband Christopher, an Army specialist who was away when his wife was having sex with students in May 2011, said he still loves the mother of his three children and even pleaded with the jury to show her mercy in sentencing."


Teacher filmed having group sex with students insists SHE is the victim - and her husband reveals why he is standing by her in jail | Mail Online

 

[god shamgod]

Rename this thread waiting to exhale for males

 

[winb83]

so let me get this straight.

you are willing to marry a chick who brings nothing to the relationship?

u come home from work, u have to take care of everything? what will she be doing in the relationship? or have you not thought that far ahead?

Cooking and cleaning ain't bringing jack shyt to the relationship IMO. That's like washing her ass status to me. She gets no credit for doing that basic stuff. Now if were talking a woman that's responsible and good with money and financially sensible that's bringing something to the relationship.

 

[beezy]

Weak nikka shyt:

"The Texas teacher, filmed having sex with four students at her suburban home, has spoken out claiming that she is the actual victim in the case.


Brittni Colleps, 28, a former English teacher at the Kennedale High School outside Fort Worth, Texas, says that the students, who were all aged 18, conspired to film their sex romp without her consent and distributed the footage and that in no way did she every prey on anybody.


Meanwhile, Colleps' husband Christopher, an Army specialist who was away when his wife was having sex with students in May 2011, said he still loves the mother of his three children and even pleaded with the jury to show her mercy in sentencing."


Teacher filmed having group sex with students insists SHE is the victim - and her husband reveals why he is standing by her in jail | Mail Online

DAFUQ IS WRONG WITH HER HUSBAND

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Another gem:

Ever wonder why pretty much all girls' ex boyfriends are a$$holes and jerks? Why they're macho idiots and how much they flustered and angered them when they talked down to them and treated them like shyt? Some guys take longer than others to realize this than others, but the reason for this is that women like men like this because they perceive the bad treatment as the manifestation of confidence.

With this said, I am absolutely not saying to just treat women like shyt and expect them to come running to you. What I'm saying is that you need to carefully take stock of how you personally can manifest your own confidence in a way that is best fitting to your personality. I personally prefer to keep my cool and not fly off the handle. Taking a more intellectual route is more befitting to my personality and it keeps me out of getting into any kind of physical confrontations with other guys. I end up talking up other girls within eye and earshot of a girl I'm interested to make her jealous and pique her interest. I keep an occasional cocky smirk ready if I catch her staring at me. If I put my hand around her waist, I'm firm and authoritative.

Keep the goofy/funny stuff to a minimum unless it happens to be a really witty quip or if you have a really good rebuttal to some dumb shyt another guy is trying to say around your girl. Wit is one thing, acting like a real life Zach Galifianakis is something completely different.

Other guys like to be outright mean, but girls get tired of that pretty quick sometimes unless they have some serious daddy issues and need a man like that. But if someone you meet is like that then you don't want to be a part of this girl's life, anyway.

So anyway, yeah. Just make sure your confidence has manifested outwardly in an obvious way that you can make work best for you.

 

[winb83]

Another gem:

Ever wonder why pretty much all girls' ex boyfriends are a$$holes and jerks? Why they're macho idiots and how much they flustered and angered them when they talked down to them and treated them like shyt? Some guys take longer than others to realize this than others, but the reason for this is that women like men like this because they perceive the bad treatment as the manifestation of confidence.

With this said, I am absolutely not saying to just treat women like shyt and expect them to come running to you. What I'm saying is that you need to carefully take stock of how you personally can manifest your own confidence in a way that is best fitting to your personality. I personally prefer to keep my cool and not fly off the handle. Taking a more intellectual route is more befitting to my personality and it keeps me out of getting into any kind of physical confrontations with other guys. I end up talking up other girls within eye and earshot of a girl I'm interested to make her jealous and pique her interest. I keep an occasional cocky smirk ready if I catch her staring at me. If I put my hand around her waist, I'm firm and authoritative.

Keep the goofy/funny stuff to a minimum unless it happens to be a really witty quip or if you have a really good rebuttal to some dumb shyt another guy is trying to say around your girl. Wit is one thing, acting like a real life Zach Galifianakis is something completely different.

Other guys like to be outright mean, but girls get tired of that pretty quick sometimes unless they have some serious daddy issues and need a man like that. But if someone you meet is like that then you don't want to be a part of this girl's life, anyway.

So anyway, yeah. Just make sure your confidence has manifested outwardly in an obvious way that you can make work best for you.

liking someone and finding someone attractive are two entirely different things and have no relation or bearing to one another. if you wanna get a woman to be into you then you'd be aiming for attraction. she may or may not like you as a person but attraction is a sort of emotional pull that transcends liking.

many men seem to approach this form a logical standpoint of if i can get her to like me i can win her over. her liking you is worthless. the guy she likes but isn't attracted to gets played the guy she doesn't like but is attracted to gets the p*ssy.

 

[MikelArteta]

Another gem:

Ever wonder why pretty much all girls' ex boyfriends are a$$holes and jerks? Why they're macho idiots and how much they flustered and angered them when they talked down to them and treated them like shyt? Some guys take longer than others to realize this than others, but the reason for this is that women like men like this because they perceive the bad treatment as the manifestation of confidence.

With this said, I am absolutely not saying to just treat women like shyt and expect them to come running to you. What I'm saying is that you need to carefully take stock of how you personally can manifest your own confidence in a way that is best fitting to your personality. I personally prefer to keep my cool and not fly off the handle. Taking a more intellectual route is more befitting to my personality and it keeps me out of getting into any kind of physical confrontations with other guys. I end up talking up other girls within eye and earshot of a girl I'm interested to make her jealous and pique her interest. I keep an occasional cocky smirk ready if I catch her staring at me. If I put my hand around her waist, I'm firm and authoritative.

Keep the goofy/funny stuff to a minimum unless it happens to be a really witty quip or if you have a really good rebuttal to some dumb shyt another guy is trying to say around your girl. Wit is one thing, acting like a real life Zach Galifianakis is something completely different.

Other guys like to be outright mean, but girls get tired of that pretty quick sometimes unless they have some serious daddy issues and need a man like that. But if someone you meet is like that then you don't want to be a part of this girl's life, anyway.

So anyway, yeah. Just make sure your confidence has manifested outwardly in an obvious way that you can make work best for you.

why change the way you are for some chick? i used to do that when i was younger like a chameleon, a chick wants a nice guy thats me, she was the a$$hole that's me, but f that now. I will not change the way i am for any chick.

 

[MikelArteta]

liking someone and finding someone attractive are two entirely different things and have no relation or bearing to one another. if you wanna get a woman to be into you then you'd be aiming for attraction. she may or may not like you as a person but attraction is a sort of emotional pull that transcends liking.

many men seem to approach this form a logical standpoint of if i can get her to like me i can win her over. her liking you is worthless. the guy she likes but isn't attracted to gets played the guy she doesn't like but is attracted to gets the p*ssy.

yep she likes you, lets wait like 3 months before we have sex ok, your such a nice guy.

the guy she is attracted to is getting in the first night

 

[sixsixtwo]

Bad Decision:
“I’m going out and getting drunk with my friends.”

Resulting Consequences:
Drunken and unsatisfactory hookup sex with a stranger.

Hamster Processing Result:
“I was drunk and he took advantage of me or maybe even raped me! Maybe it was a date rape drug!”

Final Result:
“It’s not my fault.”

Bad Decision:
“I deserve only the most attractive and successful man despite the fact that I don’t have much to offer in the context of dating and relationships.”

Resulting Consequences:
Can’t find any man for dating or a relationship or only has one-night stands.

Hamster Processing Result:
“There are no good men” or “Men suck”

Final Result:
“It’s not my fault.”

Bad Decision:
“I have such chemistry [vagina tingles!] with this guy so I’ll ignore the obvious red flags regarding his character.”

Resulting Consequences:
The sex is great for a short time and then the guy dumps her.

Hamster Processing Result:
“All men are players”

Final Result:
“It’s not my fault.”

Bad Decision:
I want to have a baby but I don’t have a man.

Resulting Consequences:
8lb bundle of “joy” through dubious means and resultant loss of career opportunities because of time management issues.

Hamster Processing Result:
“I’m a strong and empowered woman fulfilling her own needs but who has an employer who doesn’t support my lifestyle decision.”

Final Result:
“It’s not my fault."

 

[Fatboi1]

The other day at work(well not really work but I'll get to it), this chick just randomly approached me. Here's the backstory.

I work at a car rental office and I drive the cars to the car lot where all the cars come from and the chick works there. Past few months I been going there I seen this little chick who I thought was a little sexy and her being like the only female there made it more apparent.

I hardly talk to anyone there I just drive in, gas and clean the car then I'm on my way. I see her but I never said nothing to her nor tried to make eye contact.

Fast forward a few months later I go in doing what i do and I'm at the gas pump near her and she just randomly come up to me like "Why you soo quiet??"" I chopped it up for a few seconds and she then asked for my name and I got her name. I then go back a little bit later and find out she lives really close to my house(literally a few blocks). Her facial expression was all "I'm happy I'm finally talking to you" ish.
The next day she attempts to break the ice again by coming up to me and asking for my name again. I told her she's bullshytting and that she know's my name. I then tell her some bullshyt name "Jean" and she's like

"that's not what you said last time!!" So I go "well what did I say then??" and she said my name. I'm at this point just measuring how much interest she has based on her actions thus forth.


I get her number a day later and we chatted it up that night. The next day she was off but today she was back and when I came there I saw her but I didn't go up to her and say wassup since she was a bit further away and plus her co-workers look like they were talking about something work related with her. I leave and come back like 20 minutes later(I go back and forth there repeatedly throughout my shift.) I ignore her again because I walked towards her to get something and she turned around to see something someone told her about.

I felt she could've at least waved so I just ignored her again and the third time I go back there she pulls up in the stall closest to me and waves her fingers at me basically saying "Hi."

I gave her a "wassup" and kept it moving. I come back and she's there again and I'm doing me when she just randomly blurts out "You not talking to me!??"

I then said some bs about her working and I ain't want to get her in trouble or reprimanded for talking too much and I jokingly said she was funny.

I did all that because I thought she was ignoring me and I wanted to see if she was really paying me attention. Nonetheless I'm gonna see what's good later. I feel as though when you just focus on what you gotta do and not worry about a particular girl, she's probably going to get a little bit intrigued on why your not talking to her.

 

[Atlrocafella]

I read this thread everyday like scripture.

 

[Atlrocafella]

The other day at work(well not really work but I'll get to it), this chick just randomly approached me. Here's the backstory.

I work at a car rental office and I drive the cars to the car lot where all the cars come from and the chick works there. Past few months I been going there I seen this little chick who I thought was a little sexy and her being like the only female there made it more apparent.

I hardly talk to anyone there I just drive in, gas and clean the car then I'm on my way. I see her but I never said nothing to her nor tried to make eye contact.

Fast forward a few months later I go in doing what i do and I'm at the gas pump near her and she just randomly come up to me like "Why you soo quiet??"" I chopped it up for a few seconds and she then asked for my name and I got her name. I then go back a little bit later and find out she lives really close to my house(literally a few blocks). Her facial expression was all "I'm happy I'm finally talking to you" ish.
The next day she attempts to break the ice again by coming up to me and asking for my name again. I told her she's bullshytting and that she know's my name. I then tell her some bullshyt name "Jean" and she's like

"that's not what you said last time!!" So I go "well what did I say then??" and she said my name. I'm at this point just measuring how much interest she has based on her actions thus forth.


I get her number a day later and we chatted it up that night. The next day she was off but today she was back and when I came there I saw her but I didn't go up to her and say wassup since she was a bit further away and plus her co-workers look like they were talking about something work related with her. I leave and come back like 20 minutes later(I go back and forth there repeatedly throughout my shift.) I ignore her again because I walked towards her to get something and she turned around to see something someone told her about.

I felt she could've at least waved so I just ignored her again and the third time I go back there she pulls up in the stall closest to me and waves her fingers at me basically saying "Hi."

I gave her a "wassup" and kept it moving. I come back and she's there again and I'm doing me when she just randomly blurts out "You not talking to me!??"

I then said some bs about her working and I ain't want to get her in trouble or reprimanded for talking too much and I jokingly said she was funny.

I did all that because I thought she was ignoring me and I wanted to see if she was really paying me attention. Nonetheless I'm gonna see what's good later. I feel as though when you just focus on what you gotta do and not worry about a particular girl, she's probably going to get a little bit intrigued on why your not talking to her.

Salute Breh..She was waiting on signs to see if you were Thirsty and a Simp, being all giddy to see her and shyt, so she could go back to her co-workers on some " this nikka keep jocking me". instead you showed that she doesn't affect your daily life and you gonna keep it moving with or without her..That's what really had her like

 

[ineedsleep212]

I read this thread everyday like scripture.

You kinda expect the thread to simmer down and it never does. It never stops. All to prove day after day that everybody's crazy.

More wisdom everyday .